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My name is Loah.(Low-ah, strange i know,lol) I randomly came across this site and wish I had found it ages ago! I love it. Currently Im single and just kinda goin with the flow of things. I would like to think that im one of those "independent" people who takes each day as it comes.
And to make this even better a few quotes that I love:
"Love is like war. Easy to start. Hard to end. Impossible to forget."
"We get this one life, and shit will happen. Get over it and fill it up with as many extraordinary experiences as you can possibly cram in."
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My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love!
Q. My bf wants me to change the way I look in exchange for his love... We started with an internet relationship and everything was perfect until we met in person a few months later. He was the perfect fairytale bf. After he saw me our relation...
A. 27 April 2010: Relationships are about loving the person you are with for WHO THEY ARE! Flaws and all. If YOU wish to lose weight or change your image than do so for yourself. Unfortunately, I see the current relationship you share with your "boyfriend" to be ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins, should he wear one?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 21 years old virgin, have a 22 years old boyfriend who is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years now. Right now, both of us are deciding to lose our virgin to each other as we love each other so much. But my problem i...
A. 13 April 2010: Hey there,
Personally I don't think its an overly good idea for him to go without a condom for your first time. Safety comes first when dealing with sex and intimacy. And I believe that if you are not on birth control, him not wearing a condom c... (read in full...)
Girlfriend refuses to show bikini
Q. Hello, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now. However now that college has come around, I am living in my dorm room. She told me that she was going to go swimming at the ocean today, and said she had a new bikini. I asked ...
A. 12 August 2009: No need to be worried. Some of us do not feel comfortable taking and sending photos of ourselves in barely there outfits such as swimsuits. Wearing it is one thing, being photographed wearing it is another. Im sure she would be less likely to refuse ... (read in full...)
He thinks he's too old for me and I hate that he feels that way!
Q. This summer I got a job working in an office on my college campus. The great thing about it is that my college offers camps for kids and I get sent out to them to help as a teachers aide since i want to become a teacher. This past week has been the ...
A. 19 July 2009: As long as the two of you are on the same page in life, nothing else matters. If you click emotionally, intellectually and physically, you have the making of a good relationship. Its between you and him, outsiders should have no effect on your ... (read in full...)
Was I stupid to email him on Facebook?
Q. hey, this guy at my church has been checking me out in church for months. for example all through the service he looks back at me and sits two seats in front of me. I have been trying to introduce my to him for a long time but he always ccomes late ...
A. 28 April 2009: Not everyone with a facebook account checks it on a regular basis. I for one can go weeks without out logging on and have friends who have the same habit! But then have to play catch up, returning messages that have been piling up. So don't give up ... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance with him?
Q. A few years ago a boy told me he wanted to be more than friends. At the time I didn't think I felt that way about him so I said no, he didn't give up though, and over the course of 2 years he asked me out about 4 or 5 times. The boy in question is ...
A. 31 October 2008: Hey there,
After reading your post, I think you should tell him the way you feel. Dont simply state that your interested, tell him virtually what youve posted here. Let him know that in the past you were unsure of your feelings and youve finally ... (read in full...)
She pushes me away sometimes,and I'm scared of losing her.
Q. Me and my G/F have been together for a few years. We have been through a lot. She is very sweet and loving, but sometimes she pushes me away. I love her so much and I am in love, we are in love. Soon we are going to move when were old enough and ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hey there,
It seems to me that you have to work on yourself a bit. Insecurity and lack of confidence can really take its toll on any relationship. I dont mean to jump to conclusions but thats the vibe I get from reading your question. You must... (read in full...)
I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!
Q. I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...
A. 11 April 2008: One week is not nearly enough time to establish true LOVE. The man is not in love with you, he is in LUST with you. No need to freak out, but here's what you can do. Dont kick him to the curb just yet, do some research on the guy. Is he saying it ... (read in full...)
I keep digging a bigger hole for myself, what can I do to not make this anymore awkward?
Q. Okay i'm messing up this once grand friendship i had wit this girl. I liked her but she had a boyfriend, i told her how i felt and things went south. I keep trying to build our friendship back up by saying that i miss the good ol' days and stuff but ...
A. 11 April 2008: First of all, youre going to have to ask yourself one thing. Do you still have feelings for her? Would your rather be her friend or her boyfriend? If you still have those feelings, it best for you to cool things off for a bit.
Im not trying t... (read in full...)
I don't find him physically attractive, and if it were he and I isolated I wouldn't care but I want my man to be attractive to my friends, as well! Should I consider leaving him?
Q. I have been dating a man for about a month now. When I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, when I got to know him...all of him, I became attracted in other ways. I feel like I'm falling in love with someone that I am not physically ...
A. 9 October 2007: I too can relate to what your saying. Upon meeting my guy I really didnt think much of him looks wise, I am by no means shallow, he just wasnt the type of guy im generally attracted to. But as time passed I fell completely head over heels for him, ... (read in full...)
I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?
Q. Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a ...
A. 2 September 2007: Excuse me for being blunt here, but it seems that (after reading your post) you are by no means ready to have sex. It seems as though you are only considering losing your virginity solely to please this guy. Not only is sex illegal at your age, but ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl and worried about what to do during my first time.
Q. what does the girl do in sex? i am a virgin but am thinking about having sex woth my bf of 15 months. We are both virgins so he's not sure either but what does the girl do in sex?? do i jst lay there or do i hav to move or what? obviously i am going ...
A. 31 August 2007: I agree with the above comments, play it safe sweetheart!
When it comes to what you should be doing during sex, that completely depends on what your comfortable with, chances are its gonna be pretty uncomfortable (for you especially). But keep in m... (read in full...)
I like this guy at work but there is an age gap and I dont know how how to approach him?
Q. Ok, so ive been stewing on this issue for quite some time, but now i think its time to ask for advice. I know this guy through the company i work for, we know of eachother's existence but refrain from speaking to one another. Now ive liked this guy ...
A. 28 August 2007: Ive read the above comments, thankyou for the advice! In my situation, although we work for the same company, he's in one dept. and Im in another. I at times go out of my way to catch a glimpse of him (pathetic I know). The only opportunity I have ... (read in full...)
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