How do I get out of this mess?
Q. Ok so i have a massive issue. Let's start by saying I love a guy that likes someone else. I was dating this guy but he broke up with me for her. But we made out a few nights ago. I didn't mean for it to happen, he put his arm around me and we were ...
A. 27 May 2009: One word best describes him and thats TROUBLE! He wants his cake and he wants to eat it, dont fall into his pathetic mind games trap your worth so much more than that!... (read in full...)
Feelings are fading... how can I stop this?
Q. Hey, its really wierd. I love my boyfriend I do. But thinsg lately have been so...normal. so causal. I dont feel excited or passionate when I'm with him anymore.. it is like things are cooling down and I dont want that to happen. Feelings are ...
A. 27 May 2009: This happened to me years ago with an ex, i tried to fight it for months but the more i fought it the more i resented him, i eventually broke it up with him and years later i wonder why i didnt leave him sooner. Thats my experience of your ... (read in full...)
Overwhelming sexual chemistry...should I do something about it?
Q. Is it strange to get in contact with someone you met at work a few months ago and found out they were interested in you but couldn't reciprocate because i was in a relationship at the time? A girl was doing some surveying at my company a couple...
A. 27 May 2009: You have nothing to lose by contacting her. You deserve happiness in your life. I reckon she would be flattered if you went out your way to contact her. I certainly would be. In order to gain in life you have to take risks from time to time. You ... (read in full...)
Why did she treat her scumbag ex better than me?
Q. Hi, New to these forums, but I guess my answer is straight up is; Why did she treat him better than me? What's he got better than me? So, rewind, The story goes like this... (try to make this short as I can) Ive been with this girl about 6 months...
A. 27 May 2009: One phrase stands out to me here - 'Treat them mean, keep them keen' , i have witnessed this scenario a million times. Many girls secretly love being treated badly but moan about it openly, as soon as someone decent comes along who treats them like ... (read in full...)
Attraction to my daughter's teacher
Q. I really fancy my daughters teacher I can't stop thinking about her. I am a women so that makes things so difficult, there is chemistry between us most definitely what do I do? ...
A. 27 May 2009: Don't even go there, no matter how tempting it seems. This is your daughters teacher, can you imagine the trouble it could cause your daughter and her education? There is nothing you can gain from telling the teacher how you feel, a teacher/parent ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but I'm not sure if he is just trying to get me into bed
Q. My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me, he's gone all the way with girls before, but i havent gone that far yet, he keeps tryin to push me into having sex and i dont know what to do. should i have sex with him? or keep sayin no? but what if ...
A. 27 May 2009: No offence but this guy sounds like a loser. U should not be made to feel pressured in any way when it comes to sex. I reckon u should stick to your guns until he proves to you hes worth giving yourself to. If he doesnt stick around,forget him.... (read in full...)
I am leading on all the guys I am dating, just so I can break their hearts!
Q. I have issues... I am a love at first sight type of person. I have only really like two people and both of which are love at sight. I barely knew them yet I really liked them. Anyhow, none of those really developed into anything, I was ...
A. 27 May 2009: First of all, you ask why it so hard to find someone then later on you tell us your dating numerous guys. Theres your answer, you need to put your bad experience behind you and have faith in the fact that not all guys are the same. Stop your 2,3, or ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy she likes him or to ask him out?
Q. i like this guy named Pedro and I think he likes me also..The problem is that he is shy I noticed that when he talks to me he gets nervous. I know he won't make the first move because he is shy..So I'm thinking about asking him out.OR just telling ...
A. 27 May 2009: Almost four years ago i was in the same position, i met a shy guy that i really liked, we spent loads of time together but because he was so shy he didnt make the first move and we werent moving any further forward,However,i took control of the ... (read in full...)
What are the laws in the united kingdom for a 16 year old whose living with a friend who works getting job seekers allowance?
Q. This isn't really a relationship question but what are the laws in the united kingdom for a 16 year old whose living with a friend who works getting job seekers allowance? I've tried googling it but its all jibberish and doesnt mean much lol! ...
A. 25 May 2009: type in Connexions into google, thats a benefit offered to young school leavers looking for work im sure... (read in full...)
Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?
Q. hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my ...
A. 25 May 2009: My honest opinion- i prefer a guy to have pubic hair as long as he keeps it neat and trim, i don't like unruly, unkept forests lol... (read in full...)
How do I become less predictable?
Q. I've become so predictable in everthing I do my friends and family always know what I am going to say or do, and it's getting me nowhere cause people get bored of being around me. I do occasionally do unpredictable things and get noticed for a while ...
A. 25 May 2009: Life doesn't have to be one big drama to be interesting. Concentrate on what makes you happy and go with it, don't worry about what everyone else thinks, its your life not there's. I also think you need to build on your confidence rather that ... (read in full...)
Do I have some sort of mental block on kissing?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and I'm happy. We have so much in common and were friends for about a year before we started going out. We've kissed abit but never really in private and only for about 10 seconds. I usually ...
A. 25 May 2009: Sounds to me like you have your head firmly screwed on, good on you girl! If he doesnt stick around hes not worth your time. Theres so many girls your age taking things too fast in a desperate attempt to keep the guy interested and before they know ... (read in full...)
I want to make love to my boyfriend, but it is wrong in my culture
Q. I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice ve...
A. 25 May 2009: This is quite a sensitive subject, you either follow your religion or follow your heart. As i am not from a religious background i would vote follow your heart every time however you need to ask yourself, how comfortable and serious are you about ... (read in full...)
I think I'm turning into some kind of an idiot!
Q. Please help, I think I am turning into some sort of idiot. I have been dating a guy for over four weeks now, and we have been on three wonderful dates. But its been a week since our last one. we talk/text email every day. We are both shy, and...
A. 25 May 2009: By the sounds of things i think one of you just needs to bite the bullet and make the next move. My guess is that the guy is thinking exactly the same way as you are right now. Im not suggesting you get absolutely blootered or anything but perhaps ... (read in full...)
I wonder..does she like me?
Q. I know it sounds like the most obvious question in the world but how can you tell if someone really likes you? A woman at work and I have become close very quickly, only in the last few days and sms each other and hang out consantly now. She is very ...
A. 25 May 2009: I think if she is calling you sexy, you already have something beyond a friendship. Shes either a tease or she does really like you. I think you should confront her, if she goes all funny with you and runs a mile shes not worth another thought. The ... (read in full...)
Mindgames? Is he keeping me hanging on?
Q. My boyfriend said he wanted to just be friends a few days ago, i was really upset and he knew i was, but he still wanted to be friends, but now im done with all the crying, and i still love him but i know i need to move on. Hes text me to see h...
A. 25 May 2009: I reckon your boyfriend is an attention seeker, he knows your really into him and beleives you'll chase him forever more. He wants the best of both worlds, he wants to mess around with other girls (are alot of his mates single?), but he also wants ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him or move on?
Q. I have been with my bf for five years. We love each other deeply, but I'm just not sure if it is right. After being on and off for a few months we finally decided to break it off, but still keep in touch. We recently did the friends with ben...
A. 25 May 2009: I reckon your ex is just as confused as you, you've broken up with this guy, he naturally moves on by looking for another source of female love and affection to cushion the blow and i think this has brought out the jealous side in you. I think that ... (read in full...)
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