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writes:I've been sort of seeing this guy. We went out on the first date which went very well and ended with a peck at the end of the night. Now it seems as though things have slowed down. He mentioned that he wanted to go out again and text me that he wanted to see more of me in the new year. However, now some texts seem to be going unanswered and i don't know what to do. Help me?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the responses. My email account broke so I never knew i got replies. It all fizzled out in the end and I just couldn't be dealing with it anymore.
He's going to a party that i'm going to this week. I plan to just being fab and show him exactly what he's missed out on.
Thanks so much once again :)
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Try and forget about him, just seem uninterested, dont text him, don't contact him. If he wants more of you, he will contact you first :)
So have fun and forget about him for a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): Stop texting him, today.You and he are just sort of dating..but there is no committment, no obligation...you both need to build on something solid, here. I have always felt that us gals should date and act more like men, with our attititudes. Women tend to over think. When guys begin a dating relationship they hold back a bit and they never, ever put all their eggs in one basket. They leave openings and they know how to keep it all in perspective. They seem to have the courage to persist through doubts, failure and hurt and stay strong/steady. Woman don't so this. They struggle through through these bleak periods of self-doubts, allowing themselves to over worry and think"why isn't he texting back?".
Another thing, this guy may also know how to 'play the game'. You however, don't. But you can change all that by dropping your worried thoughts and take this , day by day. The key to getting this guy to take further note of you, is to play it cool and to be a classy, interesting, confident woman. Stop thinking of the why's and why not's here. Don't text him..get out there and have a great life beyond him. Step away from the cell phone/computer and get out with good friends and have fun. Under no circumstances, are you to call or text him. Resist. If this man likes you as you say he does, I guaruntee, that within one week, he will call you. And when he does call, be happy, positive and be ...busy. Don't date him that night or the next. Make a date and make him work hard for you. After all, you are worth the hard efforts he will have to do, to get you. Grab his attention and if this doesn't work..then realize...there's a lot more fish in the sea. It's his loss.
Get out there and live your life..don't let some guy who won't text you, make you feel bad about yourself. No one should have that kind of power over your life and you should never allow it. Stop thinking about him and get on with life. Take care, hun.
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reader, LoviesBrknHeart  +, writes (13 January 2010):
don't wait around... we all run into those kinds of guys that hype up a situation and then realize they can't keep up their end..even with something so simple as getting to know someone better.. don't text him anymore... sometimes the old fashioned way of him coming to u is better.. until then keep busy and meet more people...
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