I’m Seriously Considering Having an Affair with My Ex-Boyfriend/Best Friend
Q. Sorry... it's a LONG one to read if you have time :-D So, I’ve been married for 6 years to my husband. I’m 28 and he’s 32. We had a great foundation of friendship before we got married and he is a wonderful man as far as he tries to provide...
A. 2 November 2010: Don't have an affair!! It will only make everything SO MUCH WORSE in the long run. The guilt will eat you alive!!! Your husband will never think the same of you after that. And you can 100% guarantee you'll never get where you'd like to be with ... (read in full...)
Torn between what is and what could be
Q. It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...
A. 28 October 2010: This is my long story, but PLEASE READ and I hope it makes you think:
I was married to a wonderful man 5 years ago. We met in college and were instant best friends. We were both taken at the time and never thought of crossing the friendsh... (read in full...)
I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!
Q. I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her ...
A. 28 October 2010: Sounds like you're trying to win a game or something. Suck it up and treat the next person you date like you should have treated her. She's happy now. Be happy for her and let her be happy. If you mess that up after how you said you treated her ... (read in full...)
Guys: Hot and cold?
Q. one minute hes soo sweet,considerate and perfect gives you all his attention and then hes a total idiot who doesn't care if you exist. why would he behave like that?? thnx..xx...
A. 16 September 2010: How long have you been dating him? Can you give examples of how he's acted like an idiot? Disrespectful behavior is NEVER okay. Hopefully you call him out on it because if you say nothing than you're giving him the message that 'it's ok to mess ... (read in full...)
Wedding already paid for but I'm not attracted to her and don't think I love her!
Q. Hi im a 25 yrs old man. I find very difficult for me to say no to other people or to tell anything that will make anybody feel bad. I been almost all my life a strong christian, trying to save myself to my wife. in until i was 23 i had never been in ...
A. 16 September 2010: Oh boy.... the first thing that I MUST say without any doubt is you HAVE GOT TO TELL HER YOU'RE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED!!! I wouldn't tell her you're not attracted to her. Don't be mean, but be honest that you are not ready to get married and ... (read in full...)
Should I remove myself from this situation with the girl from my dorm?
Q. Me and a girl on my dorm floor have fallen into this weird pattern of one-sided oral, and I don't know what to think first off, she is HOT beau prettier than any one I have been with. Here it goes. We make out, she let's me feel her up, and ulti...
A. 13 August 2010: hum.... she's not trying to demean you or humiliate you SHE HAS! She's totally using you and she obviously likes having control over someone or she would NOT tell her friends. She's obviously saying derogatory things about you or her friends ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for my ex unfair to my current boyfriend?
Q. I have been with my current partner now for 2 years. I love him dearly and couldn't imagine life without him. But I can't help but wonder if (and please don't think this the wrong way) he isn't "The One" that everyone says he should be. The reason b...
A. 13 August 2010: There's so much I can say to this and don't know where to begin. I wish I had some more info from you like was your previous love your 1st love, how long were you guys together and why did you break up? How does your ex still feel about you and is ... (read in full...)
To worry or not to worry???
Q. I have a situation with my boyfriend that is really bothering me. This may sound strange and/or stupid at first but read on.... We’ve been together for 1-1/2 years. He seems to have this strange habit of texting a couple of his female friends ...
A. 9 August 2010: Hello all, thank you for the great responses! I have thought about totally removing myself from facebook since it does make me feel 'overlooked' by him. But, I've made contact with many family members that I never knew, so I don't want to ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's ex-gf is interfering in our relationship! What can I do?
Q. My fiance and I have been engaged for four months now. We are happily tra la la in love. Things are going smooth and I have NEVER been this happy with a man in my life. Here is the sitch. Before he and I met, he had dated a female for a month and ...
A. 9 August 2010: I agree with Practical completely, but I also understand how frustrating it can be when someone is obviously trying to be messy. But seriously, his ex needs some mental help!! She only dated him for a month and she's acting like that!!! What a ... (read in full...)
Why is sex sacred to women after marriage when they were so promiscuous before.
Q. I don't understand this. Before she met me, my wife couldn't care less about who she slept with. She was a party girl and gave it up to pretty much anyone. Now that we are married its supposed to be this sacred bond that only she and I share? I do...
A. 8 August 2010: When you love someone you love them for who the ARE not who they WERE. Add to that when you get married it's the future you should be focused on and not the past. You maed a statement that "how can sex be special to her when she's been with a ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?
Q. [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...
A. 8 August 2010: I know when you really, REALLY like someone (especially love them) it's hard to see anything clearly... even at 39! I know you may be a mature 14 year old, but you are still only 14. What I'm going to say may sound harsh but I'm going to be ... (read in full...)
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