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Wife's sexual past is tormenting me

Q.   I was a virgin when I met my wife. More than that, I didn't even have another serious girlfriend before then. Meanwhile, she had a bit of an adventurous past. At the time we first dated I didn't really care. However, once we fell in love it reall...

A.   14 October 2011: Hmm... It is a little scary that you tracked down her exes and want to do harm to them. Her sexual past, really has nothing to do with you. The only thing tormenting you.... Is YOU. Your tormenting yourself by thinking about all of the things shes ... (read in full...)

The man I love doesn't seem to even want to be friends any more. What should I do next?

Q.   the matter is... i am in love with a guy who was in my school.. now we are in different college.. year back i approached him then we became friends and later on i proposed him. he said no but rather he preferred to be good friends. but that ...

A.   19 August 2011: I think that since you proposed to him, he doesn't want to lead you on or give you the wrong idea by flirting with you. He JUST wants to be friends. If you want to be just friends with him, don't try and flirt with him, because he's probably ... (read in full...)

He's went back to his wife 28 times! I've had it!

Q.   I bumped in to my first love after 24 years, for two years our lives have been like a rollercoaster. He has now left and gone back to his wife 28 times. I have told him to leave me alone that I have had enough, but he will go a few days and then ...

A.   27 March 2011: If I were you, I would probably just tell him you've had enough and find someone better :)... (read in full...)

He says he has no contact with his ex but my heart tells me different

Q.   My partner of 6yrs has never told me the truth from the start, when we first got together he said he was single and no children 6mths into the relationship I found out he had been married and had a 5yr old daughter he was brining up on his own after ...

A.   9 January 2011: Wow. Trust your heart, he seems like a horrible guy and all he does is lie to you. You shouldn't have to deal with that. ... (read in full...)

The relationship has gone down hill. Is it time to move on?

Q.   I want to know what happens in relationships. I have been with my boy friend for three and a half years. In the beginning he was willing to take me places and he said really nice things to me. My boy friend takes a lot of pain medicine for his...

A.   5 January 2011: I think you should probably break up with him. or at least talk to him, before. Maybe tell him that your thinking about breaking up, and see if he makes a change. if not, its time to move on. He isn't giving you any happiness anymore, and you spend ... (read in full...)

Unsure about having sex for the first time....

Q.   recently my boyfriend and i have talked about having sex, but just never had the chance and we are waiting on the right momment.. i am still not sure of it all to be honest with my self and he said to me ive always wanted to try it doggy style, i ...

A.   4 January 2011: If you aren't ready, or have any doubts, it would be better to wait until you know you are ready.... (read in full...)

Should I apologize?

Q.   I had a best guy friend and I had a crush on him. We got into a huge fight. I said some pretty nasty things to him. He was messing with me, putting me down and ditching me. He wanted to apologize to me, but i wouldn't let him. For past few months, ...

A.   4 January 2011: If you think you really want to be his friend, then you should apologize. But if you feel like you're not ready yet, then wait a little while. Maybe you can just asked him if you guys can just forget the whole thing... (read in full...)

How can I make him trust me? I love him so much!

Q.   hii everyone, thanks for taking the time to read my story. :) well i am with this guy for 9 months now and i am so in love with him i just cant do anything without thinking about him. its like he is my life now, i feel him next to me whenever...

A.   15 November 2010: Hmmm... I don't think he's being fair. If he can go out with his friends, you should be able to as well. I think you should talk to him about this. Tell him exactly how you feel, and ask him why he doesn't trust you, and ask how you can get him to t... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

Q.   I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...

A.   14 November 2010: If you aren't ready then don't have sex with her. Follow your intuition. Its not right, you are wayy to young for this. You should dump her, and she isn't respecting your boundaries... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend so hurtful one minute-yet loves me the next?

Q.   What does it mean when your ex you've been with for six months, is constantly bringing you down, critising you, picking on you, mocking you and is still possesive, but then he says he is kidding, and he says im beautiful and perfect and his girl. Y...

A.   14 November 2010: Break up with him. He seems to have serious problems. You could end up getting really hurt, and it seems like you already have. Actually it seems like he's hurt you more than he's made you happy. You should be in charge. Teach him a lesson by ... (read in full...)

What kind of guy do girls want?

Q.   Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?...

A.   14 November 2010: In my opinion, personality is most important. But its also kind of different for everyone. If you are a skinny twig with an excellent personality, you might me more desirable than someone with muscles, but no personality or emotion. It kinda just ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know how to stop being in love and just be friends with them

Q.   ok so i have been crazy in love with this girl for about 6 months now. iv told her about how i felt twice the first month and teh second but she doesnt like me that way. heres the kick in the teeth, we have ben best friends for 6 months and thats ...

A.   14 November 2010: anytime :)... (read in full...)

Do I respect girl code?

Q.   Dear Cupid.... My friend Katrina has been dating this boy named Alex for about 8 months now. Me and Alex met the week they went out because I thought I should get along with him since he's going out with my best friend. btw, we are 13 years old. The ...

A.   14 November 2010: I think I know how you feel. A similar thing happened with me and my best friend. Honestly you should ask yourself. What is more important? Your best friend? Or this guy? Personally, I think you should stay away from a little bit more, so you d... (read in full...)

Does anyone know how to stop being in love and just be friends with them

Q.   ok so i have been crazy in love with this girl for about 6 months now. iv told her about how i felt twice the first month and teh second but she doesnt like me that way. heres the kick in the teeth, we have ben best friends for 6 months and thats ...

A.   14 November 2010: Just try to focus on your friendship with her. You can't force her to love you if she doesn't, but if she JUST wants to be your friend, then you should try and just focus on that instead of trying to get her to love you. ANYWAYS... you can't ju... (read in full...)

I miss him!

Q.   Ok so me n this guy were seeing each other n everything was fine n everything was completley normal. I fell in love with him after only 1 month. Never in my entire life, have I ever loved someone so much! When I first met him, I didn't think ...

A.   14 November 2010: I understand how you feel! I really think you should talk to him... maybe he feels the same, but he doesn't know how to express it. Just tell him you miss him. You're sorry about everything that has happened. Tell him you want to start fresh? What... (read in full...)

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