My girl is skiing in Austria with her guy friends and I'm a nervous wreck.
Q. my gf is in austria atm, skiing with skl. i kinda dont like her doing this cos i know that her mates (boys) will try flirting with her. its been 4 days since she left, and 4 days till she comes back. i have been a nervous wreck for the last week, ...
A. 25 February 2009: last year, i went out with her best mate, who was cheating on me. she knew this, and didnt tell me... but i really love her, and i kno she loves me, and i dont know if i can live without her. but shes told me that this guy likes her. and shes re... (read in full...)
How can I make our relationship fresh again?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of person w...
A. 22 February 2009: a looovely romantic evening- just suprise suprise suprises for him? then u ask for the favour back?
or u talk to him about how u have slight concerns becos u think he doesnt love u as much as he used to- then he will be on his knees.... (read in full...)
How can I be accepted in this group and what can I do to make my wrists look more manly?
Q. I have a couple of questions that I'll just pile into this so it doesn't get annoying. 1) I have small wrists (width I mean) I'm 17 and I wanna be manly, and well... this aint doing it for me what can I do to get em bigger/better size? 2) I'm ...
A. 22 February 2009: well then just make a bigger impact mate, show them ur wild side once in a while and they will invite u, im sure. i just think its a question of time... (read in full...)
Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?
Q. Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying ...
A. 22 February 2009: trust me, talk to him about it, if u tell him ur concerned, if he is a decent guy, he will comfort ur feelings, tell me wat he does tho if u do comfront him about it, cos there are usually major clues to wether hes cheating on u or not.
me an... (read in full...)
Approaching people
Q. Generally, at parties I get concerned when talking to new people that they might not be as interested as I am in conversation. If I'm in conversation with someone and they say they want to go to the rest-room, do I wait for them or do I move on to ...
A. 22 February 2009: well, u can try interact with some1 else wen they r in the toilet, then it shows ur confident. but u can talk to them again if u bump into them, coincidently or on purpose. but there shudnt be any shame for u to re approach them.
u shud get thei... (read in full...)
How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?
Q. Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...
A. 22 February 2009: You could say you fantasise how if she could shave her pubes? and maybe she would get something back out of it?... (read in full...)
How can I be accepted in this group and what can I do to make my wrists look more manly?
Q. I have a couple of questions that I'll just pile into this so it doesn't get annoying. 1) I have small wrists (width I mean) I'm 17 and I wanna be manly, and well... this aint doing it for me what can I do to get em bigger/better size? 2) I'm ...
A. 22 February 2009: 1. play tennis or weights, wear wrist weights? start slowly though. 2. they might not think your the type who likes to go out so you need to make them know that you are so up for it!... (read in full...)
My online man's advances are so sexual, how do I tell him that he's turning me off?
Q. i've been chatting to this guy over the last 3-4 months, he seems really nice, we just talk about school, family, parting the future.... recently he's started asking to see me on webcam (i havn't let in, yet) i kinda wanna do it because i feel like ...
A. 22 February 2009: its not that hard. u say
lets get one thing straight- i aint stripping for u etcetc... (read in full...)
Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another?
Q. Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another? It bothers me a lot especially when I'm on here reading about people saying they've cheated and saying "Oops!" like it's no big deal and then ...
A. 22 February 2009: ye i am so worried atm, but its getting better.... (read in full...)
Making friends
Q. I am a 15 year old boy who has problems making friends, see when i went to high school all I did was hang around one of my old friends from pre-school and to get those friends all that I really did was just followed them around until they accepted ...
A. 22 February 2009: well there is no way u can wave a wand and get confidence. just try talking to som1. if u bump into them capitalise by saying oh its ok, introduce urself etc? be nice to people, but dont let them walk ova u. make them know hu u r, and i am sure ull ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?
Q. Me and my boyfriend always fight, we say we love each other but it feels like there is only sex and not love. How do I find out if he really loves me like he says?...
A. 22 February 2009: well, its trust... well mayb u can talk to him about it?
thats easiest, or do something romantic together, spend some time doing something rather than eachother?... (read in full...)
I need help in asking a girl out.
Q. I am 17 and I have liked this girl for a real long time... anyway I have never been able to muster the guts to do anything, I think she does know that I like her but I am not sure. Does anyone know what I should do?...
A. 22 February 2009: i just wudnt get her friends involved, it complicates things.
but ye, just literally a rele simple question like
have u done that essay? or wateva can help. then at least u have talked. then next time, u can see her, u say hi. then the next ti... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex, is she also thinking of me?
Q. im still in love with my ex i don't know if she knows it, she saw me after 6 months i was driving through a bus station we only looked for a couple seconds ..and the same day she texted me on facebook to say hi is she still thinkig off me? i ...
