What does this 19 year old boy want with a 30 year old single parent???
Q. I got drunk at a Halloween party. 2 days later I got a message from a guy at a party saying we had had a nice discussion though i was drunk and he was very friendly. i couldn't reslly remember him so I sent a friendly reply. we started talking a ...
A. 13 November 2008: well in my eyes i think tht all boys like me sometimes get a bit random in our texts he might like you as a friend or he might of started to like u but realise he in a relationship tht he cares about so maybe if u just try stay friends or somthing ... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage by coming clean or should I just keep my mouth shut?
Q. I have been married for almost 20 years, most of it happily. I have relatively few complaints. Life has been good. About a month ago, I attended a work related social event without my husband. Things got rather friendly with a female co-worker and ...
A. 18 September 2008: you must come clean imagine its like a ballon being blown up the longer you hold it in (pump it) the louder its gonna explode which means you should tell him while its right and just say that it was an accident a one off and you only wanted to try ... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't have much free time....is 3 times a week being reasonable??
Q. Hi I need help here, I have a 7 month boyfriend, he is wonderfull, he treats me really nice, we share strong feelings for each other, and the sex is GREAT. My problem is that now we are seeing each other like 3 times a week, he works very hard, he...
A. 18 September 2008: that sounds fair see him 3 times a week im surehe thinks about you but you have to let him work hard as well as haveing fun... (read in full...)
I have a problem concentrating, and I am depressed,because of a girl I like, my friends have told me to get over her, but I can't seem too, what do I do to stop this?
Q. Well i have a problem with a girl in my year (9) and ive liked her for 2 years and im starting to get pretty peed off with everyone because they say get over her and i cant everyday its 'get over her' i cant understand everyones hate for it but she ...
A. 18 September 2008: just to let you all know i am not gonna kill myself i thought hard about that last year and know shes rubbing the fact she has a boyfriend in my face ive started talking about it to my sisters best friend she helps soooo much but she says go ... (read in full...)
Should I take some more time and analyze my situation for my kid's sake before I move in with my fiance?
Q. I'm 33 with two kids. I've recently become engaged. My Fiance has a daughter of his own and wants us to move in together. We really don't have any big issues, we don't argue that much and when we do, he always tells me 'lets talk about it and not ...
A. 17 September 2008: start by waiting a while then maybe ask your daughter if she wouldnt mind so much if you and your daughter had days to spend with each other like one on one family session fun day kind of things where your fiance is with his daughter your with yours ... (read in full...)
How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!
Q. What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I ...
A. 17 September 2008: like they say looks change personality is forever personality counts it is what is you... (read in full...)
I keep losing my erection with my gf
Q. well i have a girl friend and we have been going out for 3moths and the first time we had sex i was hard but the 2 time we had sex i coulddnt get hard. for some some reason i masterbat 2 porn but only like a littil not alot i do it like 1 or 2 times ...
A. 17 September 2008: well if it doesnt work after a long time try ordering some kind of erectile disfunction tablets (viagra or sumets of that type) it may be a problem but dont wory if you consult a docter or a sexual consultant they may be able to prescribe some for ... (read in full...)
What can we do about our friend who is harming herself? Should we tell?
Q. Hi, my ex - best friend has been cutting herself for about a year now, and me and my other friends don't know what to do. I've been reading stuff about telling, but were too afraid. So, please tell me anything i can do to get her the help she need...
A. 17 September 2008: try get people to be nice to them or get them to confess there problems in england we call these people emos (emotional people) so maybe he has some hidden reason for being upset with the world if problem persists pm me with new news and i shall ... (read in full...)
I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?
Q. I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...
A. 17 September 2008: this sounds very serious when u say you like it it can be due to your personality maybe hes hinting at you to leave him im really stumped on this one... (read in full...)
My brother and I got along fine, until he started dating this very rude girl, she and I fight, and my brrother and I no longer have a good relationship, how can I repair the relationship with my brother?
Q. My brother is daing this girl that hates my guts (we got in a few cat fights) and has no respect for me. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Before they started dating, me and my brother never fight but we arg...
A. 17 September 2008: if u ask me i think family should be more important than his gf because if you think about it if they last long time and get married you shall be related to that person u hate do you want tht if no then tell ur brother if he doesnt like it just try ... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in my current girlfriend, and I think about my ex-girlfriend, although it's been two years, since we broke up, what do I do at this point?
Q. i think i lost interst in my current girlfriend and i still yhink about my ex alot although it as been almost 2 years since i lost her...
A. 17 September 2008: the longer it takes to be honest about your feelings the more it'll hurt her and that wont make you very attractive towards your ex... (read in full...)
Reluctant to let him see me naked as I feel too fat!
Q. ok i am 18 year old and i am 5'2 i wieght 140 ok the problem is that my boyfriend what us to have sex but we havent because of me. i feel too fat and i dont want him to see me naked because i think i might crouse him out what do i do i know am ...
A. 17 September 2008: remember its not what you look like its your personality at heart so he can either like it or lump it... (read in full...)
Does love involve belonging to your partner?
Q. I would like an opinion here... Would you say that love involves belonging to someone else? In soul/heart? In body?...
A. 17 September 2008: to put it simply no u do not belong to him u are each other not he owns u thats basically saying your souls are combined but your soul doesnt get on a leash and go round being owned by sum1 no u are like to souls together merged like the yin yang ... (read in full...)
What to do about my lying boyfriend? He blamed it on me that he created a dating account! Do I believe him?
Q. right so i'l try and make this short, basically me and my boyfriend nearly split up about 2 weeks ago and it was his choice he was saying he doesn't know wether he wants me or loves me anymore and we came to a decision that we were going to give it ...
A. 17 September 2008: right im sorry to put this bluntly but there are people who are looking for girlfriends then there are people who jusrt want loads of girls and doesnt care about any of them plus he makes u delete your account on bebo etc get in his face and tell ... (read in full...)
What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?
Q. well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the ...
A. 17 September 2008: well you can start by maybe asking her somthing simple like how are you if she ignores you then try maybe by asking her name then continue to like so what are you into and that kinda thing you get me ok feel free to pm for more help... (read in full...)
I love her but she hates me so much she even accused me of stalking her!
Q. I'm 14 and I'm in love with a girl that hates me very much but I love her I can't get over her I have tryed to get over her but I can't she didin't hate me always she was first very nice to me and then she said to me that I'm pathetic and then she ...
A. 17 September 2008: i am in the totally same situation except ive loved her for 2 years im 14 and ive loved her since yr 7-9 along time and i still havnt got over her and when i saw ur blog to be honest i thought i had written it before so yeah try and not be to ... (read in full...)
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