He checks out other girls and I try to be cool but it bothers me
Q. This is really typical and stupid, but it's causing me pain and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. Before that, we were really good friends for about a year. Well a few weeks before he asked me out, he ...
A. 4 January 2009: 120lbs is not big at all, by my calculation that's less than 9 stone which is a totally normal healthy weight. Stop picking faults with yourself, your boyfriend obviously likes you for you, otherwise he wouldn't be with you.
I'd speak to your boy... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me? Or just like to look?
Q. Hi Do u guys think this guy likes me? this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass by my cla...
A. 4 January 2009: Yes, he likes you. It's a way of flirting. If you like him you should have smiled back. When you gave him a serious look, it gave him the impression you weren't interested. He was probably embaressed and that's why he started ignoring you. When ... (read in full...)
Is the single father of twins for me?
Q. I recently asked for advice in relation to a long term relation that was not going any where. Everyone suggested that I got out of it as I had been planning to. I need your advice. I attend a family run hairdressers. The son of the owner is a t...
A. 4 January 2009: Hello,
Firstly, it sound like you need to end things with your current partner, before you begin to think about things with someone else.
I always think it's healthy to take time out for yourself after a relationship has ended. Although... (read in full...)
Ditch my boyfriend and go out with her?
Q. I have been having feelings for one of my girlfriends and at first I didn't know if it was me sick to my stomache or if it was a crush. Turns out she was bisexual and had a crush on me. Many times she tried to have sex with me. But I had a ...
A. 4 January 2009: Only you can answer this question. In a way it's simple, who do you have stronger feelings for? If it's her, I'd speak to her, make sure this is what she really wants, she's changed her mind once before. If it is what she wants, go with your ... (read in full...)
Should I keep wasting my time and wait for this to happen someday, or find a new life already?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years. It will be five in March. So I have been with him since I was thirteen. That's a lot of my young life. Sometime I think I've wasted it, and almost everyone tells me so, but other times I ...
A. 4 January 2009: You need to get out. You can't wait for him to do something bad. He sounds really controlling and if he can get angry over something so simple, he sounds dangerous. If a boyfriend spoke to me like that I would have dumped them on the spot. A ... (read in full...)
How do I get more comfortable with making noise during sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are settling down to having regular sex. It's getting more and more pleasurable and I now feel the need to call out/cry out a bit with the sensations. I'm very shy and self conscious though when it's so quiet at night. My ...
A. 3 January 2009: Your boyfriends right, if you feel the need you should go with it. Try to relax and enjoy yourself, I'm sure you'll get more confortable with it in time.
Good luck!
Lisa... (read in full...)
Worried I won't be able to perform!
Q. i've never masturbated because i can't climax. i just get bored (and sore). When i was about 8-9, i had an operation where they cut the foreskin away from the head (because i was unable to pull it back). i think this may have something to do with it ...
A. 3 January 2009: I would have thought a 16 year old boy having wet dreams is a sign that you are completely normal. If you are worried and uncomfortable seeing your GP, there will be a sexual health centre in your area, where they will be able to check you out and ... (read in full...)
First kiss advice
Q. I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl. When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now. A year after his dea...
A. 3 January 2009: You're not weird, a freak or a loser, stop putting yourself down. So you're approaching 18 and haven't kissed anyone, big deal, I bet you it's more common than you think. Relax, it will come naturally when the time is right. Not that I'm advising ... (read in full...)
He's upset because I took the morning after pill!
Q. I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...
A. 3 January 2009: What!?!
Maybe god will forgive you! How dare he judge you, if he's so religous what's he doing having unprotected sex with a women he's not married to. I'd get rid of that one if I was you, what a tool!... (read in full...)
Although I enjoyed his interest I'm not sure I want to meet him, as I am committed, so what should I answer him?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had some problems the last few month, but know, we want to stay together and may go further. At the beginning of our problems in October, I went to a advanced training course, where I ...
A. 3 January 2009: I'd tell him you'd like to meet up with him sometime, but tell him you can't tonight as your out with your boyfriend. Suggest another time. You've told him what he needs to know, without being rude and withoutany awkwardness.... (read in full...)
He wants me to change my PROFESSIONAL name after marriage and I don't want to
Q. Hello all, I have been in a relationship my boyfriend for 2 years and have run into some problems. We have discussed our future many times, trying to sort things to make our relationship work into a marriage, but I have some issues with what...
A. 3 January 2009: Hello,
Sorry to hear you're in such a difficult situation.
I think the issue of name, is a relatively minor one. I have a friend who's a doctor of physics and so is her husband. While she's taken his name, she still uses her own for professi... (read in full...)
Should I marry my fiance even although I am not in love with him?
Q. Hi, I have been dating my fiance for 1 year and we have just got engaged. He is a very kind, caring and thoughtful guy and would do almost anything for me. I have never been out with anyone who has so wanted to take care of me and thinks of me...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm going to be contravertial and disagree with all the answers here. You're in your mid thirties you want children, no offence, but the clocks ticking. There comes a point in your life when you need to except life's not perfect and 'Mr Right' ... (read in full...)
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