How can I become better at sex by being on top?
Q. This sounds silly, but how can i become better at sex when i'm on top? I really have no idea what im doing, and im scared im hurting him! "Going with the flow" just doesnt seem to be working, and i always feel guilty because he's always on top. He ...
A. 9 April 2008: Ok i had the same problem, google women on top sex positions and even watch some light porn to get an idea but i find that the more you worry that your not 'doing' it right the worse you are, don't feel stupid just let go of your inhabitions and ... (read in full...)
I've lost 2 stone so far but the amount of stretchmarks are incredible! Any suggestions?
Q. This is embarressing... I'm 18 years old, and I'm overweight (BMI's 29) but I've been loosing weight. I've lost 2 stone so far but the amount of stretchmarks are incredible, have them under my arms and armpits, boobs, my tummy is literally full of ...
A. 7 April 2008: Unfortunately there are is nothing that completely eradicates stretch marks other than cosmetic surgery (tummy tuck), but there are creams that can fade them, the most rated being revitol stretch mark cream. ... (read in full...)
He's got a girl, but wants to chill with me. Should I let him?
Q. I met this boy at this party named peter.....ever since then weve been wanting to hang out.At this time he didnt have a gf.....now hes back wit the same girl.....Hes a really sexual person and his girl gives him everything he wants ...he knows im ...
A. 20 October 2007: I have been in the position that his girlfriend and i'v gotta say this guy is scum, do you really want to know someone who treats women like that. It sounds like his intentions are to have you on the side and still keep his unknowing girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
I miss her so much, I think my heart is going to EXPLODE! What should I do?
Q. Ok, I know you all have probaly heard this story before. But here it goes, my girlfriend asked me for some time and space almost three weeks ago after a year and 3months. It started with me pushing for some answers as it related to our intimacy ...
A. 20 October 2007: This sounds like she is confused and maybe interested in someone else but doesn't want to loose you until she knows that its worth it. To keep you lingering is a cowards safety net she wants to get on with her life whilst keeping you in the hope ... (read in full...)
She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?
Q. My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...
A. 20 October 2007: I think in situations like this its not the person as they are that you miss its the person that you think they could be or you would hope them to be. Strangely enough the partners that treat you badly are the hardest to get over why that is is ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 20 October 2007: red raspberry leaf tea natural from a herbalist i dran around 6 cups with both of my kids and wet in2 labour within a few hours it was gr8.... (read in full...)
I'm 7 months pregnant and I feel unloved, used and worthless!
Q. Im now 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend has become more distant as the pregnancy has progressed. I have tried absoloutely everything to 'fix things' from being as attentive as possible to accepting all the crap he puts me through (arranging to meet ...
A. 20 October 2007: Hi, I work and am a full time law student. He doesnt work i financially support hima and have for the majority of the relationship. We have lived together for the last year. He says he cant make time for what i need out of the relationship because ... (read in full...)
Is cum and sperm the same thing?
Q. what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets ...
A. 20 October 2007: Yes if he cums spunk sperm are all the same thing and it gets you pregnant. At your age i was pregnant with my first child after stupidly agreeing for my boyfriend talked me into sex without a condom. You will always believe it wont happen to you ... (read in full...)
Is is ok that my guy watches porn? It makes me unconfortable.
Q. I've been dating this guy for a long time now and we're thinking about getting married one day(I only mention this because I don't want it to seem like just some little relationship). Well, I know for a fact that he still watches porn. Something i ...
A. 20 October 2007: MY ex boyfriend watched porn which at the beginning of the relationship i was a tad uncomfortable with but i soon realised that i was nothing to do with what i was lacking. I joined in a often watched with him and it improved our sexual relationship ... (read in full...)
How do I get through these three weeks?
Q. My boyfriends in the army and going away on an practice training session He will be away for three weeks I saw him last night and had a great time with him We have been togetheer 18 months and are real happy We are so into each other But I already ...
A. 20 October 2007: I know it sounds daunting when my ex bf travelled abroad for 5 weeks during our relationship i dreaded it but the trick is to keep yourself busy and prepare for his return because guaranteed you will have both missed each other and there will be a ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...
A. 20 October 2007: Let his relationship take its course if it doesnt work out tell him how you feel. In the mean time dont hang around get on with your life you never know whats around the corner.... (read in full...)
Are sex noises a turn-on??
Q. hi! This is sort of a question for males, but female input is also appreciated. im 17, not that that is really important right now, but i was wondering: do guys enjoy it when women make noises during sex? is it a turn on, or just really annoying...
A. 20 October 2007: None of my sexual partners have complained and the majority have loved it. ... (read in full...)
He's got a car - should I go and meet him?
Q. Moderator's note: This is the same young lady who asked a few posts ago about having sex with her 16 year-old boyfriend!! (or at least - it's from the same computer) well. theres this guy and i like him right hes ok n hes fit n stuff but ive on...
A. 20 October 2007: I know when your a teenager you can be overwhelmed by any attention you get from older guys i've been there done it. He hardly knows you he definately doesnt respect you if hes asking for sex like that hes scum trying to take advantage of you ... (read in full...)
He's been sending sexy texts to other girls... and somehow I've been made to feel bad about it!
Q. Im 7 months pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have two children from prev relationship. I have found a number of text messages and emails from my boyfriend to girls asking if they could meet up etc and he sent a message to a ...
A. 20 October 2007: Thankyou for all your advice. Well i tried again and gave him a few more chances but the relationship is finally at an end although i know i was really unhappy theres still some part of me that hopes he will change and we can work things out.... (read in full...)
My head says leave, my heart says stay, what do I do?
Q. Where do I go from here after hes messed around again? I've been with my daughters father for nearly four years, in that time we have split up a few times because of his imaturity and due to me finding texts to others girls in his phone. while...
A. 26 September 2007: Reading your problem is like someone has read my mind and put it on paper. I know exactly how you feel but the fact of the matter is that this man will never change you have caught him out and there is no reasonable explanation from him. It may feel ... (read in full...)
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