Is this normal after masturbation?
Q. Well, this was my first time masturbating. Not really, just the first time I spent long enough on it to get a feeling. I didn't even go deep, just the surface. It's hard to describe. This feeling, but I'm sure you know what it is. Anyway... I was ...
A. 23 January 2009: It's completely normal. As this was your first, or one of your first times masturbating, it's not suprising you would ask or wonder about it, but yeah, it's not strange in any way. Kind of cool, in fact! And very, very normal.... (read in full...)
What would she do without me?
Q. To make a long story short...... I ordered ''The Magic of Making Up'' by TW Jackson. Its a step by step guide to win back the one you love. I read completely through the book, ready to follow the steps (one of them which is to not contact your ex)...
A. 23 January 2009: If you are confident you are going to marry her one day this overrides anything you have read in a book, written by an author who has never met your girlfriend. I know it seems spooky that she contacted you at the times she did, but maybe this is ... (read in full...)
Can men hold their cum in??????
Q. I have several questions because I asked my friend and it was totally confusing what he said. So if a guy cums while in intercourse, you can get pregnant right? So how long do you have to take birth control or is there anything else ? Also, ...
A. 23 January 2009: When a guy cums, his cum comes out. In you. If you don't use birth control you have a high risk of getting pregnant. Also if you don't use protection, such as condoms, you have a high risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection.
If an... (read in full...)
I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.
Q. I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...
A. 23 January 2009: You are not a bad person.
You are a good person, one day you will be able to offer a child everything you wrote of, but as you say, it would just not be possible now. You have been through such a hard time and you have tried your best to do t... (read in full...)
My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband!
Q. My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband. I would never do that and I already have a (hot) boyfriend. Ever since my sis's best friend slept with her ex bf she been constantly worrying her husband is cheating on her with me. Its ...
A. 23 January 2009: She's paranoid not because of you but because her confidence has been rocked to the core by the two people she felt she could trust most in the world. Imagine yourself in her position.
It's going to take her a while to get over this but to help ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about not being a virgin, help!
Q. Hey, its very simple, I lost my virginity at 16 with my 2 year boyfreind and Im a catholic who wante tdo wiat for marriage. thing is things got complicated and we broke up. Now I'm with this new guy for three months. he is nice and sweet and a ...
A. 23 January 2009: You are not dirty and you are not impure.
A 2 year relationship at 16 IS very serious and you did wait until you were in the right situation. Now, you are waiting again, which is also your decision, so you are still standing by your morals. ... (read in full...)
Will I hurt her?
Q. This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 ...
A. 21 January 2009: Your penis size is normal, and anyway, it's not so much the size which can cause a problem, but lack of understanding send selfishness - and it doesn't sound like this is a problem for you, you clearly care about her.
Sex for the first time oft... (read in full...)
Triangle of confusion
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend 7month ago. i met another man. he is nice but 2 months after that i met up with my ex-boyfriend and we have been having sex ever scence. my love for him is stronger now then before and i am scared to loose him. the ...
A. 21 January 2009: What you can't do is stay with the guy you're not having sex with. Of course he tells you he doesn't want to be alone and loves you - this is probably the truth, or at least he feels it is. But you've only been together for a few months, he will ... (read in full...)
G/f & I broke up and its a pretty big mess
Q. Hey everybody. I'm actually new here so I hope u all can give me the best advice y'all can give. Ok I'm actually 17 yrs old n my gf, L, is also 17. We've known each other 4 actually a month now(I know it sucks) n we love each other very much. To ...
A. 21 January 2009: This is very hard for you. You have to listen to your girlfriend and, hard as it is, wait until the end of the year. In the meantime, be friends with her and be a good friend - offer her support and listen to her but don't make any move to try and ... (read in full...)
Love feeling...
Q. A girl saw a picture of me and my cousin, a girl and said is it her rival. What did she mean by that? Is it she is in love with me but timid to express it or a joke. Please help because she has made several approaches towards me, like I'll be ...
A. 21 January 2009: She likes you. I'd imagine she acted offended when your friend called her your girlfriend because she was worried about what you were thinking, and didn't want to look like she'd been rejected if you didn't feel the same way. Plus she won't want ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's in his 40's what to do if he asks me out?
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem that I am VERY confused about. There's this guy at my gym, he's (I guess) in his late 30s or early 40s. Anyway I like him, a lot, and he seems to like me as well, but I am 16. He doesn't know that. (Most people seem to ...
A. 21 January 2009: You need to tell him how old you are. If it scares him off it's because he's made his own decision, but he has the right to make this decision for himself.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I whine
Q. so my boy friend says i whine but i dont believe i am when he says i am we use to be like best friends now i feel like were barley friends i feel like all he care's about is playing video games and smoking w/ his friends i no im kinda clingy but ...
A. 21 January 2009: Right. You know yourself that you're clingy and you don't have very good self esteem, so you know what's causing the problem. It's horrible for you and not nice, but your boyfriend can't solve the problem here, only you can.
Instead of trying t... (read in full...)
G/f & I want to live in different countries & neither of us wants to give in
Q. Hi. I've been with my g/f for the last 18 months now in UK. All is great but I have an issue of her wanting to live in the UK when I want us to live in Oz. Seems that neither of us are willing to budge. Seems that she expects me to let go of ...
A. 21 January 2009: Not advice that you'll want to hear. If either of you make the move you will be giving up friends, family and livelihood. If she moved to Australia, seems that you'd be expecting her to let go of these things too, which you are aware of.
It lo... (read in full...)
His ex is a friend of mine but sometimes I questions her motives
Q. Hi guys. My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend, who is a girl, who happens to be his ex from about 4 years ago. We have been together for 3, and have lived together for 1. The thing that upsets me is that a long time ago, I know that when h...
A. 21 January 2009: I don't think you have to worry about your boyfriend. As you say, he had strong feelings for her but these were in the past. They broke up for a reason and he chose to be with you. Even if he did like her when they 1st met again, he turned her down ... (read in full...)
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