A. 22 February 2009: well, it could also mean that seeing u reminded her of u. i wud suggest just talking lightly to her at the start, then seeing wat happens?... (read in full...)
I need help in asking a girl out.
Q. I am 17 and I have liked this girl for a real long time... anyway I have never been able to muster the guts to do anything, I think she does know that I like her but I am not sure. Does anyone know what I should do?...
A. 22 February 2009: ok mate, soz I wasnt much help before. Well we need more details I guess. Where could you possibly meet her? Anytime you could ask her to do something? Are you at the same school? Maybe sneak in a note? I need more details mate.... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident around girls?
Q. I am a 15 year old boy without a relationship, I think that this is because I can't talk to girls properly, I just get nervous around them and I can feel my cheeks burn up if I think I have said something stupid to them. Can you please tell me how ...
A. 21 February 2009: there isnt a way to be more confident around girls to be honest with u...
some can say u just gta man up, but that wont help. sooo u just bluff ur way thru tbh. just make them think u dont care wat they think, just talk wen spoken to, or wen u ha... (read in full...)
My ex and I still love each other after 9 years of on and off, should we make it work this time?
Q. Dear Cupid, when I was 20 I met a wonderful young man of 22. We started dating and became deeply in love with each other. We dated for 2 and half years, then in our first year of university I decided to come to canada to continue and he went to ...
A. 21 February 2009: Bloody hell, you've been through a lot... truthfully.... GO GET HIM! You only live once! Just go for it, he makes you happy! Can you really stand not living with him for the rest of your life?... (read in full...)
The shop assistant caught my attention, what now?
Q. I was in a shop waiting to be served when this guy caught my eye, he was looking at me and smiled, i smiled back and flirted a little. He served me and seemed really nice, and interested in me i think. it may sound silly but i'd really like to see ...
A. 21 February 2009: Walk in, when he gives you the receipt you put your number and name on it, and hand it back?... (read in full...)
Am I jinxed???
Q. Hi, I'm really down and could do with some advice. I don't know what's wrong with me or whether I'm jinxed. Last year my dad's twin brother died. I'd never met my grandparents before as my dad fell out with them years ago. At my uncle's funeral my ...
A. 21 February 2009: nothing is wrong with u, its just bad luck! things will get better, and i am sure the guy does still care for u. there are so many other people hu u can talk to as well... (read in full...)
I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why ...
A. 21 February 2009: naa 99.99% sure its ur lovers baby. no worries needed. ... (read in full...)
Five years and still no luck!
Q. Hello, I am in need of major help and fast. There's this guy I've liked for over 5 years and I haven't had the guts to talk to him in person! We both go to the same high school and I'm pretty sure we're the same age. I might be one year older. ...
A. 21 February 2009: Well you can ask him to sit down with you or a secret note if you have to. Trust me, just think about it - you ask a boy to lunch or something? He will love it! Trust me, he will, he really will! Just somehow manage to do something, even ... (read in full...)
I need help in asking a girl out.
Q. I am 17 and I have liked this girl for a real long time... anyway I have never been able to muster the guts to do anything, I think she does know that I like her but I am not sure. Does anyone know what I should do?...
A. 21 February 2009: To be honest mate, look at it this way. If you don't do anything you will lose her but if you do something then you might get her! It seems like a scary thing mate, I'm sure, but just think... if ANY girl in the world came up to you and asked you ... (read in full...)
Could she just be an outgoing social person, or did she want to spend time with me in particular?
Q. Hi, I have a somewhat strange situation. I recently met a girl in one of my classes through a team mate of mine. The girl turned out to be very nice, and in the same major as me. Anyway, yesterday I got an email from her asking to meet so she could ...
A. 21 February 2009: Well I think it's too early to say yes or no to be honest. You just gotta wait a bit. Maybe next time, you can try get her number? or email addy? That will help you understand a bit more about her.... (read in full...)
Is it a one-sided relationship?
Q. ive been going out with my boyfriend for a month now and so far its beeen great we could talk for hours. i went to his house yesterday and we made out for the first time and it was nice and then his mate came round whose two years older than us and ...
A. 21 February 2009: Hmmm, I think he does love you, he just doesn't really wanna show it in public, because he's scared about what other people think but try not to be put off by that for a while, it's just a boys thing!... (read in full...)
Why do you think he did this...? help me!
Q. He accused me of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months later he called me I told him 2 call me back because I was out.. he called me back and was asking me how my boyfriend was doing (as if I have one) I told him I don’t know. ...
A. 21 February 2009: Trust me, he loves you. He probably loved you so much that he started to question himself, if he was good enough etc. He wants you, I promise you because at the moment I am so scared of losing my girlfriend to someone, even though we are madly in ... (read in full...)
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