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The man I love doesn't seem to even want to be friends any more. What should I do next?

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Question - (18 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2011)
A female India age 30-35, *hubbygirl writes:

the matter is... i am in love with a guy who was in my school.. now we are in different college.. year back i approached him then we became friends and later on i proposed him. he said no but rather he preferred to be good friends. but that friendship last only for 2 months later on didn't know how we started losing contact. there was no problem between us but he stopped talking to me.. and so i too... in middle i tried to make contact with him but he didn't give good response i thought maybe because he was not okay with my words and flirting behaviour towards him... now it has been 8 months we are not talking at all. we had just kept added each other on social networking site... thats all.. now in sudden i feel that i should contact him one more and try to get back at least a friendship relation...but the problem is that i don't he would he response me or he would ignore me... so guys please give me advise should i move forward and contact him again or there is any other way to approach him??

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (19 August 2011):

"Just being friends" is not a good idea for someone you are in love with. At this point you need to either get this guy the way you want him and if not, leave him alone for good. You will never find happiness with someone else if this sort of thing is going on.

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A female reader, JustKalie1010  +, writes (19 August 2011):

JustKalie1010 agony auntI think that since you proposed to him, he doesn't want to lead you on or give you the wrong idea by flirting with you. He JUST wants to be friends. If you want to be just friends with him, don't try and flirt with him, because he's probably responding to that.

Good luck! :)

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