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... Send *ayLovesSam a private message | | | *ayLovesSam's profile:Hey guys, I am James, a 25 year old man from Essex in England, going through some issues of my own, but I like this website it has helped me a lot and some of you guys are really good with advise and I want to help people as well :)
If I can answer something I will, if I don't think I can give you the right advise I won't but I will help if I can.
I have a lovely girlfriend called Samantha who I have been with for almost 10 months. We have had some problems, but we still love each other so much.
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I want her to love me... not say that I'm boring!!!
Q. Hi guys, right to cut a long story short, I was needy / clingy, she got mad, we nearly split, we sorted it out and now have sorted some "ground rules" no texting 100 times a day, no constantly telling her I love her, couple of days ago she says that ...
A. 4 August 2010: I was just about to call her last night and literally as soon as I picked the phone up I recieved a text message and I got dumped last night :(, by a text message, but thanks for the advice guys....:(... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm turning into a slut.
Q. It's been forever since i've been on this site, it helped me alot when I was 18 so hopely it can help me again now i'm 21. Basically in the last 4 years i changed dramatic as a person, i've had my heart broken twice. And my standards in men...
A. 3 August 2010: You are not a slut, you just seemed to be with someone because your scared you will get hurt again, stay as you are, have fun, when you meet the right person, you WILL know,
Good luck sweety dont give up hope, your a nice person :)
Kind re... (read in full...)
I am longing for my ex but she is recently married! What do I do?
Q. Man, I don't know what to do. There was a girl I had feelings for, for a long time. About 5 years. All through high school. To be honest she's the only girl I've really been interested in. It's not to say I haven't seen other girls but none o...
A. 2 August 2010: Get out and meet some women!!! have some fun!! get some new clothes, make yourself feel good, watch the women love the new year and you will meet someone :) best way to get over someone is to go out, make new friends and raise your self esteem!... (read in full...)
Is my mum trying to control me?
Q. I have a problem regarding my mum, and travelling to London. I was supposed to be going there alone, for a concert, but also to spend a few days to sight see there, and i planned on meeting some of the fans of the band i am going to see there. Some ...
A. 2 August 2010: Hi hun, you are very sweet :) Listen, your mum loves you very much and you clearly love her, but you know what? you can't allow your mum to go, your a fully grown woman, 26! I am 25, my mum was quite controlling too but in the end I had to get qui... (read in full...)
Guys, how do you like to be turned on?
Q. Guys, how do you like to be turned on? My boyfriend and I don't have sex very often. He gets tired and because of his job and has a lower sex drive than myself. I don't exactly want sex every day, but I'd like to know some good ways to get the ...
A. 2 August 2010: If he is tired you can't really turn someone on, I had the same problem with my current girlfriend, if I wanted it but she was tired, their was nothing I could do to get her in the mood, if your tired, your tired.
But try a massage, dim the ligh... (read in full...)
If I am pregnant I want to keep the child
Q. Hello, i am 14 years old and i may be pregnant, i want to keep this baby and so does my boyfriend; he says he'll be by my side. But saying all this i dont even know if i am pregnant (im taking the test tommorrow.) Well the thing is my mum knows ...
A. 2 August 2010: Hi sweet, 1st of all at 14 you really should be using contraception!, but anyway, you know that and don't need me to bitch at you.
IF your pregnant, its your choice what you do not your mums, but you will need to grow up FAST, you maybe mature f... (read in full...)
Should You be Together a Few Years Before you Get Engaged?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. Everything moved very fast with us, which has suited both of us very well. We'd both been single for about 6 months before we met and got together, I'd moved in to his place after 2 months (it wasn't ...
A. 27 July 2010: Hi, its very likely that you are still in the "honey moon" period, your friend says you will be making a mistake?!, POSSIBLY but its not always the case, the "Honeymoon period" can last up to a year, whats the rush in to getting engaged? I would not ... (read in full...)
Is it best I walk away from this relationship?
Q. I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more ...
A. 27 July 2010: Hey sweet, as the old saying goes once a cheat always a cheat, however that does not mean its true :), it sounds by what your saying that he has emotional issues, what I would suggest is that if he loves you, make him prove it, tell him to get help ... (read in full...)
Insecurities a problem in my relationship!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly a year, we have had ups and downs like any couple. I am quite insecure and this is something that constantly causes a problem between us. When we first got together I had no worries at all, but ...
A. 27 July 2010: It is always natural to worry when your partner is very private because it makes you think why!?, however relationships NEED trust and it will break if you continue to question who he is talking to etc, just trust him till he proves you can't. ... (read in full...)
Problems with girlfriend, she puts her friends first all the time!
Q. I really don't know if my problem is unique or not. Probably not but yet, i haven't seen any couples with stuff like this. So anyway, my girlfriend is really a great girl, i love her, i'm prepared to do anythin for her, we've been together for ...
A. 27 July 2010: Alright mate, I had the same problem with an ex, this was not the reason we split,I am no agony uncle, but I will share with you what I did, me and her arranged a day in the week where it was just us and no one else, for example if we was both off ... (read in full...)
Paranoid about losing my g/f and now she has broken things off!
Q. Hi guys, my name is James, where do I start? ok, so I have this issue, I have no idea where it comes from, basically I am not sure if it is low self esteem, low confidence, insecure, but I need help and I need help now, I am hoping someone can ...
A. 27 July 2010: Thanks guys your replies really helped me, just to let you know, were back together, but I have to get help :S dont really know what I can do but I think Nick is right, I just need to grow out of it and learn to trust, its going to be hard but I am ... (read in full...)
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