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Help me move on please!

Q.   Hey I've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire t...

A.   11 January 2009: basically hun he is a loser he probably wanted to have his cake and eat it to he wanted to stay with you but sleeping with people behind your back was maybe just some kind of turn on for him like the thrill of being caught it isnt your fault and ... (read in full...)

Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?

Q.   A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise ...

A.   11 January 2009: sorry to say but you wont fully get over him he was the first person you ever loved and had such strong emotions with you experienced these things with him but its time to move on and start to experience things with others i was like that about my ... (read in full...)

How do I stop being paranoid & worrying??

Q.   Please help, i'm driving myself crazy with worry! I'm a 27 year old female and have been with my boyfriend (32) for almost 6 months. Our relationship moved fast and we fell in love. Anyways, I do love him and he is always talking about our...

A.   11 January 2009: so let me get this straight he is working all the time but still borrows money off u bullshit sorry for swearing and im sorry to say it but he sounds like he is up to something a little more then work what kind of job does he do cause if he is that ... (read in full...)

Advice to help a desperate girl out!

Q.   To you guys out there, you you ever ask out a girl who is plain looking, overweigtht and crossed eyed. She is in hers 30's, shy, quiet and very nervous around guys. She has no experience at all, not even in the kissing or holding hads area, I ...

A.   11 January 2009: Well you said one of the biggest problems there, shy around guys. You need to build up your confidence hun, guys like a confident woman, maybe try a couple of dating sites, put your pick on and see what happens, have confidence in yourself and ... (read in full...)

Fishy smell "down there"

Q.   i need some advice on vaginal odour! i have never had a problem with it before and noone that i have had sex with has ever complained or been reluctant to 'go down there', but recently, as in the last couple of days, when i go to the toilet it ...

A.   11 January 2009: it could just be a water infection its probably something simple and easy to treat i no its embaraasing having to go to the doctor but its the only way to sort it he will probably just want a urine sample to send away and maybe give u some ... (read in full...)

I found pictures of someone on his phone, thing is I'm 4 months pregnant and don't know what to do about this.

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for a year and im 4 months pregnant. he already has another child who's 5. Lately he has been secretive with his mobile and panics anytime i go near it. when he was sleeping one night i went into his texts and seen that ...

A.   7 May 2007: leave him i had the same problem i got cheated on when i was pregnant so i left you deserve to be with someone who respects u and wants to be with u and no one else if u are worried about coping with a baby by ur self then dont my little girl is 8 ... (read in full...)

My teacher kept me in for detention, kissed me and had sex with me on his desk.

Q.   I need urgent help! I'm seeing my teacher during and after school. He gives me detension so I can see him at lunchtime. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't want to end this. The other day at lunch we were kissing and had se...

A.   7 May 2007: ur teacher sounds like a pervert there is a word for people like him sleeping with under age children u need to get out of this while u can he is manipulating ur trust he should be reported sicko... (read in full...)

I had a terrible cramp and discovered I was covered in blood! I'm not on my period!! Help!!

Q.   Ok I'm freaked out about this!! Last Monday morning I was walking from the car to work when I suddenly got this terrible cramp in my stomach, when I got to work I went to the ladies where I discovered that my jeans and under clothes were cov...

A.   2 February 2007: hi anonymous when i see questions like this the first thing i do is go to this really good web page to check the symptoms out i am afraid in this cause it has said yu need urgent medical care if you would like to check for yourself then the addr... (read in full...)

I love my GF to pieces but I'm losing my feelings for her and I don't want to!

Q.   Dear cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for about 2.5 years. We have a lot in common, she has a great personality, a sweet body, and I know she'd be a great wife. So I'm at a loss as to why I'm losing my feelings for her! I feel more like a f...

A.   17 January 2007: this is what you call the end of the honeymoon period all the sexual tension and excitement start to calm down and you just start to float through the relationship if you think you are loosing feelings for her then start to think about what your ... (read in full...)

I worry I'm fat when I know, rationally I'm not fat! what's wrong?

