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writes: After reviewing some post here on dearcupid.org, and seeing a few TV shows about how women (not all) feel about sex and their men. Some things we hear are “feel like I’m a slab of beef”; “sex on the brain”, among others. What women don’t understand about men is that we truly want to make you happy. We also want to indulge you in some pleasure. Men have experienced sex enough to know it is very pleasurable.Now, you can criticize me on my belief, having sex on the brain, or even making you feel like a slab of beef. But sorry, that is not my intent as stated. But when you criticize me, what your actually doing is hurting my feelings; rejecting a part of who I am;, and in the end, I become more distant from you, less willing to talk, less willing to do things with you, and less likely for me to treat you in material things, such as jewelry, and those objects that are included in romance.Now this thing about sex on the brain and feeling like a slab of beef was probably generated by the fact that if you are at a bar, this is probably how you are perceived. Alcohol is an indicator that you won’t be respected for who you are, other then a mid-night quickie. Reply to this Article
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reader, kassie  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 i feel you on that brotha i adore guys like you very truthful and have very much honesty!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can understand single women feeling this way, especially around strange men. I and others who have posted here, see our wives acting the same way towards us, and if we didn't see more in them then just sex, we wouldn't have married them. Now that we are together as a team, we men want to share each others body. When women begin rejecting their husbands, then the marriage will probably eventually end, because the men get tired of being reject, accused, and will tire of it and find someone else, probably younger, that doesn't have the same mentality that men only want sex. Women are pretty much sooting themselves in the foot when they act and feel this way towards their guy. As a note, it seems this attitude begins some time after marriage.Also women, be careful what other men you listen to for advice, instead of your spouse. If you don't trust his judgment, again, he will probably find someone else, because the trust has been broken. Just a though from a man what women can do to them.Now I know we men are not perfect, but if we express the best way we can our feelings, without being ridiculed, then maybe the relationship will improve and non physical intimacy will increase. Again, just a male's perspective of what he has seen, felt and experienced, and am confused why it even appears.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): i dont know why but there just seems to be so many young guys around these days who give you one look and you know exactly what's on their mind. maybe it's partly due to the media that there are so many sex-crazed young blokes around, tends to be the younger ones no guessing why. this is why sometimes we, as woman feel like objects-some guy really eyeing you up full of arrogance and looking at you as though youre some appetising cake with whipped cream and colourful sprinkles (lol) sometimes the feeling is so degrading i wish i wasnt a woman.i think that therefore that's why we're a bit paranoid of whether guys are staring at us because they're randy(lol) or if they actually have romantic interest in us. I think that we sometimes misread signs, maybe in confident guys that they want to use us and get into our pants so we react harshly, the feeling just makes us feel not valued or respected by guys in general. if a guy is staring at your chest and you know he likes you and hes a decent guy, it's can be let off but we just want guys to show some self-restraint and remember that we are people with brains and feelings. i actually believe that there are more decent guys out there than sleazeballs but then again i know a lot.
and im spent lol.
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