Since I said no living together without marriage he's backed off
Q. Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months, he is 39 and I am 27. We don't live together and he stays about an hour away from me, for the last 15 months I have been going to visit him every weekend, ...
A. 29 April 2014: You are already having sex with him and staying about 8 nights in a month at his place why wouldn't you just move in? ( I don't see what are the parents against here if you already doing it)
If you want marriage more than this guy then move on. ... (read in full...)
He was rude and dismissive until I resigned ...
Q. I'm feeling a little upset and annoyed over something so your advice is appreciated. My mother in law has been widowed for the past 6 years and has always been very independent. Unfortunately over the past year her health has deteriorated so ...
A. 22 March 2014: First of all I want to applaud you for taking care of your mother in law. secondly, Your boss is rude, He shouldn't talk to you like that. it's rude for him to ask you to have your mother in law in a care home. Sometimes it's not just about business ... (read in full...)
Which is more important in a partner: being physically attractive, or being good in bed?
Q. I have a general question for everyone. Do you prefer a partner who is good looking but boring in bed, or a partner who is average looking but good in bed?...
A. 8 December 2013: I go with attractive. I'll teach her how to be good in bed:)... (read in full...)
He tried to stick me with the bill on our first meeting ...
Q. I met this guy who I thought really likes me. We exchanged phone numbers, and few days later he offered to meet. So we go for a walk in one of the cool areas of the city, and we walk and walk, walk and walk, talk and around 2 p.m. I felt naut...
A. 8 December 2013: It's really disturbing to see how women think about paying bills for food. I am speechless. Why do you take a guy's act of kindness for granted then? I went out with girls before, and they really genuinly offered to pay for me which I do not accept, ... (read in full...)
He tried to stick me with the bill on our first meeting ...
Q. I met this guy who I thought really likes me. We exchanged phone numbers, and few days later he offered to meet. So we go for a walk in one of the cool areas of the city, and we walk and walk, walk and walk, talk and around 2 p.m. I felt naut...
A. 7 December 2013: ok not to make things worst because you already cried and I don't wanna be cruel, it's this simple:
you should have paid and never seen the guy if you really thought he wasa free loader.
It's gonna come situation when you have to pay for the othe... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 29 November 2013: P.S : the insecurity doesn't have a relation with the size of the toy...it's having something pleasuring you more than your man.A man feels it's his duty to make himself/you happy that you will never look elsewhere...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?
Q. I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were ...
A. 23 November 2013: Just a reminder ...those damn emails.... (read in full...)
If he's happy then why is he still on dating sites?
Q. Hi everyone, I am hoping someone (preferably with experience of this) could shed some light on my problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than three years. He says he is happy. If he is happy, then why does he keep going to dating ...
A. 23 November 2013: Wait, let me guess...He lives in your place? ..I know someone who had this problem. I could see it if it's a month post being in a relationship but not three years...Come on.... (read in full...)
Did I overreact to comments about my weight?
Q. I think I might have over reacted. I was texting back and forwards with this guy I had not dated yet. Everything was going well until he made this comment ~i don't usually date girls like you, but you look decent~ when i asked him what did he mean ...
A. 23 November 2013: He was a dick. He should've said he didn't mean that or something not make things worse...you don't want this kinda Drama. ... (read in full...)
He forgot my birthday! Is this normal for a boyfriend to do this?
Q. Boyfriend of 4 years forgot to wish me happy birthday despite having texting the whole time. I was giving him the benefit of doubt and waited. When I confronted, he said he's busy rushing some work. I know what all of you would say but really, ...
A. 23 November 2013: P.S : Happy Belated Birthday! ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 23 November 2013: No Shna, she shouldn't for a video. NEVER TAKE NUDE PICT OR VIDEOS AND SEND THEM TO YOU BF (at least not one that include ur face). A HUGE NO. we are IMMATURE when we break-up. Don't do it. Let her stick to phone sex.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 23 November 2013: If you are in a relationship it's better not to masturbate alone. You can always get a toy and use it when he is there as a way to heat things up or He could use it on you. personally I feel weird about women using sex toys for hygienic reasons. ... (read in full...)
