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I want my ex back even though he cheated on me - should I follow my head or my heart?

Q.   I know I should stay away from my ex, but he's single again now and I know I have a chance. He always treated me well, but cheated on me a week before we broke up, and cheated on his girlfriend with me a few weeks back. I know this is really bad ...

A.   14 November 2006: my dear i would say follow your head because if he can chest once he can do it over and over again and if you take him back he knows that he can get away with it... (read in full...)

I broke up with my fiance and now she's devastated. I feel so guilty. What now?

Q.   Hi, I feel so bad i just want to die somewhere alone. I got engaged to my girlfriend because she loves me to death and i thought that i would grow to feel the same way. I broke up on Friday the 10th three weeks before our marriage. She's complete...

A.   13 November 2006: appologise and say you want to be friends and that you need some space i grantee she will understand... (read in full...)

We used to be like rabbits, now there's hardly any sex. I think it may be because of someone else!

Q.   Sex with my girl has gone off. when i got with my girl 13 month's ago the first 6 month's was like 2 bunny's on heat all the time fucking very night doggy, on top everything and after the 6 month's past it droped alot to 6 time's a month (not good ...

A.   13 November 2006: maybe she feels like a sex slave for you and it wearing her down and this lad you speak of it is just a schoolboy crush thing nothing more of it. let her have a little space once in a while, and stop hound her for sex all the time, or you will lose ... (read in full...)

He is disrespecting me and I found viagra and a girl's phone number in his car! I think he is cheating on me!

Q.   Hi I wonder if there is anyone out there that can help me. My husband used to be so loving and caring, now since we got married he just seems to be like a jekel and hide i never know where i stand with him from one day to the next. He tells m...

A.   13 November 2006: ring this girl and say that your his wife and you want her to leave him alone then confront his cheating arse and mak him choose... (read in full...)

My friends are turning on me and I don't know why! Please help!

Q.   my so called friends have been bitching about me and i dont know why, one girl has sent me a text saying you ugly bitch and other horrible things and recently one other girl printed off an msn conversation and they say im a liar. what do i do plase ...

A.   13 November 2006: they are calling you because they are jealous of what you may have, do you have anything they covet(want)like a boyfriend or you are going out with someone you all liked and he picked you over them think about it ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin so I'm pretty pissed that she didn't tell me that she hit both 2nd and 3rd base, in her past. Do I have a right to be mad?

Q.   I'm a virgin and haven't even make out yet. I have a girlfriend who skipped first base and went straight for 2nd and 3rd when she was drunk. We were talking about the past and she told me about the time when she hit 3rd and she sort of described to ...

A.   13 November 2006: you don't have the right to be pissed as it was before she met you and maybe she told you cause she didn't want to keep secrets, maybe she has faln inlove with you thats why she told you ... (read in full...)

When a person keeps breaking up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?

Q.   Is it ok to break up and get back together in a relationship? How many times is it ok to keep breaking up and getting back together and if the person your with breaks up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?...

A.   13 November 2006: it means that they are scared of committing themselves to one person but it doesn't mean that they don't love ... (read in full...)

Bf told me I need to be tighter! I heard somethin about vineger.. but how?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he has told me that im not tight at all.. Is there anyway to make it tighter for my boyfriend? I heard somethin about vineger.. but how? please help mee!!!...

A.   13 November 2006: the only thing i can suggest is pelvic floor exercises not vinegar... (read in full...)

What does it mean when someone fancies you?

Q.   Opnions please! What does it mean when someone fancies you? Thanks...

A.   13 November 2006: it means that they are intrested in starting a releationship with you ... (read in full...)

He ended it, then texted that he loved me, then said sorry about that! What do I do??

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months about a month ago. It was his decision and he texted me early yesterday morning to say 'I miss u x' and then 6 hours later he texts, 'Just read my sent messages. i'm soo sorry for sending that. totally not ...

A.   13 November 2006: he is probably feeling guilty for braking up with via text and he wants to make amends, tell him that you just want to be friends, but don't tell him you might be intrested in getting back with him unless he asks... (read in full...)

She's coming onto me in front of her bf...and he is encouraging it!!! What's going on?!

Q.   I go to my local pub with my mum and dad once a week for the karaoke. A couple of months ago, this girl came in with her boyfriend and another guy, but was totally flirting with me. My mum and dad have known this girl as her and her boyfrien...

A.   13 November 2006: tell her that you are not intrested and that she may be embarassing herself and if her boyfriend is egging her on he doesn't love her like he should... (read in full...)

I love her but she wants things to stay as they are! I don't think I can keep this up much longer...

Q.   Hi Peeps I posted a couple of months back about i girl i met who was having probs moving out of a house in which her boy friend lived. She has now moved out and is now single. I have a huge problem. I have fell in love with this girl in a...

A.   13 November 2006: just tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same, and if you love her as much as you do then you should be able to sense the vibes she is sending and show her how much you care by taking her out and buying pretty things she might like ... (read in full...)

My bf's daughter and daughter-in-law always tell him about their periods! I think this is so weird! Opinions?

Q.   my boyfriend which is older and has a daughter that is 34 yrs. old and married with a child. she always talked to her father in her teenage years about her monthly period because her mother was ill. her mother was confined to the house so i don't ...

A.   13 November 2006: maybe they are both are comfortable taking to father and not you, now don't get me wrong but i know that is weird them talking to their dad but let them be. also if your borfriend's daughhter in law is talking to him about her monthly cycle, take ... (read in full...)

My best-friends-who-are-a-couple have broken up! And I'm heartbroken! How do I help them?

Q.   I have two very close friends (we'll call them Jack and Jill) who have been dating for just over a year now. I've always known that they were one of those few couples in university that will probably go on to get married one day - they're just so ...

A.   13 November 2006: well my dear friend, if you want to help them as much as you say you do, then approch them both seperatly, and ask them if they still have feelings for each other,and if you want to help jack, arrange to go out one night and ask him if he still ... (read in full...)

Do I risk our great friendship and tell him I love him?

Q.   i have been best m8s with this lad for 2 years the problem is i think i love him and dont know wheter to tell him. i get the feeling he does feel the same but font want to risk are friendship as i would be lost without him can you help??...

A.   13 November 2006: I WOULD SAY THAT YOUR FRIENSHIP IS A STRONG AS YOU SAY IT IS, AND YOU WANT TO MOVE THINGS UP THEN TELL HIM, AND WAIT TO SEE IF HE FEEL'S THE SAME WAY... (read in full...)

I'vre had sex two times and I haven't enjoyed it at all. Is this normal?

Q.   am i normal? i have only had sex to times and i havnt enjoyed either? does it take a few times to get used to or am i odd!...

A.   12 November 2006: YES THIS IS NORMAL, YOU MAY HAVE NOT FOUND THE RIGHT PERSON YET TO ENJOY IT WITH... (read in full...)

We talked online but we met for the the first time and now she's gone off me. What can I do?

Q.   Theres this girl i really like n we used to tlk a lot on msn bt since we met up for the 1st time she seems to have gone off me (i would like to point out im very ugly) is there anything i can do to go out wiv her?? ...

A.   12 November 2006: I WOULD SURGEST THAT YOU CONFRONT HER AND FIND OUT . ONE OF YOU OR BOTH OF YOU MAY END UP BEING HURT IF YOU DON'T... (read in full...)

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