The first time....
Q. hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event. ...
A. 19 July 2009: Everyone is different, expect to see some minimal spotting or sometimes you may even need a pad or panty liner the day after. But there are some definite signs that will tell you if something is wrong 1.excessive/heavy prolonged bleeding 2.intense... (read in full...)
Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?
Q. right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. ...
A. 19 July 2009: as cheesy as it sounds, sex really is something extremely special and should be treated with respect. . . it is you giving and extraordinarily important piece of yourself away to someone you love. There is a right time and a right place for it to ... (read in full...)
How to make myself more loose?
Q. I am really tight in my vagina. I really need to loosen up before sex but i don't want the other guy to know how tight i am. How do i make myself more loose? ...
A. 19 July 2009: Make sure your aroused enough before actually trying to have sex, letting a guy finger you or eat you out until your just about to peak and then stopping would be ideal and then on top of that use a store bought lube or you can even buy lubed ... (read in full...)
Period cramps and no medicine
Q. period cramps.. any ideas on how to help? other than medecine because i have none. thanks...
A. 19 July 2009: Eat a banana and take a hot bath or use a heating pad/hot water bottle on your lower tummy. The potassium from the banana will ease your cramps and the heat will relax them away :) P.S. i have heard that orgasms will ease menstrual pain but Ive ... (read in full...)
I'm super short, but is my weight too much for me?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and he's perfect, im sooo happy to have him. if it wasnt for this one thing im never depressed. but almost every day im depressed about my body and i cry about it atleast once a week. is 97lb big for a 4 ft ...
A. 19 July 2009: So i went to an online BMI(body mass index) calulator and it says that your BMI is 20.3 now here are the standards
BMI Categories:
Normal weight = 18.5-24.9
Overweight = 25-29.9
Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater
You are perfectly in the ... (read in full...)
I didn't feel 'that' spark, what shall I do?
Q. hiia x i got told that if your really like some one , then you feel a "spark" when you kiss your boyfriend and well i felt nothing ! what shall i do ?? is this true ?? do you really feel a spark ?? thanks x laura :)...
A. 19 July 2009: I never understood the "spark" thing... But i do get the butterflies in my tummy when i think of him and he crosses my mind every five seconds and hes the first person i call in the morning and the last that i call before i go to sleep :) and when ... (read in full...)
I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?
Q. Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel hor...
A. 19 July 2009: uncle frank personally i think you should stick to your own generation. Age has nothing to do with when your ready to have sex. If your comfortable and you are really truly in love with your boyfriend and your ready to treat it like a serious ... (read in full...)
Any products or ideas to tighten vaginal walls?
Q. Hello, I am 20 years old and I am very experienced when it comes to sex, lately I've been noticing that my vagiana is looser than ususal, usually it doesn't matter how much I have sex and my walls will still be very tight, I don't know what's ...
A. 19 July 2009: http://ww2.pureromance.com/PublicStore/product/Like-A-Virgin,286,146.aspx
Like a Virgin is an alum-based shrinking cream that can help tighten the vaginal walls, making penetration more pleasurable. Like a Virgin should always be used in conj... (read in full...)
Does every girl bleed, when she loses her virginity?
Q. When u lose ur virginity, do u bleed?...
A. 18 July 2009: If a girls hymen(thin piece of skin inside if the vagina) breaks the first time she has sex it isn't uncommon for some minimal bleeding to happen. If there is excessive or prolonged bleeding and/or intense pain during sex you may want to see a ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?
Q. At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...
A. 15 July 2009: I would talk to your doctor about some other methods also, im on the patch (ortho evera) and i would never use anything else...its all about finding the right birth control method for you but remember not to stop using condoms because birth control ... (read in full...)
Two kids, no time...Am I wrong to expect a little passion?
Q. My wife and I have 2 small children, so it's hard for us to make time for sex. But when we do have sex, it feels like she's not really into it. We've fought about this before, and I know she's tired. But even at my worst, I'll still perform like a ...
A. 14 July 2009: Try talking to her without fighting about it, ask her whats wrong and show her your concerned wbout your intimate connection with her (sounds like bull but im telling you she will love that your not just wishing she would make you cum) and perhaps ... (read in full...)
We talk every night, how do I take this to another level?
Q. i met this girl at school and we talk every night on msn but i want to get closer to her and begin a relationship with her, what should i do?...
A. 14 July 2009: ask her to dinner or a movie IN PERSON. Thats scary and it takes some balls but she will respect you for it and it will show her your willing to take your relationship to a more serious level.... (read in full...)
My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!
Q. hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he ...
A. 14 July 2009: Your daughter is going to be angry you invaded her privacy and she is going to lose as much faith in you as you have lost in her. This is a delicate situation and it could easliy break a bond between you and your daughter. Use the concerned approach ... (read in full...)
I start bleeding during sex and its starting to scare me. Help
Q. ok im 19 and im goin out wit this guy he 17 and for some reason i started bleeding during sex is something wrong wit me or is it normal please help its startin to scarre me please...
A. 14 July 2009: Important details
How many times have you two had sex?
How big is he?
Is it painful when your having sex?
I say first thing to do is grab a mirror and check yourself out for any visible tears or rips. If you dont see any i would deffinitly consi... (read in full...)
Do you think my sexual past is a bad thing?
Q. Im 17 and ive slept with 9 guys and 1 girl, would you say its bad? Youngest guy has been 13 when i was 13, and oldest has been 40 when i was 17. Alot of people say its bad, but im not sure, personally i dont think its bad, the only thing that bothe...
A. 14 July 2009: Do you have an STD? Did you get pregnant and have a kid? If not then why should your sexual past become a part of your future? If your ashamed of it let it go and tell yourself to move forward from here. If your ok with it and you can look at ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex so why is my period late?
Q. right. i'm 1 week late for my period if my cycle was to be every 28 days. but im usually every 30 days and always on time basically since i started 3/4 years ago. i just wanted to know why i might be late. its really bugging me. and we can deffo ru...
A. 14 July 2009: Its perfectly normal to have a screwy periods well into your twenties. My cycle was very regular the first year i had my period but then my second year i started getting very irregular and sometimes even skipping periods. My periods never regulated ... (read in full...)
I want to know how other people have dealt with the issue of sex and their parents...
Q. I would just like to know if any of you guys told your parents that you had either lost your virginity or were thinking of losing it? And how did they react to it? If you didn't tell them, do you feel guilty at all? Thanks xx...
A. 14 July 2009: I never felt guilty about it and me and my mother were never very close but i did talk to my aunt about everything, me and my aunt are still very close and its always nice knowing i have someone to talk to about that kind of thing. It can be very ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to bleed the second time I have sex?
Q. hey, i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and i bled a bit, and it hurt. it stopped bleeding and hurting soon after. thats normal, i know that...but then today we went to do it again and i bled again, even though it didnt hurt. ...
A. 14 July 2009: As long as the bleeding is not excessive or prolonged you shouldt have anything to worry about... (read in full...)
Vaginal pimples?
Q. Hi.I'm just wondering if any female on here has experienced vaginal pimples.I think that's what I have.They're small bumps on my vulva,not on my lips or anywhere else.I know I don't have an std or anything because I've never been sexually ...
A. 14 July 2009: These "pimples" could be a result of infected ingrown hairs from shaving, you can prevent them by exfoliating before you shave (gently beacause your vagina could become raw if your too rough) and every few days afterward. If you do not shave then ... (read in full...)
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