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writes: I've fancied this guy I know for ages and really like him. So far nothing has really happened between us, except for some moments where he has said things like "great to spend time together" and another time when someone told him I liked him, I denied it and he was and still is pretty frosty with me, after that. Anyway I'm not sure if he likes me or not, so I thought I should be subtle to find out. His brother and I go to a drama group together and we have a show coming up which he will be going to. I was thinking of trying to find out there. But I don't have a clue how to go about this. I don't want to be too aggressive and want to be subtle in order to find out if he likes me too. Any ideas of things I should say or do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Larissalover1  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 firstly the majority of men want you to make the forst move.. men socially are incapable of doing it themselves. its easier on them if you just ask them out yourself. if he doesnt like you; he'll be blunt, and tell you straight up. he's made it clear that when you said you didnt like him, he was hurt. dont loose hope. trust your instincts.
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