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Heart says yes but my head says different...
Q. My "ex" (not sure what to call him since we still talk) and I had a long distance relationship for a little over 8 months. I ended it because I felt that we weren't communicating enough, the one thing that I believe should be utmost importance for ...
A. 10 September 2010: If you want to chase love, then go for it. Maybe he has a lot of things that he has to do and cant always give you that time.. I am also in a long distance relationship and have to understand that he has a busy schedule and we cant always talk and ... (read in full...)
Lied to a woman about my age. - 16 dating a 24 year old.
Q. I feel like an idiot. I'm 16 years old and I'm dating someone who's 24. Though, when we met.. I lied about my age and said I was 20. She believes it too because I look and sound 20. We haven't been going out very long, a month at the mos...
A. 22 July 2010: you should tell her that your 16 and your sorry you lied and your just a junior in high school, lol. if you have a student id card, show her that, so she knows that your serious and telling the truth. tell her you really like her as a friend, and ... (read in full...)
My step daughter hates me and is now trying to turn my son against me
Q. I got married about 11 years ago to the woman of my dreams. In this dream was a 6 day old little girl whom I raised for 8 years. I loved this little girl like she was my own and to this day and she still doesn't know that she's not mine. Over the ...
A. 22 July 2010: I think in a relationship it needs both parents to discipline there kids or there will be friction between the husband and wife. I would stop giving your daughter money and tell her to stop talking bad about you, and stop being 2/face. She is ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to feel safe with me and open up after what happened?
Q. My lover of three years was raped a month ago and given HIV. Now, he's even more depressed and withdrawn, he refuses to come near me, I tried to touch his hand and he flinched, he has flashbacks...this is seriously affecting our relationship. He's...
A. 22 July 2010: if you dont talk at theripy then why go? I think that just you and him talking together may help him more. Tell him that you love him and you dont like that he pushes you away. Comfort him, if he lets you of-course. ask him why did he get... (read in full...)
Should I act on these feelings I had for a man? And how would I approach him to find out if he is gay or bi?
Q. Hi can anyone help? I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded b...
A. 21 July 2010: are you a top or a bottom?
tops go into the guy. and bottoms recieve the package.
well if he has done it before and is a bottom then it wouldnt hurt him as much, it could hurt the firt few times for a bottom, especially if your tite down there. y... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to wear makeup and dress up like a woman
Q. Hi, i'm 28 yrs old. During our intimate sessions me try to be innovative to make it fun. Last week my girlfriend made me wear her clothes. We had fun so tried it once again. Now she wants me to wear her lingerie next time and also dress up as a ...
A. 21 July 2010: I am gay and i would have trouble cross-dressing personally. i love to watch logo, witch shows drag but as for me wearing it, nope.
any ways i think you shouldn't do it for your gf.
why cant you buy some costumes like of batman or robbin, ... (read in full...)
I am sure I am bisexual but I only see my future with a man, is this normal?
Q. I have thought of my self as Bi for a long time, been with males and females in non-sexual ways. But I was thinking it the other day when I was going to ask a female friend out, that even though I am Bi and am comfortable with women. I can't ever ...
A. 21 July 2010: the dream of life.
yes, its the norm, bec you may want the husband, kids, house and the dog/or cat theme of life. the father figure for the kids and the mom. having your own baby. having the feeling of life inside of you, a feeling a wo... (read in full...)
Any thoughts on what I am?
Q. Hi, I'm 17, male, i've been going out with this girl for about 9 months now, and we're are having sex. its great. Getting to my point, as much as i enjoy to look at her naked, i think i'm weird, and worry about what i like. For instance, i...
A. 21 July 2010: your bi, you could be with a girl or a guy and feel comfortable with it too. i think if you would feel comfortable sucking off a guy then kissing him wouldn't be such a strech. i love to kiss a guy with a shaven face.
theres more you can do with... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to watch porn every night?
Q. I have trouble looking at porn every night when I am supossed to be in bed sleeping. Is this wrong. I dream of sex like 12 times every night....
A. 21 July 2010: hmm, well i have this issue too. cut your self off at a sertain time, and i now its hard to do that but you have to get some control over it. try to only look at it for 3 hrs max. if you can do 2 hrs then do that. really i look at it less now then ... (read in full...)
I have never gotten girls I am attracted to to date me
Q. I got to move on in my life and have because I have a date with this other girl but I still think about this girl I have a crush on. what are some things I can do to get over the first girl, I don't want to lose sleep over her and think about ...
