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What's the best way to get him back???

Q.   My boyfriend has finished with me a couple of times and we have gotten back together, I know he loves me, it took him over a year to tell me and he always said he would tell me when he did fall in love with me, but he is so stubborn and finds it ...

A.   19 March 2009: Sounds like your relationship is not very healthy. You might think that when you break up and get back together that it means you're meant to be together, that there's something always pulling you back. Maybe there is but when you continuously ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my ex???

Q.   My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...

A.   19 March 2009: well i told the new guy what was going on. how it was a mistake to jump into anything new so quickly when i hadn't fully moved on and how i needed time to myself. he was lovely about it. said he wanted to wait until i'd had my time but i told him I ... (read in full...)

We broke up, then he said he wants me back..is it me he wants?

Q.   This is quite a long story,hope u can help! i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, i thought everything was going quite well, we didn't argue that much and had good times together. however,about 2 weeks ago he asked for a break because he wanted ...

A.   17 March 2009: I don't think you shouldn't have jumped back in so quickly. He might think that he can do this again because you took him back so easily. I'd be very wary. Be yourself but be sure to give him pleanty of space. try and take things slowly. You c... (read in full...)

What should I do about my ex???

Q.   My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...

A.   17 March 2009: Sorry yeah I know it's confusing, we did have a good relationship. but the demise of it was terrible and confusing, as had been the following couple of months. We really didn't have many problems, we were really happy. thanks so much for your ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my ex???

Q.   My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...

A.   17 March 2009: I moved on so fast not because I didn't value the relationship, the opposite actually. he hurt me so much in the month he was completely shutting down I wasn't eating, sleeping, functioning. I nearly failed my uni exams and lost 6 kilos. When he ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my ex???

Q.   My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...

A.   16 March 2009: He's not second best. He was and always will be my first choice. But how can I trust him again after he left? Also I didn't intend to go out with the new guy, I wasn't looking for anyone. He asked me out and he's nice and funny. It was not ... (read in full...)

Please help me! Should I get back with my ex ?

Q.   I honestly don't know what to do! My ex boyfriend who I dated for a year and broke up with because he cheated on me with one of my close friends and one of his ex's. Also because I found out he would flirt with a bunch of girls and his ...

A.   16 March 2009: Sounds like he's doing all the grand gestures which obviously shows he is really interested. If you still have feelings for him go for it. But take it really really really slowly. Say you need to trust him again, start off as friends. If he really ... (read in full...)

Guy 1? guy 2?

Q.   I seem to have got into a bit of a sticky situation. This may sound odd but I already know what I need to do. It's just not what I want to do.. Me and Boyfriend of a year and a half broke up in November 08. He was the love of my life, and yes I ...

A.   3 March 2009: I'm in a similar situation. my bf and i of 2.5 years broke up 4 months ago. since then i've met someone new who i've been dating for a little while. now the ex is back and i have no idea what to do. i want to be back with him too but i feel he can't ... (read in full...)

How do I act when my ex calls?

Q.   How do I act when he calls? Basically we've been apart for 2 months after 2.5 years. He broke up with me, wanted me back a week later. I said we'll see how he feels after he returns from a 1.5 month holiday to europe. he contacted continuo...

A.   21 January 2009: thanks for your responses guys. yeah it was tough at first going out and having fun. i'd go to places and remember when we were there together but i think i've been pretty strong. he ended up calling last night, the home phone and my mobile. i ... (read in full...)

Should I go no contact with my ex

Q.   Ok, i've been reading alot about no contact and various plans so i was wondering what's best for me. so here's my situation. we were together for 2.5 years. it was a very good relationship with few problems. were both 21. he broke up with me...

A.   15 January 2009: 2old4this- that's what i've been doing for a month. letting him contact me, keeping it short and simple when he does. meanwhile i've been going out, having fun, meeting new people, catching up with friends. i feel i've done all of this already. h... (read in full...)

Should I go no contact with my ex

Q.   Ok, i've been reading alot about no contact and various plans so i was wondering what's best for me. so here's my situation. we were together for 2.5 years. it was a very good relationship with few problems. were both 21. he broke up with me...

A.   15 January 2009: i highly doubt he's seeing someone. he's been away for the whole time we've been apart basically and he wanted to get back together shortly before leaving. maybe he's too nervous to call? he doesn't know what to expect? since he's been away and made ... (read in full...)

Playing games? Or reconciliation?

Q.   Hi, I've been broken up with my bf of 2.5 years for over a month now. Were both 21. He initiated the breakup. We then saw each other a week after the break up we had a wonderful day and he said he wanted to make it work, he missed me and loved me ...

A.   28 December 2008: yeah i agree i really shouldn't be dating. it hasn't been very rewarding, it's mainly just shown me how much i miss him. i really only did it out of self defence so if he didn't come back i could at least say to myself that i didn't just wait around ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him no contact or just leave it?

Q.   I need some advice. My boyfriend and i have broken up after 2.5 very happy years together. we're both young and have big dreams (he's starting med next year, i might be moving) and have alot of things we need to accomplish. he broke up with me ...

A.   13 November 2008: I was the one who suggested no contact. He wanted contact while he was away but haven't heard much from him. My friends tell me though maybe he'd just been respecting my wishes and won't contact all that often. ... (read in full...)

We're on a break but he keeps calling!

Q.   My boyfriend of 2.5 years and I are now on a break. He was the one who suggested it. But when he suggested it he was crying and crying and told me he loved me and wanted to be with me be for some reason he wanted to be alone at the moment. He NEVER ...

A.   29 October 2008: Sorry about the eurotrash comment lol. Yeah well we spoke last night and we were talking about the break and what it meant and he basically said i don't want you to hook up with anyone else and I asked whether he would and he said 'i don't wa... (read in full...)

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