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I love this site because it's always nice to help people.
I focus more on adivising teen's than adults as I am a teen and have been through a lot over the past years.
I love to help people on this site as much as I can, although i don't always use this site.
I am single. I'm focusing on my GCSE more than boys, because boys will always be there after I'm done. So i'd rather concentrate on my studying.
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How do I make my friend stop touching me?
Q. My best guy mate keeps touching me? He comments on the size of my boobs and touches my ass and my boobs, its not as big an issue as it used to be but ive told him not to and its really starting to piss me off now. What do i do to make him stop ...
A. 15 December 2009: If anyone kept doing that to me I'd do what Emily said. He probably looks at you like an object. That comes with boobs & booty's.
Give him the message so he'll know where the ground rules stand. He may be your friend but if he keeps doing th... (read in full...)
I'm scared my family will disown me if I marry my bf.
Q. hi, i'm 25 years old muslim girl. i'm currently in a 5-year relationship with the man of my dreams, he is african and a christian. he treats me with respect, i have never met a man who is as driven, understanding, supportive and kind as he is. and ...
A. 15 December 2009: This is one of the topic's that really annoy me. It's not your family who is going to marry the man. It's you. It's about how you feel about marrying him. Families including others not just yours need to accept the fact that you should marry who ... (read in full...)
I am crushing on a celebrity and my friends are teasing me!
Q. hi again aunts, im just curios about something, ok so ive completely fallen for joe off the x factor i mean come on he is fit, any way i told my friend i like him and 4 of my friends who are boys keep saying hes gay an this really annoys me and my ...
A. 15 December 2009: No one understands how much I love Joe from X Factor. I love the way he sings, how cute he looks, and his smile. Everything about him just makes me love him so much. I don't think it's a bad thing that you like him. Your not even the only one that ... (read in full...)
He called me a hoe -- does that mean he wants us back?
Q. im 19 years old and my boyfriend of 3 years is 29. yes thats 10 years difference. what could we possibly have in common right? well he spent 10 years in prison and his state of mind is truly that of a 20 year old at this point if you ask me so we ...
A. 13 September 2009: Honey, do you think if someone called you a hoe it meant they wanted you back? No, neither do I. If he loved you, he would not use such a harsh term. What you say leaves me to think that he doesn't really care about you anymore, and has no in... (read in full...)
I am 25, a virgin and never kissed a girl. I am considering going to a hooker, is this a good idea?
Q. Well, i'm 25 and I have never had sex, even I have never kissed a woman. So I have alrady decided to pay a hooker. I'm very exited about that, but at the same time scared. Am I doing something good or at the contrary? All the time I was expecting ...
A. 13 September 2009: Your first time should not be with a hooker. That just makes you desperate to get rid of your virginity. Lose your virginity to someone who loves you because then it will feel extra special. Just because your 25 and still a virgin, doesn't mean you ... (read in full...)
Is he making me suffer for what I did?
Q. ive dated this guy for 2 years i do love him but i know for a fact that he loves me even more..i've changed his life! it was all perfect,but 4 months ago he had to leave the country..it was so hard for both of us but we promised we'll face anything...
A. 13 September 2009: Yes, pretty much. I don't think you should ever get back with him. He doesn't seem a genuine guy. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have done that, and known that would you did was a mistake. He didn't even care when you told him you had ... (read in full...)
B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him ...
A. 31 August 2009: I may know nothing about these topics, but it sounds like it's time to get out of that relationship. You've given up all your male friends, given him your password ect and he still doesn't believe you. Why? Does he have something to hide.
I don... (read in full...)
Was I right to break my girlfriend's ex's leg and jaw because he used to hit her and cheat on her?
Q. look im a 15 year old kick boxer. i been with this girl ever since elementry i really like her. I broke her ex boy friends jaw and leg because he cheated on her and he hit her a couple of times. am I right or wrong....
A. 28 August 2009: You were totally wrong.
Yes, what HE did was wrong - he cheated on his girlfriend which is no way to go.
But you shouldn't have got involved with it. Especially not with violence. Punching and kicking gets you no where.
Next time before ... (read in full...)
Relationship gone wrong- Pakistani and Canadian woman cultural conflicts or what?
Q. About 8 months ago I met a Pakistani man and we became friends. He was a total gentleman and we really enjoyed getting to know eachother's friends an cultures. We were seeing eachother almost everyday for about 5 months and after awhile it ...
A. 27 August 2009: Maybe he really likes you but it just somehow scared. Scared that you won't be approved of, scared that your relationship won't work. In my eyes, he kind of did use you just to have sex with. I think that's heartless. And how can he get jealou... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 27 August 2009: Well then why was the title 'I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex' Also the Hymen WILL break at some point whether you have sex, do gymnastics, horse riding whatever. If you have sex 30 times, your NOT a virgin. It's not ve... (read in full...)
My feelings about group sex have changed - where do I go from here?
Q. My husband has been aking for us to have sex with another couple for years now. Before we were married I have had 2 foursomes (2 guys/another girl) and they were ok, but the first one ended my previous relationship. I have also had a threesome with ...
A. 23 August 2009: Well, I just think that's wrong.
You're married. Why does he now want another girl so that you have group sex. Isn't having sex with you enough?
I would leave this guy. It's like what some of the people said.
