Does he like me or is it in my head?
Q. I hung out with this guy outside of school for the first time with 2 other girls, who one is his ex girlfriend, the whole time he kept looking at me and smiling at me. I don't know if I like him or not but I brushed past him a few times and sort of ...
A. 14 August 2012: 1st question. Do you like him after this?
2nd question. How well do you know him?
3rd question. Do you know his ex?
I don't really need to know the answers. Only to bring up your true logical thoughts. Often, emotions rule our head without... (read in full...)
Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?
Q. I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls b...
A. 14 August 2012: It is interesting to read the different views here. One I think we can all debate on for centuries.
"Women view any men who talks to them mean he wants to sleep with her.
Men view any women who talks to them mean she fancies him.
Same sex... (read in full...)
Working so hard during term time means I always get ill during the holidays! How do I stop this?
Q. I'm at college and need some advice. I work really hard all year to try and get the best grades that I can. At the moment I am working at grades A and B however whenever the holidays come around I always get ill. I usually stay behind at college ...
A. 16 February 2012: A healthy lifestyle must involve regular exercise and social interaction. From the sound of it, you are so into studying, you are not letting yourself unwind.
I have known many many people (I teach martial arts at a very large and demandin... (read in full...)
Hen nights/batchelor parties
Q. Ok, even though im not yet getting married because Im obviously too young right now. But I was wondering... Do the girls always go to male strip clubs and guys always go to girl strip clubs for the bachelor party or whatever? Cuz I always see that ...
A. 17 February 2010: It depends on the organiser it to be honest.
My advice it not to worry and simply enjoy it. Remember, they can never ever force you to do anything you don't want to.
The last Stag weekend I went to ended up being in Scotland - 12 miles of hiki... (read in full...)
What's the difference between love and lust?
Q. I know this seems like a really simply question but im so confused ... whats the difference between love and lust? see i dont want to make a fool of myself if its just lust...
A. 7 February 2007: My understanding?
Love - First person you think off when you wake. Last person you think of before sleep.
Lust - Only when you have time!... (read in full...)
My heart is broken!
Q. my heart is broken and i cant bare the pain..........help...
A. 7 February 2007: I can not give you much sound advice. There are no cure or any way to ease the pain - the pain must be endured and not ignored. Get your closest friends and family and talk to them. Their support will be the only thing that can help you endure it ... (read in full...)
I just can't cope with my dad's alcoholism any more! What do I do?
Q. My dad is an alcoholic and my mum died when I was 11. Now I am 16 and don't know how to cope with my dad. He doesn't always drink, but when something happens in the family to upset him he always turns to drink. My grandmother is dying with cancer a...
A. 16 November 2006: Many people don't realise that alcoholism is far more common than they suspect. Most Alcoholics don’t even know they are one until the truth smacks them in the face. The fact that your father needs to face his problems with a hard drinks makes him ... (read in full...)
Want to look my best and lose some weight... but what's the best way?
Q. Hi. Next August, I'm going to Africa with my family. Obviously, it's a once-in-a-lifetime experiance and I want to look my best. I'm not overweight now. I'm quite thin, but recently I've felt a few extra pounds creep on, and it's not even Christmas ...
A. 16 November 2006: Losing weight is usually down to your own metabolism. A massive change on diet will usually cause either a large weight gain or a large weight loss. However, too much of a change will effect your health. Some cases even causes irreversible ... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting a job that entails things I am interested in ?
Q. how do i go about getting a job that involves things that im interested in and am passionate about?...
A. 30 September 2006: Difficult to answer if you don't state what you are interested in.
In my experience, if you are passionate about something then you will find out about this through the insitution that you are currently practising.
What you refer to would b... (read in full...)
What should I tell them about my weaknesses should they ask in an interview ?
Q. I am going for an interview, and the question I dread the most is "what are your weaknesses".. Surely if I tell them "I am always late", etc - they wont touch me with a barge pole!...
A. 30 September 2006: Lateness is a problem that is fast fading in the industry. You ever heard of flexi-time?
My advice is to turn any questions on your weakness to a strong point.
For example, if they ask you “what you do feel is your weakness?”. If you answer t... (read in full...)
Cant find the right job, all I seem to be offered are degrading Admin roles, What can I do ?
Q. I graduated with a 2:2 in History in 2002. I foolishly believed all the lies about graduate vacancies and starting salaries of £18k etc. But like everyone else I knew I starting temping, doing boring reception and data entry jobs on £5 an hour. ...
A. 21 September 2006: It is foolish to believe that you are above any job.
I have an engineering degree, but like you I find finding the job I want difficult after I left Uni.
I am working in the pension industry/ At first it seems that it is a far more degrading t... (read in full...)
How do I tell him how I feel without coming off looking needy?
Q. from mens point of views please!!! i have posted before and i would like some more opinions and advice please from men, as men know how a man thinks. i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a c...
A. 21 September 2006: How can I put this.... hmmmm...
Men are generally bad at displaying their feelings. Some, like me do not feel the need to xxx's on messages as they seem insincere. A man's feels comes through when you are with him.
The fact that you still l... (read in full...)
I'm joining the police, my mates are going to Uni... How do meet new people in the meantime?
Q. This isn't a problem exactly - i'm more just looking for advice:) I'm in my last year of sixth form college and in a few months will have done all my exams and left. I'm not going to uni (out of choice - i'm sick of education!) but most of my mates...
A. 8 April 2006: Best way to keep fit and meet people? Do martial arts.
It is a great way to meet people and build your self worth. Many of my friends are in the police and the confidence they gained from the practise of it help their discipline and temp... (read in full...)
I'm a desperate man with troubles and need advice, I just don't want to let my kids down!
Q. Hi i have just split from my girlfriend we have a 3 year old son i love and i have 3 kids from a previous relationship,my relationships have a pattern of going the same way starts good end up bad i have a history of depression not violence i just e...
A. 8 April 2006: Depression will not go away on its own; it will only get harder if you allow it to build up. I know how you feel as I also work long hours, but as I’m single (for last 4 years) and no kids, I have only myself to deal with so I can try different ... (read in full...)
Is my flirty friend just being playful??
Q. How do i gave my good guy friend my phone number without making him think i like him more then a friend? I dont want to make things ackward between us. We flirty sometimes but sometimes i wonder if hes just being a playful friend. Any advice?...
A. 8 April 2006: How would you ask your "other" friends for their number? If you don't want him to know your true feelings then treat him as your other friends.
Alternatively, find an excuse to give him yours. If he likes then then he'll find an "excuse"... (read in full...)
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