Is it worth breaking up over this situation?
Q. Alright so this is kind of a confusing situation for me and I'm really in need of opinions/advice. I've been with my fiance for a little over 3 years. A couple months ago, I found out that he was talking to another woman basically the same way...
A. 17 April 2017: As hard as it is to walk away why would you want to be with a man how would scam someone??? And why does he need money?? Did you see evidence Tha he received money ?? Why would you want to be with a guy like this ... You really want a life with him ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a fiance who makes me feel stupid?
Q. Hi how do I deal with a fiance who makes me feel thick and cannot do things properly this morning I was putting the washing machine on I was just about to put the powder in the drawer he walked over and took it off me and said he would do it i told ...
A. 16 April 2017: He may not even realise what he's doing or how he's making you feel so have a conversation with him you have been together a while so having tho conversation should be easy if not then there are serious deep seated issues ... (read in full...)
How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?
Q. Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...
A. 15 April 2017: Dont worry about it most woman dont care about size as sex is only one part of a relationship...alot of woman sort of think the same about there boobs ...was his exs boobs bigger????... Did he enjoy them more ?? .. She is with you for you not ... (read in full...)
Should I write another letter to my ex?
Q. We were together for 2 years. He was very special to me. He was my first everything. Our breakup happened in very complicated situation , i went through a miscarriage. I thought he was not giving me the support i needed . He thought i was very ...
A. 5 April 2017: Please try and move on ... He's not coming back you both did wrong in your relationship and the things he said about you more than likely bothered him all the way through your relationship but be glad he said it as by the sound of it , its made you ... (read in full...)
The person I like lives 4 hours away!
Q. So I met this guy on holiday. He's so sweet, funny, amazing and basically everything I ever dreamed of. I have his number and he has recently gone back home. I miss him already. He lives 4 hours away from me by car. Can long distance ever work? Has ...
A. 4 April 2017: I have myself been in a LDR and it can work as long as both people want it to work its hard work ... So from the start you need to be honest with each other ...when can you see each other?? How often?? Dont just meet up once a wk for sex as that's ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he's the one that got away?
Q. I been having thoughts that i want my ex boyfriend back, it is impossible because he's already engaged for a year now. What makes it even weirder is that we broke up 4 years ago. So i was dating with my ex for couple of months, we broke up because i ...
A. 4 April 2017: Either be brave and tell him and see what he says or leave it dump your now bf and go out be single have fun ...do what makes you happy dont live a life of regrets ... (read in full...)
How do I end things without hurting him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 45 year old woman married for 18 years . The marriage has been more of a business relation tand there has been no sex or romance...there were a lot of family issues....i never thought of a divorce since i had basically accepted...
A. 4 April 2017: Ending any relationship will hurt ,of course it will...but he will be ok in the end ...he wasn't that in to you if he was looking for another partner on facebook!! ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER!!! Time to move on ... (read in full...)
Want a new relationship but having children is out of the question am I wrong or not?
Q. Dear Cupid,I have been a single parent all of my children's life now they are fully grown I want a relationship but Im hoping that he doesn't want children that part of my life is history.Am I being selfish for this or not. Help...
A. 4 April 2017: Just be clear from the start that more children is not a option for you ....it may sound a serious conversation to have but at least everyone knows where they stand ...goid luck ... (read in full...)
I feel lonely in this relationship! Should I accept this is as good as it gets with him?
Q. I have been dating a divorced dad with joint custody of two younger teen children I get on great with, for 9 months. He works away three days a week and we only have two free week ends a month. I also see him on a week night. He puts a lot into his ...
A. 4 April 2017: You are complaining about him being busy not finding time for you but your not prepared to move and its only a hr away many people travel a hr to work everyday....i think there must be other issues as your not prepared to make changes or be happy ... (read in full...)
I have a tiny group of friends. I find it difficult to bond with people. How can I learn to enjoy life more?
