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What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

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Question - (17 September 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *onfused0102 writes:

well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her.

Also she is in the year above so she isnt in any of my classes, so any ideas how i could get conversation started, or how to get her MSN address? Because my mates wont ask for me, and she doesn't know me, so i dont think she would give it to me if i asked...or what can i start a conversation about?

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A female reader, Jodiesmith United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2008):

Did you speak to her let us know????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):

could you tell us a little more information?

when do you see her?

how long for?

just things like that might help us get more of an idea of your problem.

post some info back!

thanks a lot

xxx

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A male reader, little_goth_bladez United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

well you can start by maybe asking her somthing simple like how are you if she ignores you then try maybe by asking her name then continue to like so what are you into and that kinda thing you get me ok feel free to pm for more help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008):

just ask her, she can only say no.

keep eye contact, and smile always.

try flirting with her.

try getting along with her friends?

good luck.

get stuck in there.

x

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A female reader, Kindness United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

Kindness agony aunthello.

well thats totally strange because im having the exact same dilemma. i reckon you should just ask for her msn. try to keep eye contact with her for as long as possible, always smile at her - just a nice smile. everyone loves a smile :) just be yourself try join in the conversation with her. just try letting her know that you like her. if your shy then dont do it in a really obvious way. like i said smile be yourself. try getting to know her mates? just go for it. send me a message letting me know how you get on! good luck xxxxx

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A female reader, Michelle_Anne United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

Michelle_Anne agony auntTry to find something you two have in common (ex. Music, Art, Literature, Video Games, ect ect...) Just one little thing can do. ^^

And why not talk to her friends? It will look good on your part if your nice to her friends. And its a good way to seem less interested at first. You dont want to make it look like your after her and only her, she may get put off by it. I hate guys who try to hard. A little attention goes a long way.

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A female reader, Jodiesmith United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

hey babes - my first thought is dont MSN her.. speak to her like you said first. Girls might seem scarey to approach but really they are not that bad, and i bet she is flattered by the fact you like her.

I would start of with a smile and saying hey when you walk past her, maybe if your brave say casually - hey, hows things? seen you around but dont know your name???

Women love confident men - go for it act cool, with a cute smile - you will be surprised

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A female reader, CNKlives United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

awh! I love this. Well is she in any clubs that you can join? What is she involved in? I would just try and be in the same social cirle as her then casually, when you are standing in the same group, introduce yourself to her (and anyone else in the group that you don't know) once you have introduced yourself to her you can start waving at her and saying hi...then you could casually ask for her MSN address...then chat on MSN then ask her to the movies!!!

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