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Could this be implantation bleeding?

Q.   Hello everyone, is it normal to bleed after a week ur period was done? Before the period i was really worried that i wasnt going to get it because i had sex (protected though) 2 -3 weeks before my usual period, but then i did have it. and i was ...

A.   14 March 2010: I don't think you're pregnant. Don't get stressed or your periods will be even more messed up. Go to the doctor or take a test to ease your mind. Try not to stress because I think it's a slim to none chance you would be. :)... (read in full...)

It was going so well but now I am being ignored.

Q.   I have been speaking to this guy online, on the phone and via text for the past 4 months, things became very strong and I went to meet him last week. We had two dates which lasted for four hours each time, we laughed had fun, flirted, hugged and ...

A.   14 March 2010: I think he is just playing games but that is only my opinion. He seems like he only wants to be bothered when you're not giving him any attention. If I were you, I would move on now before I got any more attached. Good Luck! :)... (read in full...)

I want him to propose to me SOON!!!

Q.   I am 28 and in love with a man of 30. At times, he behaves as if he's talking to his wife but sometimes he seems distant. He had relations with a girl for 7 years before they broke up last year (6 months before he came into my life). At the same ...

A.   14 March 2010: How long have you been together? I wouldn't start worrying unless you guys have been together for like 4-5 years or something. Some people are scared of marriage. If he just came out of a 7 year relationship then most likely he is scared of ... (read in full...)

Problems with my weight and stuff!

Q.   Hi, I am very confused not sure if I want to seek help or can deal with talking face to face about my weight and stuff. I'm at my all time low at the moment and know what I should do but just cant face my doctor. I dont know where to go. ...

A.   14 March 2010: I'm sure there are online weight loss support groups. If you don't want anyone to know who you are, just make up a screen name that nobody would know. Doctors won't judge you but I know for some people this is a very sensitive subject to talk about. ... (read in full...)

Does this sound like I'm in love?

Q.   Does this sound like I'm in love or just have a crush? I may be considered young, but I ask that you not base your judgement on that. Here are some... (for lack of a better word) "symptoms": --Feeling really comfortable, serene, and just plain b...

A.   13 March 2010: Could very well be love but we can't tell you that. Only you know how you feel. If you have to ask us then maybe it's not? I'm not sure. Like I said only you know how you feel. Don't let other people say anything about your age either. I am with you ... (read in full...)

Should I be worrying about pregnancy, even though I'm on the pill?

Q.   Hello everyone! I am on the first cycle of Yaz which is a combination pill, and yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and we used a condom. I am a perfect user - never missed a pill, so we had that extra bit of back up just in ...

A.   13 March 2010: It's a possibility but with how you always remember your pills, I wouldn't worry too much. I would say it's a slim to none chance. Don't worry because I really doubt it! :)... (read in full...)

I don't want to be her carer as her health worsens so I broke it off with her!

Q.   I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend (we been together 2 years, had our ups and downs but shes a good person). She recently found out she has a serious heart condition and will probably end up in a wheelchair and dependant (her health has ...

A.   13 March 2010: I'm not going to attack you about this. You're probably young right? If it's not true love then of course you won't want to feel tied down to this. If it was someone who you truly loved you would probably do it. Just keep explaining to her how ... (read in full...)

How can tell my man that I'm not cheating or doing anything wrong???

Q.   Hi just quick advice from u would help i been dating my boyfriend over year now and we actually live together and everything is so beautiful between us. i dont hide anything from my man becuz we trust each other. the other night an old friend c...

A.   13 March 2010: Explain to him this guy is just a friend and that you will even talk in front of him so he sees that. Guys are jealous more than they show. Good luck! :)... (read in full...)

Does he fancy me or is he a player?

Q.   I used to really like this guy, lets call him A. We weren't exactly close at the time and he somehow heard that I really liked him and things started to become awkward. (I'm at school, so you know how it is, not even speaking for a whole hours ...

A.   13 March 2010: Most likely a player. DO NOT fall for this! If you stop giving a guy attention and stop showing interest, they will miss it and want it even more. They just want the attention and not the girl. Especially, if he flirts with your friends in front of ... (read in full...)

I bit him a little too hard and now he's really angry with me and I don't know how to sort this?

Q.   I've done something silly. Last night, I was absolutely hammered, and was spending the night with my boyfriend, and we were having sex and I bit him a bit too hard, all in the heat of the moment, and I honestly misjudged it... so he roughly pushed ...

A.   13 March 2010: I agree with the others that have replied. Give him a few days. Guys are sensitive more than they like to show. Hang in there and he should come around! :)... (read in full...)

How do I know who's the dad???

Q.   How would I know who's the dad if none of them want to do a DNA test? I was due on March 2nd and the two days I did it were Junee2 and June 6....

A.   13 March 2010: You probably will not know. Find out if there is a way that they are made to take the DNA test. Good luck! :)... (read in full...)

She's using her illness as an excuse and I can't take it any more...

Q.   Hi, im 20 years old and have been with my girlfriend for five years now we live about 300 miles apart but thats never really been an issue we can easily get a coach to see each other for the weekends its actually uqite nice to get away sumtimes. ...

A.   13 March 2010: I'm sorry to hear that. It can be really depressing to have an illness of any sort and you know the say " you hurt people that you love the most" that is TRUE! I would say stick around for awhile and show her you love her. If she wasn't like this ... (read in full...)

How can I show her that things have changed and that it will work?

Q.   I need some advice! I met a girl about 3.5 years ago. We moved very fast but loved each other very much, about 9 months into our relationship she became pregnant. Our relationship was good but we became to fight more and more. We became distant ...

A.   12 March 2010: I think you should just wait it out and see. Give her time to be with him and see if she is truly happy although I know this is hard. If you didn't really love her and want things to work, you wouldn't be on here asking for advice. Everyone makes ... (read in full...)

I don't think I love him anymore but I don't want to hurt him. What can I do?

Q.   I am 18 and have a baby girl, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years!! I thought he was forever but i was playing truth or dare at a friends birthday party nd i was asked if A nother asked me to cheat on him would i and i said no.. but i ...

A.   12 March 2010: Are you SURE you would cheat on him? You need to really think about this. Sometimes people lose interest after awhile because it gets boring. Try spicing things up a bit more? If it's true love, you'll know. I know you don't want to hurt him but the ... (read in full...)

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