I've got no confidence and it's affecting my school and personal life...
Q. I'm 12 and have no confidence whatsoever. At all. I can't even ask a shop assistant how much something costs or a teacher if I have a problem. A lot of people like me... I guess, but I feel alone, even though my best friend is always there for me. ...
A. 30 April 2005: It sounds that you need a bit of independant time away from your mum. Go to a camp in summer break maybe even if it means taking along your friends. It would be better if you go alone, to develop your skills as a social person. Stroll into sc... (read in full...)
After our "one nighter" the girl I love fell pregnant, but she doesn't know how I feel!
Q. I had a one-night-stand with my best friend, and now she's pregnant. I've been in love with her since we were 15... and it's seven years later and she still doesn't know. I was so happy when she kissed me. Then she told me it was a 'one time thing' ...
A. 30 April 2005: Tell her!... (read in full...)
I'm interested in her, but she's only 16. Do I tell her or wait until she finishes school?
Q. Dear cupid, I have got a problem. There is this girl that I like but she is 4 years younger than me. I'm 19 and she is 16. The next thing is that I am a technician at the school she goes to. So what do I do? Do I tell her how I feel, wait till ...
A. 30 April 2005: Well, I'm not sure of whether this is legal in this case, but I think you should follow your heart. Work out a bit. Have you seen "desperate housewives"? I think there would be nothing more attractive, than a man with large biceps, there every day ... (read in full...)
I think I've ruined my chances with the guy I want... Is it gone for good?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have really "gone and done it" this time.And unfortunately, unlike Shania Twain,I don't mean "gone and done it" as in "fell in love".I mean "gone and done it" as in "totally messed up my friendship with my crush"...at least,th...
A. 30 April 2005: You need to be a bit clearer. Is this guy your boyfriend, or did you just shout that to be protective 'cos you want to ask him out? To any problem like this, all you can do is apologise. To him and his ex. Then, try and work a friendship back ... (read in full...)
He feels like he can break up and have me back any time he wants. Why does he do this?
Q. I'm hoping you can help me because I can't take this any more. I had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half and then he told me he wanted a break and needed time apart from me. I thought, okay whatever, I'll just give him this time, even though I...
A. 30 April 2005: Well, I'm just a teenager but what seems to have happened is that he has got bored with you and taken you for granted. Now he feels guilty for leaving you for no real good reason so doesn't like to be around you. All I can say is that you should ... (read in full...)
Should we stay together, even though we fight?
Q. If the bad times outweigh the good, if there is more arguing and fighting than anything else should a couple stay together? We have two kids and I love my partner more than anything but I can't take much more of the emotional abuse!!...
A. 30 April 2005: Tell him you really can't handle what you're going through. My mother has exactly the same problem. Once he understands he is hurting you, you should give him three chances. Once you really can't handle it, he has 2 strikes, and so on. After the ... (read in full...)
My sexy mom...
Q. hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....
A. 28 April 2005: If you have an attractive woman around you, it is natural to feel aroused as though you want to have sex with her. You may just be overcome with this; that's you forget that it's your mum. But whatever you do, Do not do it! I can't say why, its just ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm gay, but I did once have sex with another boy...
Q. I'm a young boy, under the age of 15 but I've had sex. The thing is it was with another boy. I haven't done for a good couple of years and I don't find boys attractive. I've had a few girlfriends as well but that doesn't stop me from being worried ...
A. 26 April 2005: Ok. I go to a boys' school (Which really sucks ass) and a very good majority of boys, especially in my year (12,13,14) flirt like crazy. They talk about boners, foreskin and sexual things around each other and pretend to bum each other. However, I ... (read in full...)
During sex, he called out someone else's name... and I know her!
Q. I'm totally crazy about my boyfriend and thought I could trust him. Now I'm not so sure. A couple of nights ago he called out a girl's name while we were having sex. I know the girl, he always told me that he just thought of her as his mate's ...
A. 26 April 2005: Right! To me this sounds like this guy has had a relationship with this girl, or likes her- a lot. Maybe more than you- maybe less. If you want to stay with him and find out what's going on, then ask him directly "Have you had a relationship or want ... (read in full...)
I keep doubting my girlfriend's feelings for me and I want to stop!
Q. Hi, I am having trouble with my own mind. I keep feeling like my girlfriend is going off me. We have been going out for nearly 7 months now, and she doesn't seem to want to come to my house. The only time I can see her is if I go to her house or...
A. 16 April 2005: I may have only had a primary school girlfriend (lol) but the same thing happened to me and it was all in my mind. Try not to act clingy or desperate like I did. I ended up asking her if she had a crush on basically everyone in the class! You don't ... (read in full...)
Just can't stand the way my bf's ex is so touchy-feely with him!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. The only problem is his ex-girlfriend. I cant stand her and she feels the same about me. They were together for five years and I feel like I just can't compete. Whenever I bring it up with my ...
A. 16 April 2005: Right, now you need to get serious! This guy is obviously a jerk and if you want to stay with him, there's only one thing you can do. You need to approach this guy and tell him that if he doesn't stop acting like this towards his so called "friend" ... (read in full...)
She isn't interested because she thinks we live too far apart...
Q. I love a girl that lives miles from me and she won't go out with me because of the distance. What should I do?...
A. 10 April 2005: First of all, if you go to the same school, she's just being stupid and you need to put on the flirt at schoo. Otherwise, try and ease back for a while, giving her a relaxed feeling and then try to communicate with her as much as possible. Be ... (read in full...)
The girl I like won't go out with me, because her friend fancies me!
Q. Hello, There is this girl at my school who I fancy and she likes me, but her best mate likes me as well and she won't go out with me because her best mate fancies me. So can you please help me?...
A. 10 April 2005: First, ask the girl you like why she didn't go out with her, if it's something about you then forget about it and move on. Otherwise, try and become close with one, the other or better yet, both! Then, maybe her best friend will see the real you and ... (read in full...)
My mum thinks I smoke and she harps on it all the time...
Q. Hi, I'm having some trouble with my mum. I'm 12 and my mam thinks I smoke. I don't know why, but she does. Every time a non-smoking advert comes on telly she looks at me and tuts. I'm really fed up of it. I don't smoke. I only have taken 1 dra...
A. 9 April 2005: Yo, Just tell her the truth. You tried that road once and found it horrible, so you've come back home and are ready to make another path (don't really say that). Promise her you won't do it again and if you know someone who smokes amd their smoking ... (read in full...)
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