I'm 15 - is it legal for my 18 year old partner and I to have sex?
Q. Im 15 years old and currently dating a 18 year old is this legal if we dont have sex?...
A. 30 November 2006: It depends what you mean by "sex".
Any sexual contact with a minor is illegal.
Kissing is questionable but fondling, touching private parts being naked together oral sex etc is all ILLEGAL!!
Your boyfriend could get into serious trouble so ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to get my best friend's husband out of my head! Should I just choose him over her though?
Q. I have liked my best friends husband ever since they got together. But then they got married and i to was married so i didnt think much of it. Well we have all been really good friends and i have always thought that he liked me from the way that he ...
A. 30 November 2006: Stealing your friends man is always a NO!!!
Friends are always there for you and men may come and go.
So say you steal him, lose your friend, then he goes and does exacly the same to you??
You have no friend or man - thats what!!
I'm so s... (read in full...)
We are married to other people, loved before, but I STILL love him, what am I to do?
Q. Ok well here goes, I broke up with my ex 6 years ago and have remained close,close friends ever since and have been able to tell each other anything. We have both got married to toher people but still I can't get the fact that I love him out my ...
A. 30 November 2006: I think you have a case of the "the grass is greener".
It didn't work out the first time, why would it a 2nd time?
I would concentrate your love on your husband.
I presume you are happy with your husband because you do not mention being unh... (read in full...)
We have anal sex and stuff comes out, can we fix that?
Q. sorry for being so grafic with this question im a gay man and its when im having anal sex only sometimes this happens when u pull the penis out the obvious comes out either on the penis or after it i have been told there is something you can do i ...
A. 30 November 2006: speaking as a nurse , I would not suggest you use anything.
Try having sex when your bowels are empty this would help limit anything being in the bowel.
I presume you use a lubricant and this should also help.
Otherwise all I can s... (read in full...)
Call for new moderators to help out on the site!
Q. Hiya, I'm looking for a couple of new moderators to help out with the approval of questions and answers. If you're a site "regular", have some time spare and would like to help out, send me a private message. Thanks! Andrew (site guy...
A. 30 November 2006: Hi Andrew,
I am new to the site and visit regular since I joined I would really enjoy helping out by being a moderator.
Just let me know what I need to do.
Regards
Jayne... (read in full...)
I found powder on his collar and he made excuses, are they believable?
Q. Quick question. Yesterday i thought i saw something weird on my boyfried's collar. Almost like powder. I said what's that on your shirt and he said oh fuzz from the dryer, the shirt is old. I said no--this right here isn't fuzz(there was f...
A. 30 November 2006: can i ask what you thought it was because I dont know what you might be paranoid about?... (read in full...)
After having unprotected sex, there's blood in my urine and it's painful to go!
Q. i had unprotected sex on saturday, (i know i know) and its been really painful to urinate since then and theres a bit of blood there too, its not my first time but im scared i could be pregnant. can someone please give me some advice? is this a sign ...
A. 28 November 2006: it sounds to me like you have a urinary tract infection - dont worry its not sexually transmitted - it just happens sometimes - girls get these infections easier than boys due to the urethra been a lot shorter than the boys.
Its probably cystitis... (read in full...)
I used to be a player, but I've changed - but the girl I like doesn't believe me!
Q. I use to be known as the high school player in high school b/c I was never ready for a serious relationship, Now im a JR in college and alot wiser, and now I've found a girl that I think may be the one, but she doesnt beleived I have changed my ...
A. 28 November 2006: prove it by not being a player.
Date her, romance her, show her you love her and would do anything for her. That she is the most important person in your life.
Only time will give her the answer that she needs though.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I found he was looking for a "masseuse", but now he's pleading for my forgiveness!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and until last night I thought we were very happy. I was going through his sent emails innocently searching for a work-related one when i found a message he'd sent asking for an online 'masseuse' to send him ...
A. 28 November 2006: I would take some time to think things through. Don't make any hasty decisions. You can regain the trust - but only if you want to.
