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male
age
36-40,
*rion
writes:Okay i'm messing up this once grand friendship i had wit this girl. I liked her but she had a boyfriend, i told her how i felt and things went south. I keep trying to build our friendship back up by saying that i miss the good ol' days and stuff but i keep digging myself bigger holes. Any suggestions on what i can do to not make this awkward anymore? Reply to this Question
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reader, Loah  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 First of all, youre going to have to ask yourself one thing. Do you still have feelings for her? Would your rather be her friend or her boyfriend? If you still have those feelings, it best for you to cool things off for a bit.
Im not trying to sound harsh, but time heals alot of things. Including friendships, this I know from experience. Over time, she may realize that she misses the "good ol' days" too, and decide to rekindle the friendship. That is, if she values you as a friend in the first place. Let her come to you.
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