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writes:right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. however in nt so sure now because it will be my first time and we cant get into each other's dormitories and well end up ding it outside. do u think hey! go for it! or should i hold off and wait until we are both back home where we can have sex in a more dignified manner? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou all for your answers. well im going on camp tomorrow so lets see what it brings. thankyou all for advice and ill keep in mind wat u have all said. again, thankyou
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reader, Lunaa  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 as cheesy as it sounds, sex really is something extremely special and should be treated with respect. . . it is you giving and extraordinarily important piece of yourself away to someone you love. There is a right time and a right place for it to happen. . . you should always be able to look back on your first time without regrets knowing that it is exactly what you wanted and that you truly cared about and respected the person you shared it with. I wish you only the best
Love,
Lunaa
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 My advice:
You shouldn't have sex with just anyone. There's a time and a place for sex, and you should wait for that.
If you have to sneak around to have sex, then that's a sign you shouldn't be doing it. If you're between 16 and 17, then by Brtish law, you are over age, but that doesn't mean that you're prepared to deal with the consecuences.
I know that this sounds like a sermon, but it's true!
When I was your age (which wasn't all that long ago), I decided that even though I wasn't saving sex for marriage, that I definitely wouldn't have sex with "just anyone" either. I looked at my friends and watched them get pregnant and worry about what they would do and what they would say to their parents and think, "Maybe I'm not really mising out."
Wait to have sex until you find someone that you want to commit to for a minute. Someone you mutually love with all your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou and i did read the article, altho it has helped me unfortantely it was orientated more towards girls than boys but thanks anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I really think you should read the article Satin gave you. It may just make you think before you do something you might regret. What's the rush? If you want it to be more dignified, wait until you're in a trusting and loving relationship. Do you really want to look back and remember losing it to a girl that 'likes' you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionuh hello? im askin for advice here
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (18 July 2009):
Wreck, I don't think you've even read the article. We're all entitled to our opinions, but did you actually READ IT?
I have a feeling you haven't. I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you should. Then, if you don't like it... at least you would have an informed opinion.
I know someone who is a teacher, and the students don't listen to a word she's saying. Then, they distort everything that was said, because they weren't paying attention.
Why do you feel it was a waste of your time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you have helped
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reader, Darlinxx +, writes (18 July 2009):
its completley up to you really,, personally i would for my first time,, as i did,, do it in a bed its comfy n if anythin goes wrong ur at home so u always have facilities around you :) hope ive helped :) xx
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reader, Wreck  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 dont even read that website ... , its not worth your time...I know your going to loose your virginity with this girl already. Trust ... Im 17 and I know how we think you know your hormones have kicked in and i bet your thinking about her every night.... , The best suggestion i can give you is just go with the flow man ... I mean if she wants to do it somewhere like camp and you think its safe then go for it.. just bring a rubber man because first off its kinda scary having sex with someone you dont know is clean theres alwasy that possiblity she might have HIV symptons soometimes dont show up till years later and she might have it and not know about it.. 2nd off if its your first time your most likely unexperienced at believe me when you stick it in its gonna be an amazing feeling and your going to want to come to quick so yes you might come the first 2 mins so better be safe then sorry right?? , also rubbers make you last longer.. , you gotta go in there with confidence thats what females like a confident guys so even if you dont know what your doing pretend you know dont just stand there .. , im sure you wached videos before... , Never feel pressured into having sex if your not ready then dont go for it ... you gotta do it relaxed bro.
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