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I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay.
Q. I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay. Which wouldn't be a problem, I just don't understand how my boyfriend doesn't see it. Anytime I say something about it to my boyfriend he gets really defensive and says his friend isn't. I just find it ...
A. 1 March 2011: yeah he sounds gay but he may just be joking around you know what blokes are like they find anything funny, but he could be gay but that shouldnt be a problem, if your boyfriends with you then im pretty sure he's straight so don't let it worry you ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about my friends or not?
Q. Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel ...
A. 27 February 2011: Hi there, Well it can't hurt to talk to him about it. This is obviously distressing you and making you feel negative feelings which is never good, especially from someone you have strong feelings for. Maybe stop talking about him to your friends,... (read in full...)
Everyone is trying to break us up!
Q. hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. ...
A. 22 February 2011: im sorry to hear about this, it seems this ex girlfriend has a few issues she needs to deal with. your boyfriend needs to completely remove her. no facebook, no numbers *change them if you have too* and completely avoid her. she has to realize that ... (read in full...)
Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?
Q. This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...
A. 22 February 2011: It sounds to me that she may be a little insecure about herself, but if you've been together and married for so long you may think...why is she insecure? but that is what girls are like, that is what humans are like. we constantly compare each ... (read in full...)
I still love her, what should I do?
Q. I have like a female friend for about 6-7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other but we progressed to talking on the phone everyday. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize that we love ...
A. 22 February 2011: Well all I can say is you need to talk to her. let her know how you feel, whats the worst that can happen? she cant hate you for something you feel, it isn't your fault. just explain how you feel, and get her to tell you how she feels. even if she ... (read in full...)
What do I say to her to get her interested in going out with me?
Q. on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i t...
A. 22 February 2011: well you two seem very compatable. firstly you need to make more contact. talk to her more on facebook find out more about her, you need to become friends, talk to her as much as you can and tell her about yourself. eventually youll be able to ask ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to notice me more?
Q. Hi, I really want this cute guy to notice me but hes the hottest guy around and always has his friends around him. I think he likes me but we are both kinda shy. It feels diffrent than any other crush I'v had, every time I see or even just think ...
A. 22 February 2011: How sweet may I firstly say! But the main thing is you have to be yourself, however if its in your personality to be shy there is nothing wrong with that, clearly its a quality you share. what you need to do is be a more confident version of ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating because he doesn't want sex?
Q. Hey, I really want my boyfriend to have relaxed sex but hes always too serious! He goes for about 2 minutes and then says stop being childish, I have to get rest. I'm thinking of breaking up with him because hes been not wanting to have sex, ...
A. 22 February 2011: Hi there
There could be a number of reasons as to why your boyfriend is acting the way he is. he could be self consious, he could be stressed, he may feel pressured that he has to impress you, like you say he may working late and very tired, a... (read in full...)
I'm terribly insecure about our sex life, his porn-habit isn't helping!
Q. I discovered the other day that my boyfriend watches porn. I'm terribly insecure about our sex life as it is as i do not cum from just sex as most women don't and i worry that this may put him off. I don't want to start 'Faking it' but after ...
A. 17 February 2011: if I'm honest i would say all men in some way are perverts and so are women to be honest, everyone looks at someone else from time to time, of course in some situations it is completely disgusting. but anyway, its good that your trying and making ... (read in full...)
This guy is a little too close to her for my comfort. What can I do?
Q. K well me and my girl have been together for 5 months almost 6... and well i love her with all my heart and she seems to love me to... but she is a girl so she has "brothers".. well i was fine with someone she called her brother until she told me ...
A. 16 February 2011: sorry to hear about your situation, but you have every right to feel unahppy and uncomfortable, i can tell you now that i would feel the same. there is no need for him to do this, and fair enough they are close so thats probably why he did it, hes ... (read in full...)
I'm terribly insecure about our sex life, his porn-habit isn't helping!
Q. I discovered the other day that my boyfriend watches porn. I'm terribly insecure about our sex life as it is as i do not cum from just sex as most women don't and i worry that this may put him off. I don't want to start 'Faking it' but after ...
A. 16 February 2011: im sorry about your situation, but i think he's watching porn because he might not want to have sex because of the "men" he thinks are watching you. its his revenage maybe, but if you enjoy doing your job then you continue its your life. and dont be ... (read in full...)
We hardly see each other, and every time we do, he starts a fight! What's going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we have been working faithfully at keeping our relationship together and it's been a success as we live so far apart. We see each other every two months and the day before he leaves, for no reason ...
A. 16 February 2011: sorry about your situation, but I've heard that people do things like that to make it easier to leave. If you leave someone in a arguemnt you are only thinking negative things about that person, if he leaves happy he'll start missing you quicker and ... (read in full...)
I caught my husband and my best friend talking behind my back for the third time! How can I stop it?
Q. My husband had a secret relationship with my now ex-bestfriend. She's been in my life since elementary school and I've been with him since high school. They both said that there was no intimacy....but they both had feelings for eachother. They just ...
A. 16 February 2011: thats awful to hear and i can imagine how you feel, the two people you trust most in your life have both hurt you, and your husband needs to respect that that is how you feel. maybe you should take some time apart, so you can have your own space to ... (read in full...)
How do I get her back? I know I was in the wrong, so what next?
Q. Okay, here goes. What do I do? I really need some solid, sound advice. I (first) met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When I first saw her I fell for her immediately. She was beautiful. At the beginning I took her out. I courte...
A. 16 February 2011: I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and I think she is still very hurt from what you did and that is probably why she is saying there is no going back. she clearly has feelings for you or she wouldn't have kissed you. I think you need to meet up ... (read in full...)
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