I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?
Q. I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends ...
A. 16 February 2011: People change everyday.. Sometimes as human beings, we do things out of selfishness and for our own satisfaction.. keep in mind that it happened during a time when u and her were only options for eachother n not the sure thing.. today u both r ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think about cheating if you've only been married for 2 months. I'm in a sexless marriage!
Q. Hi everyone, I was just wondering whether it's normal to think about cheating if you have only been married 2 months and already sex is out of the question. Tried talking about it, but personal issues on my partner's side mean we don't. I have ...
A. 16 February 2011: Wow, Really? ..I'm sorry but sex is a must have in a relationship.. how else can you express how you feel about the person.. if anything ,its like she doesnt love u back.. is it an illness thats keeping her from giving it up or what? ? It is normal ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's really changed?
Q. Can you tell some beforehand signs of a player? There's this guy, he has cheated on his last two gfs but is going to counseling and doing a bunch of other things to at least try and change. He likes me and sometimes i dont like him but 80% of the ...
A. 19 January 2010: he is a player if he can't help homself and comment on other chicks bodies on tv or in public... if he is always late when u guys make plans or never follows thru with plans for alone time together ... if he is constantly saying things like changing ... (read in full...)
I am trying to move on but I keep imagining him with someone else
Q. is it normal to want to live without someone because its over and u have to ... but cnstantly think about how devastating it would be to learn they are with somone else and be consumed with sadness even tho your trying hard to move on?...
A. 15 January 2010: God hope you guys r right... My heart hasn't hurt this much since My 1st relationship..somehow this feels worse because its like all the tools I used from that expierience weren't the right ones for this one.. Thanks for the advice.. Im open to ... (read in full...)
He seems disinterested now...
Q. I've been sort of seeing this guy. We went out on the first date which went very well and ended with a peck at the end of the night. Now it seems as though things have slowed down. He mentioned that he wanted to go out again and text me that he ...
A. 13 January 2010: don't wait around... we all run into those kinds of guys that hype up a situation and then realize they can't keep up their end..even with something so simple as getting to know someone better.. don't text him anymore... sometimes the old fashioned ... (read in full...)
"If you love something set it free"?
Q. You know they say 'if you love someone set them free, if they come back they're yours, if they dont, they never were' or something to a similar effect... what if you let someone go and they come back, and then they leave again? :-( X x ...
A. 13 January 2010: I set someone free ..unfortunately he didn't come back to me... but u just gotta imagine what life would be like if u keep taking him back after every time he goes.. or worse what he'll bring back everytime he comes back... Guys always hve that ... (read in full...)
Why does sex seem to kill my relationships?
Q. I really enjoy sex but not promiscuously... only with someone I really care about.. problem is that when I am with someone I care about and that side of me comes out.. things seem to take a turn for the worse in my relationships.. kinda like they ...
A. 28 December 2009: maybe then there isn't anything to fix about myself... maybe all the guys I've dated and the few I got to business with are the problem... hmm.. no self improvement needed in this category I guess ...rite?... (read in full...)
Why does sex seem to kill my relationships?
Q. I really enjoy sex but not promiscuously... only with someone I really care about.. problem is that when I am with someone I care about and that side of me comes out.. things seem to take a turn for the worse in my relationships.. kinda like they ...
A. 28 December 2009: Im not drop dead gorgeous ... but I have been told my personality is awesome... I get along with 99 percent of people I meet (one percent being in a comatose state)... and theres plenty of canyons in this noggin being explored til this day ... ... (read in full...)
Why does sex seem to kill my relationships?
Q. I really enjoy sex but not promiscuously... only with someone I really care about.. problem is that when I am with someone I care about and that side of me comes out.. things seem to take a turn for the worse in my relationships.. kinda like they ...
A. 28 December 2009: well... it goes from him wooing me to fewer calls to "im busy" until it ends all together ... to be frank about it, I had to end my last relationship because I started feeling like a bootycall rather then a girlfriend... he started out calling me ... (read in full...)
Why and How to Play the Game before Love?
Q. Ok.. so I want to know why we people have to play a game before giving into love n how to play... Why does it have to be difficult and confusing to just be like "Hey I like u very much and would like it if we stick with eachother and develop , ...
A. 27 December 2009: oops I meant the 2nd answer.. ... (read in full...)
Why and How to Play the Game before Love?
Q. Ok.. so I want to know why we people have to play a game before giving into love n how to play... Why does it have to be difficult and confusing to just be like "Hey I like u very much and would like it if we stick with eachother and develop , ...
A. 27 December 2009: the first answer was awesome... I appreciate it.. thanks ... looking forward to more advice... :o) ... (read in full...)
Tell me the psychology behind this type of behavior man?
Q. Hey! I met a guy about 11 months ago and from day 1 he came on very strong, telling me only after 2 weeks he felt love for me, he smothered me and completely lusted over me, this completely freaked me out understandably so i regected his effections ...
A. 26 December 2009: that my friend is Pre-Emotional Abuser Activity... I've gone thru the exact same thing... and after he started makng jokes at my expense ... And ditching me after my miscarraige without any support or consoling ...I sent him to Hell ...run girl.. ... (read in full...)
Dysfunctional Relationships
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I was in a place some of you girls might be in right now. For about a year, I was placed in a dysfunctional relationship. Eventually, I got use to the abusive cycle and no matter how much I was exhausted, no matter how much I ...
A. 24 December 2009: emotional abuse is what that sounds like to me...... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me for being in love with a much younger girl?
Q. [Moderator note: The OP is not asking for advice on how to pursue a young girl. He just wants reassurance that he's normal for fantasizing about being with her when she's older.] Hi I really like this 10 year old girl I dream about her that she is ...
A. 24 December 2009: wait til shes 18 if you love her so much ...until then leave her alone... 10 yr old girls are only just starting to push barbies to the side... way too young man.. Serously... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage and I can't move on, how long will I feel like this?
Q. I had a miscarriage in September 2008, i was nearly 4 months gone. I had to have my baby surgically removed on the 8th October 2008 and it broke my heart. I split up from my long-term boyfriend and was in deep depression for months (i also have ...
A. 23 December 2009: Hun that is somethin that never goes away... Im 27 years old and suffered my first miscarriage this past summer... You will smile again tho unless you havent already... Life throws us so many curves and its up to us on how we deal...Accept that it ... (read in full...)
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