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The wandering eye......

Q.   My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not ...

A.   31 January 2011: Hmm... What a complicated or a "twisted" personality he has. Well I would leave a troublesome guy like that but if you're in love with him, that's different. Hm... I say dont do what he tells you to do. So does he show you love, nurture "your" ... (read in full...)

She found someone richer than me, what should I do?

Q.   I am a guy of 23 yrs. I was never loved by anyone- not even my parents. I never had any friend. My parents used to torchure me physically as well as mentally. One day I was thrown out of my house because I had failed in exam. I was very depressed ...

A.   31 January 2011: Dont die over a women like her... She has done a sin, a sin that was breaking your heart and made you feel very very bad. I know it is hard, so hard for you to move on and start a new life. You know, you HAVE to move on in order to become stronger ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I have had an orgasm?

Q.   Hey, im a 16 year old girl and i have been dating this guy for like 3 years and we have recently started getting intimate, how do i know if i have had an orgasim is there some signs i should look for?...

A.   23 August 2010: Masturbate and you'll know. Of course you'll become wet and... use protection. :D Good luck!... (read in full...)

Do guys really care about breast size?

Q.   I have very small breast... I wear a thick push-up bra and layers of clothing over my chest to cover up the small size. And this has worked out fine for me until my boyfriend became touchy with my breasts. I started to feel very self-concous about ...

A.   23 August 2010: A real boyfriend would love you with your everything. They will grow in time so you dont have to worry. And as for your boyfriend, be touchy about something of him too. Then he'll understand how you feel.... (read in full...)

Is a 6 inch penis big enough?

Q.   Im almost 18, and i have a penis that is 6 inches, is that big enough for girls?...

A.   23 August 2010: Who cares about girls. The one that will love you, will love that 6 inched penis of yours too. Just dont think about doing it with every girl. Good luck!... (read in full...)

How do I stop masturbating so much?

Q.   When I was 12 I began masturbating to prove to one of my friends that I actually could do it without any shame. I would do it every night. Now I am almost 15 and I am having an extremely difficult time dealing with it. I masturbate all the time and ...

A.   23 August 2010: Well, everything ends in that thing inside your skull. But still, it might be hard to deal with it. Why dont you try a psycologist. It might help.... (read in full...)

Is it good or bad that my friend said I am all he has right now?

Q.   My friend told me that He really doesn't want to lose me and that i'm ALL he has right now. Is that a good thing? Or bad?...

A.   23 August 2010: :D That's obviously a good thing. It means that you're a very precious person to him. At least thats what I think. How about you?... (read in full...)

26 years of marriage and not even a card on my birthday?

Q.   I have been married for 26 years, and today was my 50th birthday. My husband did not even buy me a card. No presents, no party, nothing. We are in a bit of a financial crunch, but not matter what has been happening throughout our marriage I have ...

A.   22 August 2010: Look, HE has hurt you. HE has made you insecure. And HE is the one that made you feel this way. AND YOU SAY THAT YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIM?! HE HAS HURT YOU OVER AND OVER!! HOW CAN YOU JUST LET HIM SLIP LIKE THAT!! YOU DID WHATEVER YOU CAN TO MAKE ... (read in full...)

Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????

Q.   MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...

A.   6 August 2010: Kick his ass and then dump him. Well you say he slept with you 20 times!?!! And he refused you?! AND THEN HE GOT DRUNK AND SLEPT WITH A PROSTITUTE!!? WHY THE HECK DIDNT HE BOUGHT THE ALCOHOL AND DRANK AT HIS HOME?! He obviously was with her and ... (read in full...)

The lad I fancy doesn't seem interested in me, what shall I do now?

Q.   i really fancy this lad at my school and he knows i fancy him and he looks at me but when he looks at me he like doesnt smile or anything, its just like a straight face, and my friend gave him this note saying will you go out with my mate and he ...

A.   6 August 2010: Hmmm... scold your friend. Tell this lad that your friend was doing some sort of joke or something else. If you have the courage then confess and get over it. If he isnt interested in you then dont waste time with him and shying away for nothing. ... (read in full...)

Was my cousin flirting with me?

Q.   I want to know if my cousin was flirting with me or he was just really really exhited to see me after years. Ok i went to visit my cousin and his wife and I kept on gettig this flirtatious vibe from him. He would stare at me, tell me i am really ...

A.   6 August 2010: It can be because it was a long time but if you feel awkward, then put a little bit distance between you two and say that you feel awkward by his actions(not openly). If he tries to feed you then move away form him and take the same food from the ... (read in full...)

The Psycho In-Laws

Q.   Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and his parents still hate me. :( I'm 15 and so is he.. and we are both virgins. We want to have sex, but there isnt a time and place for it. We never get to spend time together outside of ...

A.   30 July 2010: Hehehe. Virgin you say? 15 you say? You want to have sex you say? You see, youre at that age thinking of having SEX?! I'm sure you love eachoter but isnt it a little bit early? And why does his parents hates you clearify me. And church you say, isnt ... (read in full...)

Will my boyfriend's feelings towards me change if he knew I liked lesbian porn?

Q.   I am a female in my early twenties and I like to watch lesbian porn sometimes. I'd say I watch it about 50/50 compared to hetero porn. I'm worried that my (serious)boyfriend will think of me differently if I tell him I do. He likes girl on gi...

A.   30 July 2010: Well, if he likes porn and you like porn theres no problem at all. You might find your own genders having sex attractive. Thats normal. As long as there wont be a third person in your relationship, even if its only a video I dont think it'll be a ... (read in full...)

