Girlfriend chose concert over me!
Q. Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to ...
A. 13 December 2010: I think you're being a bit selfish here. She had plans, she really wanted to go, and this probably isn't a concert that goes on all the time, whereas she can always see you the next day or sometime soon. Be happy your gilrfriend can think for ... (read in full...)
How to deal with passive aggressive husband!
Q. I just learned 3 days ago that my husband is Passive Aggressive. What an eye opener. I have a feeling this will be a long letter(It is very long, grab a coffee lol), I have never spoke to anyone about this other than my older daughter, no one is ...
A. 12 November 2010: Do your kids live with you at this point? From my persepctive, his unchanging behaviour has and will continue to have a negative impact on your kids, and from everything you have described there is really not much future in this relationship. 20 ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with drugs. What do I do?
Q. This summer my boyfriend started trying to do drugs. He had never done anything like that before, which is how I liked it, because I am morally against drugs. However I made myself accept his occasional use. When he got to college, his habit got ...
A. 20 October 2010: Gah, I know how you feel. My boyfriend knows I'm not fond of drugs, and although I on rare occasion smoke weed with him, and he doesn't smoke much anymore either, he is watches legalization videos, watching weed-oriented movies, buying magazines, ... (read in full...)
Would it be a mistake to go out with him?
Q. I met this guy at a party at the beginning of this year - he didn't hide that he fancied me but I wasn't really interested so I just left it. I hadn't seen him in a few months but a few weeks ago I went to another party that he was at. We started ...
A. 19 August 2010: You're still young, and if you don't want a serious relationship and he seems like a nice, decent individual I would go for it- gives you experience with guys so when you finally meet someone you want a long-term relationship with, you know more ... (read in full...)
Lied to girlfriend about smoking
Q. I have been dating this girl for 8 months and during relationship we had confessed our love for each other several times. Last week I confessed to her that I lied about smoking cigarettes. Over the course of our relationship, she had asked se...
A. 18 August 2010: My boyfriend lied to me about smoking, and even worse made his friends hide it from me as well. It's not cheating, yes, but I trusted him and that trust took a little while to rebuilt again - he knew I dont like smokers but wanted to stay together ... (read in full...)
I worry about who the father of my baby is. Please give me your thoughts.
Q. me and my boyfriend have been trying to conceive for over a year and were unsuccessful, however we split up for a couple days due to stress. In the break i found comfort in another man. I only had sex with the other guy once and we usedd a condom, I ...
A. 12 August 2010: If you only broke up with your boyfriend a couple of days ago and has sex with the other guy after, there's no way you would have been able to spot the pregnancy that early on if it was not your boyfriends -- and especially if you used a condom.... (read in full...)
We got back together and he's gone cold and unloving, what can I do?
Q. Hello all,I wonder if you could throw some light on my situation. I have been seeing a nice guy for coming up to three months now. Anyway , we had quite a bad fall out four or five weeks back which was mostly my doing, and now we have kind of got ...
A. 11 August 2010: If your break up was for the most part caused by you, it is likely he was very hurt and is trying to keep his emotions in check for at least the first while of you getting back together - something that I think would be a common occurrence for this ... (read in full...)
I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!
Q. I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too ...
A. 11 August 2010: I know how you feel, it is unbearably painful sometimes, but like I keep telling myself, first of all this was in the past, and second of all it was before he met you. Perhaps if he had met you earlier he would have chosen you from the very ... (read in full...)
How long do couples usually date before moving in together?
Q. How long do couples usually date before moving in together? I was dating this guy and we were in a long distance relationship. We had only met about twice in person and he was saying to me that I could move in with him and he would pay my bills for ...
A. 11 August 2010: It's not about how long you've been dating, but about how much you know about each other, how comfortable you are in each other's presence and how well you have discussed this move on an emotional and financial level. I moved in with my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
When I open myself to girls, they seem to lose interest. Why is that?
Q. Hey guys and gals, I have one question; Why do women lose interest when you really open up. Im having this experience very often lately. At first im just joking around with girls, teasing them a bit and so forth, but when thing start movi...
A. 11 August 2010: Personally, I would love for my boyfriend to open up more to me -- whether it's about how he feels at the moment, problems that are going on in his life so I could help him, or just talking about the past because I know he had some hard times and I ... (read in full...)
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