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writes:HeyI've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire time. I'm sick and tired of being depressed about it and I've got exams coming up and I know I've got them to focus on but its hard to even concentrate anymore. Help me get over him please! :(Also..many people have said its not my fault..but what did i do wrong? I was always there for him when he needed me. I gave him enough space...in fact I really dont think I did much wrong but then why did he not feel the same way back. Everytime I suspected he was playing away I told him lets jus break up and keep it as friends, i gave him an easy way out. Yet he still insisted we stay together and that he couldn't do without me.I fell for his lies big time and to be honest I don't think I could trust another person like that again. I don't even know why am posting this, it just helps to get it off my chest i guess.
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reader, kim6906 +, writes (11 January 2009):
basically hun he is a loser he probably wanted to have his cake and eat it to he wanted to stay with you but sleeping with people behind your back was maybe just some kind of turn on for him like the thrill of being caught it isnt your fault and dont let this relationship break you trust me i have had some really bad relationships but one day you will find someone who will treat you with respect and not be a complete ass and cheat on you throw yourself into your exam studying it will help take it off your mind i hope this helps contact me if you need to talk i am a good listener
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reader, dizzikat +, writes (11 January 2009):
It's said the best revenge is success. By that I'm not advocating revenge is the route to go down but focusing on making a success of your own life will do wonders for your self esteem & when he hears on the grapevine how well you are doing he'll know he lost the best thing that ever happened to him.
You say you have some exams coming up - perfect place to start. If you are having trouble getting your head together set some easily achievable short term goals. Why not plan a holiday or a day out somewhere doing something you've never done before. Wht noy get some tickets for a gig the atmosphere will be lift your spirits.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Please have a look at the link below, the site is called "So you've been dumped?" There you can talk to like minded people who are in a similar situation to yourself. Whether you're the one who was dumped or the one doing the dumping, I'm sure you'll find it invaluable.
http://www.soyouvebeendumped.com/
~Eve~
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