I know you are hurting and wondering why he would do this to you but maybe he WAS just being curious.
Have yo... (read in full...)
I'm so depressed about all of the stress in my life - please help!
Q. my bf and i have been together for 8 years and have a one year old child, this year my mum died and as a result we take care of my younger sister. the whole year has been a struggle and we have argued a lot and are just not as happy as we used to ...
A. 28 November 2006: I am so sorry you having a bad time of it.
People argue - all this stress this year hasnt helped.
But you need to stick together, you will get through this bad time in your lives but you need to do it together- you need to make him see this.
... (read in full...)
I love him to bits but i feel like i am a prisoner in my own home!
Q. hi, i am a 31 year old with 3 children. the eldest two are from are previous relationship and are 10 and 9. i have been split from their dad for 7 years. at first it was difficult but we have been very good friends for the past 5 or so years. i now ...
A. 28 November 2006: Your family and friends are only staing away from him - not you. Remember that.
I suggest you just tell him it's over - it already sounds like you have made that decision anyway. Find the right moment and tell him to leave. A word to the wise tho... (read in full...)
I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?
Q. Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in ...
A. 28 November 2006: Although I do agree with Shandypop - I have known someone in a similar situation, the difference been that she definitely knew that she wanted kids. They split up because she could not bear the thought of never having children. And although , like ... (read in full...)
I'm 40 and have yet to fall in love! Has anyone else felt like this??
Q. Hi, im a 40 yr old woman, have had a few long term relationships, and am in one at present for the last 2 yrs, but i never feel completely settled, i feel we're more friends than lovers. I have liked the guys and the guy im going out with now but ...
A. 27 November 2006: This is a difficult one - why do you feel unfulfilled?
It sounds like you have a really good man in your life. People tend to strive for "the one". I'm not sure there is one. You have had a few relationships so you should know yourself by now t... (read in full...)
Am i still depressed even though I take medications? What's going on?
Q. I sleep in most of the day I find my life as nothing that i want to do. I'v gained some weight and i don't even like it but before i was to skinny. When i was pmsing i was upset more than usual. Am i still depressed even though I take medications or ...
A. 27 November 2006: I would suggest strongly that you try to get into a routine - get up at a reasonable time - do not nap during the day and then go to bed at a reasonable time. exercise for 30 mins a day (it doesnt all have to be at one time - you can try 3 ten ... (read in full...)
Anyone have experiences with golden showers?
Q. My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other ...
A. 27 November 2006: If you feel comfortable trying it then try it - if you dont like it dont do it again. If you both like it its fine it doesnt matter what other people tink cos they will never know.
Good luck and remember the only imortant thing is that you both... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to live together? We need to decide this week!!
Q. Hello people, I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on moving in with their partner? I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 4 months and just before we started seeing each other, he had put in an offer on a flat. I have also just ...
A. 27 November 2006: spending five days a week at your house is not the same as living together. Neither of you will have any personal space at all. I'm not saying you shouldnt do it all I'm saying is think about it for a while. How do you do that though without ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my family called the police because I'm dating a 25 year old!
Q. Lets start off with the fact that i'm 15. the guy i like is 25... and if thats not a big enough deal, he's my cousin's ex-husband. Jis brother is dating my sister, so we started hanging out alot. and before we knew it, we fell for eachother. the ...
A. 26 November 2006: I know it will be really difficult but I think the only way you can protect your man from going to jail is by staying away from him until you are 16. Once you are of consenting age no-one will be able to do anything about it. And if he truly loves ... (read in full...)
Anyone ever been hit by their partner and taken them back, when they really did change?
Q. Has anyone ever been hit by their partner, taken them back and found they really have changed?...
A. 26 November 2006: I was in an abusive relationship years ago and repeatedly left him and went back with the constant promises of change. It never happened. This was not particularly bad abuse just pushing and shoving but i was scared and didnt like it and was not ... (read in full...)
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