I want validation that he is not cheating on me! If I asked to see his phone would that be wrong?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other since May, but lately I've had this gut feeling he is hiding stuff from me. He's been acting a little shady in my eyes. Yesterday I asked him if he was talking to any other females. I excepted a no, ...
A. 13 August 2012: Firstly, I'm sorry to hear about your bad past relationship - no one deserves that. It's natural to have a fear of it happening again after something as painful as that but you can't let it dominate your current relationship. No one should be ... (read in full...)
I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?
Q. Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we ...
A. 28 November 2011: If you can't be open and honest in a relationship then what's the point of having one? Love is built off acceptance and openess..You should never lie to the people you love. If there's no trust there's no relationship. Since you broke it you'll have ... (read in full...)
I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?
Q. Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...
A. 28 November 2011: I know how you feel. All my serious relationships have been with very controlling manipulative people. You have to realize that his behaviour towards you is control and NOT love. He's with you because he's insecure and controlling you satisfies a ... (read in full...)
He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?
Q. August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...
A. 28 November 2011: Thank you for your advice. I'm still trying to accept the fact that what I experienced was sexual assault. Your caring words make me happy though :)... (read in full...)
I feel he doesn't bother about me any more the way he used to...
Q. hey people me and my bf , have been together almost a year and it reaally bothers me that he usally puts all his money towards weed he barely buys me surprises , like ... I dunno things that show he care like he used to on our anniveraary he used to ...
A. 4 September 2010: you probably hear this alot but it's not about presents. think of it this way you have a boyfriend who LOVES you this boy is IN LOVE WITH YOU :D ! any guy can get money and buy a girl presents, but for a guy to love you for you, that is definetly ... (read in full...)
I'm hopelessly Jealous
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything's great aside from one thing - I'm ridiculously jealous. Of course everyone gets that way sometimes, but, I get jealous too many times a day. I can't go to movies with my b/f ...
A. 23 July 2009: my boyfriend is like yours too :). i was having the same worries as you "too good to be true" but i've heard your story and the other girl's story. we should be happy we found people who love us so much! guys like this do exsist :P! he loves u and ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?
Q. Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...
A. 23 July 2009: you are not obligated to do anything to him. if u don't want him to touch a part of u and then he goes and touches another part of u that u dont want touched then that is very very disrespectful. he knows u wanted to wait yet hes still doing this? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 22 July 2009: I think you should share your feelings with your girlfriend. Let her know , as kindly as possible, how this is making you feel. Tell her you know you weren't perfect in the past but you are better now and that you are sorry for the past, but right ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?
Q. Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...
A. 22 July 2009: stick to your guns. if u do not want him to sleep with you or touch on of ur areas then thats that. tell him that u feel very strongly about waiting until marriage and even if he doesn't think he's begging it seems like it and that its rlly upseting ... (read in full...)
We have decided to lose our virginity to each other....but I'm scared and uncomfortable with my body
Q. Hey... Well ive been dating this guy for around 3 almost 4 years and like latley hes been like beenig wayyyy to much of a sweetheart :) and i love it! :] We are both 18 and agree that we are ready to loose are virginitys to each other... It will soo...
A. 22 July 2009: answer to question #1
everyone is uncomfortable with some aspects of their body no matter how amazing their body is. and for the first ur always worried about the little things. but trust me all he cares about is u. he obviously loves u and just... (read in full...)
He gets loving texts from his ex's
Q. Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a half, last year his phone went off while I was using the camera and it was a txt from his ex saying she loves him sexy etc...I found on his phone that he had been txting them back and saying I love ...
A. 22 July 2009: What he is doing is cheating! I know you love him but i'm sorry if he truely loved you he never would have done that. You gave him chances, so many chances, and obviously that hasn't worked. If he hasn't been talking nicely with them then why do ... (read in full...)
My bf is annoyed I wont talk to my father about birth control, who's right?
Q. I hope someone can help me out. I'm so confused. Sorry its so long, but you have to understand the whole story to answer the questions. I'm almost sixteen years old, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. I never really fo...
A. 12 July 2009: You shouldn't worry about who is right and who is wrong. Most adults would agree that it would be good for a parent to know. You should be happy your boyfriend cares so much about you though :)! But he should not be pressuring you to do something ... (read in full...)
Why does a guy mean when he tells others he wants to make me happy?
Q. What does a guy mean when he ask me if I am happy and when he tells others that he wants to make me happy? ...
A. 12 July 2009: If the guy is being honest then it means he cares about you alot :) and seeing you happy makes him happy. Isn't that cute :D?... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I cheated
Q. heyyy i'm 19 and I have a boyfriend of a year who I absolutely LOVEE!! I couldnt imagine my life with out him... but something happened about a week ago that I just can't get off of my conscience. I was at a party and I accidentally hooked up with a ...
A. 12 July 2009: I'm sorry to tell you this but yes you should tell him. If you truely love him you cannot hide this from him , unfortunatly you already messed up by cheating, do you want to make it worse by lying too ? I'm not trying to be mean but there's not ... (read in full...)
I got irresponsibly drunk, had sex and my parents want to sue him
Q. i kinda got raped. i cant explain but i can try. i was drunk. i passed out , was consantly throwing up, but continued drinking. he carried me into his room. i was awake, i didntr say no but i didnt say yes either. im 16 and he is 22. my parents ...
A. 12 July 2009: Yes, TECHNICALLY it is rape because you are underage and he is not. It is called statutory rape when a person underage has sex with a person over the age limit. But since you did not refuse him in a sense it isn't rape either. I know this is a very ... (read in full...)
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