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Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?

Q.   Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...

A.   1 May 2011: The primary reasons for the high divorce rate is the current matriarchal system, hyper-aggresive marriage and divorce systems which are pro-female, the emphasis that the media gives on utilizing human being's grotesque nature of selfishness, ... (read in full...)

Would you want a future with a girl who keeps in contact with everyone she's had sex with?

Q.   Girlfriend of 11months.. stilll close friends with her past flings and guy friend who she had a drunk one night stand with.. Disgusts me.. To know that she is still friends with people who have seen her nude.. who she has blown or been humped b...

A.   24 April 2011: Dude, hell no! Are you crazy? Those "contacts" are not friends of hers...those are "friends with benefits". Basically, while you work, she might feel lonely and call one of her friends for sex in your bedroom. And no, I am not kidding. I am be... (read in full...)

Why do women lie that they're virgins?

Q.   Why do women get angry if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin woman? And why do most of them lie about there sexual past to the virgin guy?...

A.   24 April 2011: Let me give you a crash course in this, brother. A man's two evolutionary, biololigal, and psychological goals in life is two: 1) find the best suitable mate possible and 2) protect and support his mate, as well as their offspring. It was true sin... (read in full...)

At what age is a woman no longer attractive?

Q.   When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...

A.   24 April 2011: Ok, although there are many angles to "attractiveness" in a woman, there are only two that really matter. Those are: 1) attractive enough to have sex with or 2) attractive enough for a LTR. To the original author, which of these are we talking ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend asks me out to lunch but expects ME to pay!

Q.   i have problem. My gf of 18 months, pregnant for 8 months now and we work 2geta she said we have 2 go 4 just lunch on this cuming monday if i m off . Thats excite me very much i said and then she said u will pay and i told her i wont cause i dont ...

A.   21 April 2011: It sounds like she is pregnant with some other guy's kid. Dude, bail out...really! This girl simply want to use you as a meal-ticket. I am sure you can do better than that. If you feel "sorry" for the unborn child, realize that she made her cho... (read in full...)

Ex and I would have been together 4 years. should I acknowledge it to him?

Q.   hi my name is julissa, me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up about a 1mth agao. Today (04-21-2011) would've been our 4yr anniversary. I dnt know if its a good idea for me to call or text him? or what to say? I wanted to write him something nice ...

A.   21 April 2011: That all depends...why did you two break up?... (read in full...)

My wife admitted she cheated on me when we were engaged!

Q.   Hi, my wife of 6 years just confessed to me that she cheated on me while we where engaged, she said it was a one time mistake and has being faithfull since then. Am hurt and am thinking of divorce. How can i trust her again?...

A.   21 April 2011: Dude, let me give you short version: dump her now while you still can. Don't let your feelings blind you. Do you have kids with her? If so, get a paternity test. I have a feeling she has cheated on more than one occasion. Most likely, she is c... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: A feminine woman is someone who has not: 1- Been promiscuous or has banged 10+ guya by the time she is 28 (the median American woman has had around 35 sexual partners by the time she is 25). 2- Makes drinking a habit 3- Uses drugs 4- Uses "S... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: @ the walkin dude To have a career, You HAVE TO give up your femininity. If you don't even get something as simple as that, 1) you are even more lost than I was a few years ago and 2) you proved my point. There is absolutely nothing feminine... (read in full...)

My husband is a cheater, but I'm in a dilemna if I leave him

Q.   My husband and I have been together 6 years, married for 5. We have 3 children. About 2 months ago I call him while he was out with his friends and instead of pushing end on the cell he push talk by accident. I heard him getting it on with a girl ...

A.   21 April 2011: You need to get the police involved with this right now while you still can. The longer this goes on, the worse it looks on you. When you do that, the courts will force him to stay here AND give you financial support. Between a bad father and no ... (read in full...)

In a relationship, but fell in love with someone else.

Q.   Ok, so here goes..i cant handle this thing alone anymore and i need some advice. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years and we live together. I love him and everything is great apart from the usual arguments couples have. Recently i got in ...

A.   21 April 2011: Please end your current relationship now. The fact that you are still thinking of this other guy clearly says that you are looking for excuses to cheat on your boyfriend. If he is as great as you say, let him off to build a relationship with someone ... (read in full...)

Whats happening to this generation?

Q.   Lately I been thinking a lot about the teens now days. I myself am a young 16 year old. I been seeing many teens throw there lives away for drugs,sex,love ect. Many have the pressure of fitting in with everyone else, that if you don't have the ...

A.   21 April 2011: @ keilta You sound like a smart and good girl so I will give you some great advice: educate yourself. By this, I do not only mean career wise. Educate yourself into realizeing who you really are. A few good books to start is "Woman's infideli... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: @ spinnaker I am more than willing to go slow, brother. The thing is...there is no such thing as a feminine woman in America, much less slow. There is an exception but I think you know where I would go with this (if not, let me know). ---------... (read in full...)

Just hitting my sexual peak now, I think. Should I go with younger women because of this?

Q.   My body has always been late in everything to deal with the subject of sex. I lost my virginity when I was 17. The first time I ever masturbated was when I was 19. I didn't even hit puberty until I was 16. Whereas men typically hit their peak sexual ...

A.   17 April 2011: By the way, there is no such thing as a "sexual peak" for women. What you call a sexual peak is simply the increase in testostorone production in the female body (which happens roughly on her late 20s and early 30s). She naturally becomes a bit more ... (read in full...)

Just hitting my sexual peak now, I think. Should I go with younger women because of this?

Q.   My body has always been late in everything to deal with the subject of sex. I lost my virginity when I was 17. The first time I ever masturbated was when I was 19. I didn't even hit puberty until I was 16. Whereas men typically hit their peak sexual ...

A.   17 April 2011: "The median American woman has had roughly 35 sexual partners by the time she is 25" comes from the book "Sperm Wars". I highly recommend it to all men. It deals with female promiscuity, infidelity, and more. I trust the sources on that book far ... (read in full...)

At what age is a woman no longer attractive?

Q.   When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...

A.   16 April 2011: By her mid-20s she has definetly lost that "hotness". A woman's peak (as far as looks go) runs between the ages of 17 until she is roughly 21 (sometimes as late as 23). Afterwards, it just goes downhill from there (the hottest MILF can never compare ... (read in full...)

What would you do in the case of paternity fraud?

Q.   What would you do if you were to find out the child your wife/spouse gave birth to you was not yours? ...

A.   16 April 2011: Just to clarify, DNA testing has shown a 0% match.... (read in full...)

Why can't my friends just be happy that I am dating?

Q.   I've recently started seeing a guy and am shocked at how my friends are behaving. One of my friends seemed extremely jealous, then started talking about a guy she knows. (A male friend of hers- they are not even dating!) Another friend wanted to ...

A.   4 March 2011: Hello, Your description of your situation is a very familiar one I have seen plenty of times. Let me help you out a bit... THEY...DO...NOT...WANT...TO...SEE...YOU...HAPPY... Really! A women's worst enemy, after herself, are her "friends". G... (read in full...)

Should I become promiscuous?

Q.   I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...

A.   4 March 2011: @ Nime Sorry lol I have been going working on what have I learned so far. I have tried it in too many different environments and situations to no longer have doubts. It works because all women are the same; a woman has two minds: the subconscious... (read in full...)

Should I become promiscuous?

Q.   I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...

A.   20 February 2011: @ Nime Maybe by your standards I am promiscouos (7 women since the age of 17 hardly counts for anything but whatever floats your boat). I guess being teased about my lack of luck with women everywhere I worked at (the Marines, UPS, a farm, et... (read in full...)

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