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writes:HiDo u guys think this guy likes me?this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision.He would pass by my class with a smile to look at me.BUT I would never react. Never shared it with anybody. Cause I was confused.This all took place for a month. One day he was following me. I just gave him a serious look. From then onwards he has began to ignore me.After some weeks i did ask him his name. One fine day i asked him to be my friend. That day he was very serious. The previous day he was happy when I said Hi!! To him.After I spoke to him. He agreed with my friendship. I expected him to talk to me the next day. But he didn’t turn up. Well I understood he was not interested. I would sometimes find him looking at me from a distance.I think he even went and told his friends. So 2 of them always look at me. Plzzz note this is happening for a year now.Anyways I too ignored him not wanting to be in someone’s personal Space. It really did hurt. After some weeks while I was having my religious class. This guy passed by my class looking at me. As soon as I looked at him. He gave me a Bright smile along with a funny eyebrow expression.From then onwards this guy would come close to him. He even once brushed against me.Every now an then, he would pass by my class to look at me. But whenever I would catch him he would immediately look away.I too never showed him any interest neither would smile when he would look. Cause I was frustrated. Now a days all he does is looking at me sometimes. Passing by my class to see me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): THANX but dont u guys no think ... the guy is PLAYING GAMES WITH ME. Because after i approached him. He went and told his friends. I suppose must have made fun of me.
because.. oneday hie friend. came and asked my name. then he smiled .. when i asked wHY?. WELL.. after that he giggled and said. NOthing Noting...
And in the meantime , he even Ignored me for weeks. i too ignored him. Well after somrtime he is again back .. nonverbal. not wanting to approach .
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): I defenately think he likes you. First, he felt attached to you and couldn't help looking at you all the time because he liked you.
When you seemd a bit cold and didn't answer his feelings, ha became nervous. Smile to you one day, ignore another.
He may thought "Oops, today i showed so many signs I'm intrested. And she didn't respond..! Tomorrow, I shall totalt ignore her".
And later he do show the "in love" signs to you again! =)
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reader, Little Lisa  +, writes (4 January 2009):
Yes, he likes you. It's a way of flirting. If you like him you should have smiled back. When you gave him a serious look, it gave him the impression you weren't interested. He was probably embaressed and that's why he started ignoring you. When you asked his name and said hi, he would have thought he was in with a chance. He's shown clear signs of fancying you, so when you asked to be friends, he was probably hurt, as he probably thought that's all you wanted. Then poor guy's tried and probably feels like he's got the brush off time and time again. If you like him, it's now in your hands. Next time you see him say hi and give him a killer smile. I bet he smiles back, but if not don't be disheartened, he didn't give up that easily. Do this when ever you see him, in time he may have the courage to approach you. If not, so long as you get possitive feedback i.e. he's smiling, be brave and go up to him, suggest you meet up sometime after school.
Good luck,
Lisa
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