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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): I heard Kegel exercises work! Look up Kegel exercise on the computer. They even have books! Good Luck. If not, try not to have alot of sex. Give it time to tighten up.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (14 November 2006):
Through plastic surgery, you can become tight again. I'm not sure what makes a woman really loose... too much sex/ kids? Good Luck!
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reader, HONEST JULIE +, writes (13 November 2006):
 the only thing i can suggest is pelvic floor exercises not vinegar
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):
Vinegar is wrong; kegels are right.
But how did all these suckups decide that we was wrong and that you are sooo tight? He wouldnt have mentioned it if it wasnt a real issue for him. Thats not being selfish.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): How awful! If us girls told fellas they need to be bigger i bet they wouldn't like it. That will make you feel quite sensitive when you do have sex. Try the Kegel exercises, they worked for me after i had kids. Take care and tell him to choose his words better next time.
xx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 Tell him to put the stuff on his penis. Maybe it will grow larger.
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reader, blackcoffee +, writes (10 November 2006):
Tell him maybe he needs to seek help to get bigger. He is such a selfish man!
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 First of all, no chemical can tighten the vagina. Vinegar and other chemicals can upset the pH and the friendly bacterial populations in the vagina, leaving it prone to infections. Douching is harmful. Don’t put chemicals in your vagina! It's really really bad! If you try you will soon find out
Vaginas are made up of all these little muscles and excersizing them is simple. They are called kegels. On the plus side they can also help with bladder control, labor, and can make it eaier to achieve orgasms! YAY!
Your boyfriend is really uneducated about sex, the reason i say this is because vaginas arent tight or loose they are merely more slippery. Which is good it prevents injuries like chaffing YOUCH! If you are using lube maybe cut down on it a bit. If it's all you then what i recommend is squeezing the vaginal muscles while he is inside of you... It really gets the boys going! Pulsating them don't try to keep it squeezed. But also do it maybe 10 times a dayish maybe a little more at first to tighten you up a bit and get you used to the sensation.
Kegels help with labor, and strengthen the vaginal muscles and can help tighten here is a website for you to learn how:
http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html
On another note.... you're bf needs to be a little more sensitive to your feelings... maybe let him know that was a bit insensitve and he needs to chill out a bit
Good luck sweetie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Hey sweety. It may just be that your boyfriend is to small. I heard about the vinegar thing myself , but its just a myth. He should love our body just how it is. If he has a problem with it , tell him maybe he needs to find a way to increase his size so that its a tighter fit. A od tool would be a penis pump.
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reader, Seratuki +, writes (10 November 2006):
 Vinegar?
sorry hon, but I don't think so...:)
I'm not sure if you can do anything to make yourself tighter, I've heard of kegal exercises, try typing that into google...
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