Should I be a close friend to my ex or leave it and move on?

Q.   well i think im falling for my ex agian. Were both 15 and was together for 11 months 2 years ago but now he says to me that he likes me a lot and would love to have a relationship with me again, but the only thing is his not ready for a long ...

A.   30 July 2010: The answerers are right. There's nothing left for me to say. Just wanted to be the 3rd person to tell you, DONT ENTERTAIN HIM!!*uses a megaphone*... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend take pictures with other women and hides them from me?

Q.   I just moved in permanetly with my fiance and one day my fiance was showing me some photos he had in his phone, but wouldnt let me hold his phone, so i insisted and basically fought him for it n took his phone away from him and discovered that he ...

A.   30 July 2010: Say what do you want to say and do what do you want to do. This is you life and you have to love yourself. When you want say something, say it. Dont think about what people will think about you and say to you. If it you, then the rest of the world ... (read in full...)

It's been a year, but I still want her back!

Q.   Okay so I dated this girl for 7 months. I immediately fell in love and then we broke up never really got a clear answer as to why but she had a moment when she thought she was prego and I think that ruined us cuz we broke up not long after. We have ...

A.   30 July 2010: Hmm... Thats serious. I am not an expert in love but, people are different. They have different thoughts and different personalities. She panicked and startled the people around her too. But what really happened after then. You assured her that you ... (read in full...)

When do I move on and get over this guy? I can't get closure

Q.   Hi all, I recently started dating a new man. He is nice, kind and considerate. I have just come back from holiday with him. We stayed with his family, and it was very intense as they were all scrutinising me, and I felt hugely under pressure. ...

A.   11 July 2010: You sure made a big mistake. And why are you apoligizing for? He is the one who kept on using his profile and he is the one who got arrogant. I am not saying this to cricitize you but have you heard of self respect? With those messages with ... (read in full...)

Words never were enough if there is no action! My husband is all words!

Q.   me and my husband we are not together right now, am waiting the visa, usa, he went back to his country. we only talk in phone and msn and his ex wife there and she get divorce from her husband who in first place cheated my husband and left him for ...

A.   11 July 2010: I say, he is not the right man for you. He is with you but he keeps on remebering the past, his ex wife and yeah. With a person like him, you can't be happy. He breaks you heart, hurts your feelings, is being mean to you and ignores you. IGNORES ... (read in full...)

We work together but the distance is driving us apart!

Q.   Ok so I am in a LDR with someone. We were both exchange students together in South Africa for 6 months before he had to go home and I had to remain behind for an extra six months. We are from different countries, I'm Irish and he's from Denmark. ...

A.   11 July 2010: Distance is hard for every couple. For example, there's a couple, the girl has to move to another town and that towm is faaaaaaar far away. After the girl has moved the text to eachother, phone eachother. But they are far away from eachother, they ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend take pictures with other women and hides them from me?

Q.   I just moved in permanetly with my fiance and one day my fiance was showing me some photos he had in his phone, but wouldnt let me hold his phone, so i insisted and basically fought him for it n took his phone away from him and discovered that he ...

A.   11 July 2010: Leave.him.immediately. 'Those who kills us, are not one of us' a Turkish saying. If he does all those things to you then dont hesitate and kick him to the moon. He 'hasnt' and wont do anything good to you and dont cry after him because a lowlife ... (read in full...)

Need help on internet dating!

Q.   Does anyone know a good dating site? I've tried several ones, and found none appealing. If any of you have had profiles that have been a hit, please let me know. Also, what is everyone's input on online dating? Does it work? Am I wasting time?...

A.   11 July 2010: I dont thing you should waste time with dating sites. Instead why dont you just start with taking a look around? It is better than dating in a virtual world. You will gain nothing and your precious time will be only wasted.... (read in full...)

I found jock itch cream in his medicine cabinet, could he be hiding something from me?

Q.   Dear Cupid, When I was in my boyfriends bathroom (I'm not sure if his parents use it too or not), I found a bottle of Jock Itch wash/medicine. He sometimes itches his balls alot. Do you think he could be hiding this from me? Or do you think he/his...

A.   11 July 2010: Why dont you just try to talk with him? When you ask him, use understanding words instead of yelling, panicking. Good luck!... (read in full...)

It's been a year, but I still want her back!

Q.   Okay so I dated this girl for 7 months. I immediately fell in love and then we broke up never really got a clear answer as to why but she had a moment when she thought she was prego and I think that ruined us cuz we broke up not long after. We have ...

A.   11 July 2010: Try talking with her, a serious talk. Tell how you feel about her and ask how she feels about you and everything that that has happened between you. If her, being prego does not worries you then tell her that too.... (read in full...)

What to do when the person you're attracted to is already taken.

Q.   Run the hell away. I've seen several questions of this nature on the site. It seems like a simple problem, although in reality it's not. It's complicated and messy, and almost always leaves one person's emotions in ruins while the other enjoys hav...

A.   10 July 2010: Duh, its an article, not a queation. Yes, when you realized your feeling, run as fast as hell away from it. Because it will bring you nothing but heartbreak and sorrow.... (read in full...)

What to do when the person you're attracted to is already taken.

Q.   Run the hell away. I've seen several questions of this nature on the site. It seems like a simple problem, although in reality it's not. It's complicated and messy, and almost always leaves one person's emotions in ruins while the other enjoys hav...

A.   10 July 2010: You are so right. Being the third person in a relationship and causing the couple to break up, it will bring the person heartbreak and regret. You will look down on yourself and get depressed, better run away from these kind of thing instead of ... (read in full...)

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