Q. I have a tiny group of friends from school consisting of 3 girls... One of them has had a baby and rarely comes out which I totally understand and I visit her when I can. The other two work or go to uni and tend to go out a bit I found lately ...
A. 3 April 2017: I bet they have invited you and you have turned them down with out really realising so they think its pointless asking you so when they go out get in there and ask to go with them .... Make more effort with the friend with the baby I bet mum would ... (read in full...)
How can I shake off what my ex said about my family?
Q. My ex-girlfriend has really messed with my mind about my family and the people that I've been closest to my entire life. She comes from a broken home, her mother has been through 2 divorces, and her father is gay. At my uncle's wedding, she was very ...
A. 3 April 2017: Dont worry by the sounds of it she I very jealous of how close you are to your family ..she is a victim tho but not because of your family but because of her own ....she sounds like she needs counselling....just let it go wish her well and leave it ... (read in full...)
Mr E makes me feel like a woman. Yet my unsatisfactory boyfriend does make time for me. Which one will be the best choice?
Q. Hello aunts, I am in a bit of a mix here and I know I have complicated everything so much and would appreciate your candid advice. The issue is between my ex boyfriend who I refuse to let go and who loves me, refuses to let me go and an old acqu...
A. 3 April 2017: For goodness sake stop wasting your time with your off on bf he is just stringing you along why can he not tell his family your together after all this time !!! But I also feel you need counselling as you sound like you have issues to put up with ... (read in full...)
Married man says he's in a loveless marriage and likes me insanely but won't get in touch with me till I contact him
Q. Good day dear aunts and uncles. I met a charming man on a conference I was heading. We exchanged few words and couldn't stop looking at each other. 2 months later I bumped into him on another business venture and we felt the connection. Then we ...
A. 3 April 2017: He's just hoping you fall for his lines if what he was saying was true he would msg you..no matter how busy he was he would find time if he truly liked you !!! Just stop texting him if he likes you he will text !! But its dangerous to get involved ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I have never been in a relationship with?
Q. I really need advice on how to get over someone. It's really complicated because we have never been in a relationship , but I feel like I have fallen harder than ever before, and also have been kept dangling by him because he knows I really lik him. ...
A. 3 April 2017: Why do you need to see him when he comes back just keep away dont make excuses to see him move on ... (read in full...)
Should I be waiting on this guy? He acts like we are a couple but we are not!
Q. I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we have both admitted that we like each other lot, but here is the catch: We live in different states. We have talked about going to see each other, meeting up but we both don't have the ...
A. 26 March 2017: I think if you Both liked each other I mean why can you not both travel and meet in the middle and if you carnt afford it date someone closer don't waste each others time if you can't afford it now you won't ever find the money...i believe if you ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want kids but I do. My friends say that I should "trap" him. Is that my only option?
Q. Me and my husband have been together 8 years now and married for 2. Everybody that knows us have always said we are the best couple they've ever met as we love each other A LOT and would do anything for one another. It really is the perfect ...
A. 26 March 2017: If not having kids isn't a option and you wont trap him (which you should not do)Then you need to move on don't waste time hoping he will change his mind when he has always told you he doesn't want children, you need to be with someone who wants ... (read in full...)
Is she just lazy or what?
Q. This has been eating away at me for way too long! I feel like my wife never thinks about me. More times than I probably should I go out of my way and above and beyond for my wife. For Christmas, she was saying that she wanted a specific makeup. I ...
A. 25 March 2017: If you have kids (or not) tell your wife you want each other to write a list for 'santa' and then swap its fun and gives a clear indication of what you want ,you don't have to get everything on the list ... (read in full...)
Whose last name do I give to my baby?
Q. My mom thinks I should give the baby the fathers last name but I don't think I should because I'm not married to him and he isn't in the picture. Won't that be an issue at school for my son and wherever I take him, if we have different last nam...
A. 23 March 2017: Hi ..please give your baby your name if dads not in the picture my boys have my name I like it that way... (read in full...)
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