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*izzyb
writes:I need some advice. My boyfriend and i have broken up after 2.5 very happy years together. we're both young and have big dreams (he's starting med next year, i might be moving) and have alot of things we need to accomplish. he broke up with me because of the big toll medicine is going to be on him (first year is supposed to be hell on earth). we saw each other monday to discuss it all and it was the best day ever. we laughed and cried and held one another and he told me he loved me so much. he suggested getting back together but i know that he's still really confused so I said it was best to be alone right now while he wasn't sure. we talked about next year and he said he wanted alot more lizzy in it. when he left he wrote me a message saying 'thanks for the most perfect day i love you and want to be the man of your dreams.' we said that we would do the same day when he got home and see from then. i suggested no contact while he was away just because it might be easier on both of us just to process things and be on our own for a while (which is what he wanted). he said he wanted to contact me because he wants to hear from me while he's away. well basically since then i haven't really heard much from him except he sent me a few smiley faces on face book. if he wanted contact why isn't he contacting me? he's still in the country and will be for a couple more days. He messaged all arvo after he left and then practically nothing for a couple of days. i ended up calling him and we just had a nice chat. my phone was about to die so we agreed he'd call me back tonight. I don't know whether to say no contact while your away and we'll see one another in January and do the same day over again or to just leave it and if he contacts me he contacts me (although this is driving me insane).
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reader, lizzyb +, writes (13 November 2008):
lizzyb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was the one who suggested no contact. He wanted contact while he was away but haven't heard much from him. My friends tell me though maybe he'd just been respecting my wishes and won't contact all that often.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Its entirely your decision whether you want to contact him or not. Long distance relationship can take its toll and it is difficult. However it is not impossible to make it work. Perhaps he felt that its the best for both of you to move on with life and that's why he's trying hard to break contact with you. Needless to say, you'll never know if you don't try right? Don't give up on your love just because the distance separates both of you. True love lasts and waits. Be optimistic and try your best. Good luck in your relationship :)
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