What should I do? I have realised that I deserve better than how she treats me
Q. Hi all, I have an issue which has many facets so I will try to summaries it as best as I can. - Been with girlfriend for 6 years (she is in mid twenties) - She has a minor disability and I look after her every need.. probably too much! - L...
A. 20 November 2013: Give us a follow-up. I'll be interested to find out what next for you! Good luck. Also not being able to afford the house isn't an excuse to stay in a relationship that makes you miserable. and it's not that bad if she can't cook...work on it ... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from him for 30 hours. Should I wait it out?
Q. I've been seeing someone from work for the last three months or so, its going really well but we've kept it on the down low as he was my supervisor. Although now I've been promoted and no longer under his supervision it doesn't seem as bad but ...
A. 20 November 2013: Thanks god he's oky! thanks for giving us an update, I don't know him and I was worried...Next time trust your instinct :) don't feel awful, you asked for help on here...and you went over his house Chapeau!
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He has this friend who really has a thing for him and who would like me out of the picture
Q. I've been seeing this guy I met online since July (about 5 months), very casually, on and off. I like him a lot, I enjoy being with him, and the sex is phenomenal. He's a bit of a commitment phobe and so am I, so neither of us is rushing toward a ...
A. 12 November 2013: The fact is there is no other woman if you haven't met her. He created her to control you. damn he is good...... (read in full...)
My mum's a selfish evil cruel gameplayer. I don't respect her at all!!!!!
Q. so it was about a year that i knew bout the fact that my mom was cheating on my dad. their relationship was AWFUL. they tried to get divorced when i was 5 but they didnt becuz my little brother came along.well according to what my aunt said they ...
A. 10 November 2013: Talk to her, let all your feelings out and tell her what you know.(talk to your dad as well and have him in there).
Tell them what you feel and let it out.
If you can't face your parents talk to a close relative( Grandma or aunt) and tell her what... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from him for 30 hours. Should I wait it out?
Q. I've been seeing someone from work for the last three months or so, its going really well but we've kept it on the down low as he was my supervisor. Although now I've been promoted and no longer under his supervision it doesn't seem as bad but ...
A. 10 November 2013: GO over his house now! He could be hurt!!!!
if he was oky tell them he should have answered his phone, and not the scare the shir out of us!
GO now ...... (read in full...)
He forgot my birthday! Is this normal for a boyfriend to do this?
Q. Boyfriend of 4 years forgot to wish me happy birthday despite having texting the whole time. I was giving him the benefit of doubt and waited. When I confronted, he said he's busy rushing some work. I know what all of you would say but really, ...
A. 10 November 2013: If he's a paycheck to paycheck kinda guy he might have forget it attentionally. You seem as a princess "like do this to me and do that..."
it's true, it may hurt if somebody forget your birthday but don't expect them to plan things for you. You shou... (read in full...)
Am I the only one who is not interested in sex?
Q. I have very little interest in sex and it has become a huge problem in my marriage(understandably). I honestly do not care if I ever have sex again... it's just not important to me and I really don't get much out of it. I really have never had an ...
A. 10 November 2013: you need to pan a vacation sort of Honeymoon and remind yourself why you fell in love with him in the first place. it's probably because you are always exhausted Full time and caring for the 2 years old kid plus probably taking care of the other ... (read in full...)
What should I do? I have realised that I deserve better than how she treats me
Q. Hi all, I have an issue which has many facets so I will try to summaries it as best as I can. - Been with girlfriend for 6 years (she is in mid twenties) - She has a minor disability and I look after her every need.. probably too much! - L...
A. 10 November 2013: I think you shouldn't get the house together, it would be a big mistake.
then talk your feelings out with her. but before that, when you were dealing with cancer, who was besides you? if she was there, then you should think throughly you deci... (read in full...)
Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating?
Q. Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating? I'm a married woman. Before I met my husband I did take some classes at a massage school. I never persued that as a career (my husband would never approve). However, I am very good at giv...
A. 10 November 2013: HI,
It is totally normal to ejaculate accidentally when somebody press on men's buttocks repeatidily. I had that happen once and it was so embarassing...I don't think the massage therapist knew what happened, when tried to massage between my legs... (read in full...)
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