A. 21 July 2010: would you look good dirty-blond? maybe you should change your hair color profeshonally of course. dont wash your hair the day before if you do change your hair color. I actually trim my eye brows to look better, and pluck them too. but you cou... (read in full...)
What did I do?
Q. "Op Own Title" Just want to start off by saying this is a fabulous website thanks to all that make it that way... the first thing I need to say is I have told this girl I like how I feel she knows we are just friends and I said and stand my thi...
A. 21 July 2010: how far are you moving a city away, a state away. the internet is always a good way to keep in contact with some one, but i have to say it only goes so far, even if you have a cam too. You could meet another girl in the new city/state? or she could ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel on him or treat him as a friend?
Q. I'm a male and prefer guys. I got a new manager three months ago. He's a great and polite guy with lovely face. I've got feeling at him but he doesn't know. Although I believe that he only likes girls but I can't stop. One night, I just missed him ...
A. 21 July 2010: its your work place, thats not the place to have a new rel-ship. find a new person. Ask him if he is bi? well just in case you might change jobs later, or i would use it to my advantage. lol... find a new guy, gay-bar or online dating gay sites... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie about his porn and masturbation?
Q. I'm a gay male 25 been in a gay relationship for the past 6 years, he is also 25. he is addicted to porn and always wants other men he hasn't yet cheated in the flesh. my question i guess is what can i do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie ...
A. 21 July 2010: lol i have that issure with porn and masturbation. why would he lie about his addiction? hmmm, idk, you should do it with him. then he may feel ok and comfortable about it. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell him I like him, how can I without scaring him?
Q. Ok. I'm gay and I really like this one guy that I hang out with at youth group at our church. We get along really well and we always find something to talk about. I'm going to tell him that I like him, but at the same time I want him to understand ...
A. 21 July 2010: i would say not to do it. bec.. you were just hurt by another guy and i wouldn't chance it right now. one thing you could do that i just thought of is, ask a friend if you can use there cell thats a girl and knows your gay. just say you want to know ... (read in full...)
Should I act on these feelings I had for a man? And how would I approach him to find out if he is gay or bi?
Q. Hi can anyone help? I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded b...
A. 21 July 2010: idk you've never have felt these feelings before that point?
have you liked girls up to that point?
then i would say bi. A person that likes both is bi.
but i mean some guys have slept with a guy but found out it wasn't for them, same with sl... (read in full...)
Totally captivated by this guy... but what do I do about it?
Q. Hey aunts I'm having a little issue with myself. I'm a 16 year old guy that's starting to get comfortable with accepting who I am... that is I'm STRONGLY interested in guys. And everywhere I go I find myself checking guys out and finding myself ...
A. 21 July 2010: could you have a girl do it? hmm? do any of your girl friends now your gay? A lot of girls dont even care that guys are gay really, they didn't for me atleast. anyways ask one of them to say one of my guy friends like you and wants to know if your ... (read in full...)
Do I have jealousy issues?
Q. Do I have jealousy issues? So I'm a guy and I'm going out with S, my boyfriend, for a month now. S is bisexual and you couldn't even tell that he's into guys. In fact, he makes fun of gay people. But anyways, he's really nice and all that. When w...
A. 21 July 2010: well just say to him, im going to call S. Seth, and L. linda. say to Seth, you spend time with Linda and disclude me and i feel left out, and i was wondering if you could add me into your schedule. I really like our rel-ship but i dont like to feel ... (read in full...)
I have never been in a relationship in which girls were threats...
Q. Well, to start off, I am a twenty-three-year-old gay male with an extreme amount of insecurity about my appearance when compared to others. I have an anxiety disorder (mainly social anxiety), and quiet, shy, reserved, do not like big parties, and ...
A. 21 July 2010: I am a gay guy, i also openly flirt with everyone too like ur bf. I just do it. even when i was dating some one i would still flirt as i normally do. Some times i can be super shy too. with huge crouds. example :best thing to do is first fi... (read in full...)
We're a great team, but also drive each other crazy!
Q. My partner and I have been together for almost 40 years. We are two men who share almost everything: a very successful but complex and timeconsuming business, all our property, our bank accounts, our holidays, plus we spend weekends amd free time ...
A. 21 July 2010: well sence your guys have such a striving busness could you add more ppl to help you out. The plus side to adding more ppl, more ideas, more gets done and more free time for you guys.
As for you and him, hmm.. well! do you want to be with him... (read in full...)
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