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writes: Hello,There is this girl at my school who I fancy and she likes me, but her best mate likes me as well and she won't go out with me because her best mate fancies me.So can you please help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2005): I am in the exact same situation right now...it is drving me crazy. Wilma and I had started a relationship before Betty told Wilma she likes me (Barney) and so she called it quits on account of not wanting Betty and her friend ship to go to shit. Mean while I am close to both Betty and Wilma and though it seemed to be looked down a pon a few days ago I suggested I tell Betty Im starting to have a thing for Wilma, this way she can get used to the idea of us dating...or i guess she can talk to wilma about it how ever she feels about it. I havent talked to her yet and Im still not sure if Im going to. What do yall think?
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reader, Kitten-Man +, writes (10 April 2005):
First, ask the girl you like why she didn't go out with her, if it's something about you then forget about it and move on. Otherwise, try and become close with one, the other or better yet, both! Then, maybe her best friend will see the real you and not like it and if you put the light flirt on with the girl you fancy, then maybe she'll like you. If I was you, I wouldn't ask her out if you know it will damage their friednship. That's mean and any enemies are worth avoiding (her ex-best mate)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2005): Take it from someone whose been in that situation, you are better off just being friends. It sounds like the girl you fancy is too good a friend to her mate so she probably wont go out with you at first. I think the best thing you can do is just try to be friends with the two of them until the girl you like decides to take things further. But let her make the first move, you do not want to upset things by rushing in.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (7 April 2005):
 Lucky guy!! Two woman that fancy you! What a predicament! The thing is, girls can be pretty bitchy when it comes down to it, but at the same time they stick together... The girl you like is probably trying to spare the feelings of her friend, it would probably split them up as friends as they both like you... so its kind of like, if wont doesnt date you neither does the other!.. Or it may even be that shes not interested and is trying to let you down gently!.. Now the thing is you cant actually make someone go out with you.. if she has said no then she has definately got her reasons. Maybe try and talk to her and ask if there is another reason.. if not im afraid you may have to move on, if she wants to stick with her friend, and they are that close, there really wouldnt be anything you could do to split them up. There are plenty more girls out, you will find someone to date soon enough!Take careX
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2005): I wouldnt go out with you either because at what you're doing you can break up a good friendship, and the other reason why is because they feel that you might break up their bond.
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