Q.   I know this is usually a site to discus relationship problems but I donno who else to talk to about this. I’m an 18 year old girl from Scotland and am a U.K size 8-10 and I weigh 8 stone 6 pounds. (I’ve always been pretty skinny.) I go a...

A.   17 January 2007: this is a major problem in society i went through the same problem and ended up with anorexia i went down to a painful size 7 and after the help and support of my family i got the problem sorted. if you think that this weight issue is going to ... (read in full...)

I'm about to drop a sprog but he's not answering my calls or texts?

Q.   my boyfriend is completely ignoring me not answering my calls and when he does he has nothing to say or has a bad attitude and wants to start arguments that bad part is i'm 8 1/2 months pregnant with his child what should i do?...

A.   17 January 2007: the best thing to do is get on with your own life. concentrate on you and your unborn child he obviously isnt man enough to deal with father hood it is him who is going to miss out. if he wont get in contact then get on to the child support agency ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant and due in March but I'm not exactly sure what month I got pregnant. Any ideas?

Q.   my question is: I am pregnant and due on March 10th 2007. So what month did I get pregnant in? I'm pretty sure it was June but my husband and I are having problems and he is thinking that this baby isn't his because I slept with someone in May. But ...

A.   17 January 2007: if march 10 is your actual due date then you would have fell pregnant around the 1st of june 2006 when i was pregnant the doctors say to work it out backwards you take your due date and count back 9months and 9 days roughly. but dont be worried if ... (read in full...)

Been with my bf for 5 years but he has no photos of me up in his house. Should I be worried by this?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years,in his home he doesn't have anything to suggest he's in a relationship, not even a photo of me or me and him together. I believe it's to say he is single and available,am i right in thinking this?...

A.   17 January 2007: if you are that worried about this then why dont you get yourself some professional portraits done pick the one you really like and give it to him as a surprise present if he puts it up somewhere for everyone to see then poblem solved, but if he ... (read in full...)

This guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend because he likes her. And I want him to leave her alone but she doesn't have the heart to tell him. What should I do?

Q.   This guy likes my girlfriend and always tells her that he likes her, and that i don't deserve her, that he wants to be with her and all that stuff. My girlfriend is 100% loyal and im with her 90% of the day and the other 10% we're on the phone with ...

A.   17 January 2007: its like you say she is with you not him. i have found that if a guy starts acting really jealous of someone then its more likely you and your girlfriend will start arguing about loyalty issues. the best thing to do is talk to yor girlfriend make it ... (read in full...)

He hates that I put my kids first and he wants me to move away with him! What are your thoughts on this?

Q.   I am a mother of 2 children and have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He doesn't like to come to my house and feels I put my kids first although I do all I can to make him happy including staying at his house. He wants me to sell my house and ...

A.   16 January 2007: this guy sounds pure evil i think he is trying to lure you away from everything and everyone you no so he has complete control on you. and as for your children they are your flesh and blood and so they should come first if he cant except that then ... (read in full...)

Bought my boyfriend an xbox for his b-day, now he never comes off it! Should I leave him?

Q.   Should I stay with my boyfriend or should i leave? I bought my bf the xbox 360 for his birthday and now he is never off the thing. We have been together now for 3 years and live together. it may sound stupid but we never go out any more and whe...

A.   16 January 2007: scary i am in the same situation i get so sick of watching my partner on his computer if i were you stop paying the subscription tell him to pay it himself he sounds very selfish. but also try doing things yourself like join your local gym or go out ... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend but she is too loose. Why? This is a real problem for me, it takes me ages to reach orgasm.

Q.   Good Day everyone. I have a problem..this is linked to my sex life.. Most of the time, when ever I have sex with my gf, I could hardly feel her. It is so loose that I dont know what to do and due to that, it takes me ages to get an orgasm.....

A.   16 January 2007: try talking to your girlfriend about this problem women would rather you be honest. maybe try talking to her about pelvic floor exercises i have just had a baby 18 weeks ago and i do my excercises all the time she can do them anywhere while making a ... (read in full...)

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