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writes:hi .. i have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 4months . and i love himm soooo muchhh !!i have never felt this way over anyone ! but when he says he loves me and when we argue sometimes and when we are ok againn and he tells me he loves me sometimes i dont think he does . but i think its just me and i think its getting him really upset :( but i trust him and everything just sometimes at the back of my mind in case he leaves me !!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Look, I will tell you straight up forward. Do you want to be loved? Do you want to be respected? Here is what you must do, leave him for a while and see what happends. Then you will now for sure If he loves you or is he just trying to use you. Don't you know what most man want is sex. But a man of a true heart and dignaty, he will respect you and love you. Think about it? Good luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 Try to think positive always .
For the negative is from the devil.
Whatever happens will happen and we cannot control our destiny.
Leave the future to destiny and enjoy the present.
Life is to live and be happy.
For we do not know what tomorrow will bring.
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reader, lilly_08  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 arguments are a natural part of a relationship as long as they dont get violent.. seems to me that you feel a little insecure im sure your worrying is not needed and you may create a problem in the relationship that in turn might make him leave. just be happy with the way things are going and enjoy your time together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): You may or may not have a realistic concern.
Now I see that you feel all bubbly around him, but when you have an argument, what is the argument about, and do you both come to a compromise or solution? This is critical, if ends with nothing resolved, then that little voice in that back of your head is warning you. If the issue that you argue about are needs you or he has, then this is serious if the relationship is going to last for any length of time, if they are resolved to boths agreement and satisfaction, then you can expect a happy relationship, because you know how to communicate. If you haven't resolved it, and it doesn't look like it will, then these issues, along with anyother either of you may have will just pile up, and eventually, the relationship will come crashing to earth.
I hope this will help you answer your own question. If not, then you will need to provide more information, along with examples. You need to acknowledge what your heart and mind are telling you. If your heart says love, but the mind says warning, then you must listen to the warning signals and work on it to resolve it to your satisfaction.
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