It would give your husband permiss... (read in full...)
Webcam rumour and name-calling
Q. Moderator's note: OP asked two questions and they have been combined to save room on this page. Question 1: This is a very long story but I'm gonna try and make it as brief as possible. Quite a few months back I decided to create myself an msn accou...
A. 23 August 2009: The problem with some people is that they talk to much rubbish. That guy who is spreading rumours is obviously out there to get you and make you feel depressed. If you can make yourself believe that you are not a sket, gay, fat ect.. then you you'll ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 20 August 2009: Well you like him. Can't turn that around. I used to have a mad crush on my teacher, it was really weird. Anyways, you know even if he shows he likes you, you can't go out with him.
Not even that it wouldn't be right it's because it would prob... (read in full...)
Me and my best friend have fallen out, and it feels like a real break-up!
Q. okay so me and my (best friend) have been friends for 6 years..we had a unique friendship, we were sisters, she was my other half, my life, my everything. her house was my second home. I mean in most friendships this was the case but me and hers was ...
A. 20 August 2009: Well clearly you would be heartbroken because you were best friends for 6 solid years. Now that's a long time. Maybe things didn't work out the way the you wanted it to be, but remember nothing's perfect. Times have moved on, things will change, not ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 20 August 2009: Listen.
I'm 14 and even I know that once you've had sex then your no longer a virgin. It's not rocket science.
Once a penis has entered your vagina. That's it. Your no longer a virgin.
And what's up with this blood? If you don't bleed that doesn't... (read in full...)
Are looks really that important?
Q. To sum the whole problem up, everyone thinks and says my boyfriend is ugly. We're in a long distance relationship, therefore most of my friends haven't even seen him closely, but when they see his pics they all start screaming at me about how ugly ...
A. 18 August 2009: If the way he looks, is nice to you then you don't have to listen to anyone else. Is it you or your friends that are going out with the guy? You. So who cares what he looks like. He might be sexy from your eyes. If your friends cared about you being ... (read in full...)
He's great and I want everyone to know!
Q. Alright...so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two years and i lovee him. He’s always a gentlemen and is such a sweet guy to me.however his style, haircut, and lack of shaving has been driving me crazy lately. There is no doubt I love ...
A. 17 August 2009: Well just tell him you'd prefer him if he changed his style haircut or whatever to something that would suit him more.
If you love him you wouldn't even care about how you introduced him to people because he's your boyfriend..
And besides y... (read in full...)
What is it about commitment that scares me, and how can I get past it?
Q. Right then, I have a major problem (well, it's major in my eyes...) Anyway, I'm seventeen and I have MAJOR commitment problems! A load of people find this surprising since I'm a girl, but I just hate being tied down! I've had four boyfriends since...
A. 17 August 2009: Wow what a story.
well first of all you need to stop feeling like your being tied down, because your only in a relationship with a boy who you might eventually marry.
It's OK to be scared of feel like you can't commit. But you've had 4 boyfri... (read in full...)
How do I ask this boy from school out?
Q. There is a guy I like at my school... I haven't seen him much through the summer holidays and probably won't because he is on holiday. I want to ask him out when we get back to school, but don't no how. I have never had a proper bf before... I dont ...
A. 17 August 2009: Well you can't exactly ask this boy that you don't really know out. Yeah he goes to your school but i mean you don't actually know him in person. Why don't you just be friends for a while, see what happens then. If he's interested he'll ask you out. ... (read in full...)
I want a baby at 13
Q. the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...
A. 16 August 2009: Having watched those BBC3 'underage and pregnant' episodes, it's clear that it's hard to manage a baby.
Your only 13. Why waste your childhood looking after your baby, when you could be off to college/university when your 18.
Looking after... (read in full...)
Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!
Q. Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...
A. 16 August 2009: Teenage people just don't understand that having sex at a young age can have an emotional side.
You can't really stop young teens from having sex. Whether they have sex in a bush at the park or in their own rooms you can't stop them.
I think... (read in full...)
Why does ex invite me to a party when his current g/f is going to be there?
Q. Right okay I'm sorry if at any point this question doesn't make sense I'm pretty damn angry right now!! Basically my EX boyfriend invited me to a party that he's throwing at his and then I find out he has a girlfriend... Whats the point?!!! ...
A. 16 August 2009: Sounds like this boy just wants to make you jealous.
He's totally not worth it.
Your definately right, why invite you to a party when his new girlfriend is attending.
Doesn't make sense at all!
Don't even waste your time to go that party.
Seem... (read in full...)
With friends like this....
Q. okay, so im seventeen and ive never actually had a boyfriend, i was more interested in my school work, i was interested in boys, but felt i was too young for a relationship.. etc :) well recently, me and this guy (dean) have been talking, alot. we ...
A. 16 August 2009: If i'm honest, I can't believe she sucked him off. Your friend may just be a jealous person. One question that comes to me is why she told you she sucked him off, when she has a boyfriend. If she knew how much you loved this guy and she was a true ... (read in full...)
2 years and no proposal..no love?
Q. My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?...
A. 16 August 2009: I don't think that the reason is he doesn't love you. Marriage is a big commitment. Your only 18, do you really want to be stuck in a marriage at quite a young age?
If he never brings up the subject it's probably because he's not thinking in that... (read in full...)
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