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All she wants to do is take him from me!

Q.   I have been in this fantastic relationship for over a year now. I love the guy I’m with and he loves me. The only problem with it... my "best friend” loves him too. Last summer we hung out for about a week straight. It was amazing until I got an ...

A.   5 August 2014: once again, i would like to update. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our 5 year anniversary in the coming January, and i have reached out and spoke with mu old best friend. she and i have cleared so many things up since this accident, and i ... (read in full...)

How do I cope with boyfriend being 4 hours away?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to go to university that is about 4 hours or so away, and I don't know how to deal with it!!! I have jealousy issuses and I am easily depressed so I don't know how well I will deal with this. I new ways of copeing with that far ...

A.   12 November 2012: I'm sorry, did I say I was tellin him I was sad he is going? I'm trying not to be selfish! I want him to go, but I'm so scared he will find somebody else. I'm not perfect, nor have I ever been. I'm trying to make him going away easier for both of us ... (read in full...)

All she wants to do is take him from me!

Q.   I have been in this fantastic relationship for over a year now. I love the guy I’m with and he loves me. The only problem with it... my "best friend” loves him too. Last summer we hung out for about a week straight. It was amazing until I got an ...

A.   22 January 2012: It is interesting that you ask this at this point in time because today we are celebrating our 2 year aniversary :) we are extremely happy and she has realized that he and I aren't going anywhere soon. Unfortunately she is dating one of my closest ... (read in full...)

Some questions about 'doggie style'

Q.   Hello, I'm 20 and had some questions about doggy style. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I have never really wanted to pursue this position because there is not really any eye contact and feels more like a "get her done" ...

A.   7 January 2012: i find doggy style more pleasureing sometimes. it helps sometimes if you put your head down on a pillow. doggy style can even help him get deeper im told (read that in cosmo). i've only had the air problem once and it wasnt really noticable, but if ... (read in full...)

I'm ready to have sex with him, but it's my first time...advice?

Q.   Hey guys this is a really personal question and I hope you can help me with it I,ve been dating this guy for nearly two months. He makes me feel amazing and beautiful and like i,m the only girl in the world I,ve met his family and I think they...

A.   5 September 2011: try having him over one day for something you both like. fool around for a bit then, if you feel u for it, go for it :) tell him to be gentle and to ease into it. be sure you use a condom and to be even more safe go on birth control. my first time ... (read in full...)

Should I confront his mother or just try and grow up right away?

Q.   so me and my boyfriend have been daiting for almost 2 years and we have had sex only once. the other day we were going to again but the night before he told me that his mom didn't want it to happen because she found me immature. she doesnt want it ...

A.   5 September 2011: i should clear some things up :) 1. the only reason he told me is because we promised each other we wouldn't hide anything from each other. 2. unfortunately we have broken each others hearts once but that was near the begining. 3. i was on skype... (read in full...)

How do you get through those first few days after a break up?

Q.   I will keep this short and sweet. Whats the most effective method of mending a broken heart, in the early days when you dont even want to get out of bed and when you feel so low you actually dont know what to do. I know the cliche - time is a good ...

A.   30 July 2011: do not listen to sad music or lovesongs! it makes it horrible! trust me!... (read in full...)

Should I talk to my friend's boyfriend to see if he feels the same way?

Q.   At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school I met my best friend. I've never been closer with anyone in my life, she knows everything there is to know about me. She trusts me more than anyone, and I trust her. Soon after we became friends ...

A.   12 July 2011: i agree with xoxolost. but keep in mind your best friend.... the EXACT same thing happened with me EX best friend and my boyfriend... EX is in capital for a reason... just think about it. she never told me anything about it and it crushed me when ... (read in full...)

So is my 'boyfriend' cheating on me? What should I do? Please help.

Q.   ive been talking to this guy that i work with for about 2 years. we've always had something going on like kissing all the time flirting and texting.. a week and a half ago, he asked me to be his gf. he always tells me he is in love with me and i ...

A.   12 July 2011: i think so you go and say 'so whats the story between you and ________?'... (read in full...)

BF is married and lied to me about being separated from his wife, having sex with her and having another kid that I didnt know of. Does he deserve another chance?

Q.   Five months ago I met this guy who seemed like a good guy and was fun to hang around. From the first moment we met he admitted to me that he had a son who was in the first grade, and showed me pictures like any proud father. Even though I myself ...

A.   12 July 2011: i really dont think you should... he lied about wayyy more than one thing!... (read in full...)

In a subtle way I want to find out if he likes me. But how do I do that?

Q.   I've fancied this guy I know for ages and really like him. So far nothing has really happened between us, except for some moments where he has said things like "great to spend time together" and another time when someone told him I liked him, I ...

A.   16 April 2011: firstly the majority of men want you to make the forst move.. men socially are incapable of doing it themselves. its easier on them if you just ask them out yourself. if he doesnt like you; he'll be blunt, and tell you straight up. he's made it ... (read in full...)

How do I disappear with my little one so he can't find us?

Q.   hi everyone i need some help and some of you might think i'm a cow. but here it goes i have a 3 week old baby that the dad only saw 3 times since her birth. to me i think he is a dick he can't see her beacuse its messing with his new relationship...

A.   11 April 2011: my honest answer would be to either call police or take it to court... or just move. dont tell anybody but the people who are close to you that you are moving. you may LOVE it where u live and all but if this man is being a deadbeat father (and an ... (read in full...)

Ignored.

Q.   Alright so recently I confronted my boyfriend about that I thought he was cheating but.. that's not the problem anymore because I trust him now. Although, one thing I've noticed since is.. he's staring to ignore me.. today we was going out and ea...

A.   11 April 2011: righgt now im going through the same thing. i find that hes just got something going on that he doesnt want to talk about. something stressful or something that could make him sad to talk about. dont push him to tell you but dont make him think its ... (read in full...)

We haven't talked all march break!

Q.   So all march break me and my boyfriend haven't talked... I think he might break up with me.... what should i do?...

A.   21 March 2011: march break has been a week long. im goin back to school today but he has a drama festivle hes doing for this week. the only reason we really havent talked is because i've been away and i cant really go see him because my momma hates him and hes ... (read in full...)

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