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anonymous
writes: Does this sound like I'm in love or just have a crush? I may be considered young, but I ask that you not base your judgement on that. Here are some... (for lack of a better word) "symptoms":--Feeling really comfortable, serene, and just plain blissful whenever I look into his eyes.--Not being able to stop the smile that spreads across my face when he laughs.--Forgetting everything stressful/annoying/angering in the world when looking at/talking to him.--Pain when he's not around that almost feels like being cold so I’m shivering, and clenching my fists without realizing.--Hoping to see him everywhere I go, never letting go of that hope even when I know he's not there.--Hearing just his name and feeling (metaphorically) warmer.--Hearing his voice and feeling like I’m being pulled towards it.--Smiling, all alone, when I’m thinking of him.--Feeling that unmistakable, incredible heat spreading across my face when anyone mentions him and me.--Getting more than frustrated at the people who see him as less than he is and feeling the need to show them differently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): You could very well be in love with him. You discribed some of how i feel about my boyfriend and i love him alot. Hope this helps good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): You're in love because you:--Hoping to see him everywhere I go, never letting go of that hope even when I know he's not there.-Smiling, all alone, when I’m thinking of him.--Feeling that unmistakable, incredible heat spreading across my face when anyone mentions him and me.Now, if you also have a pounding heart when you see him, its a done deal.
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reader, hmae89 +, writes (13 March 2010):
Could very well be love but we can't tell you that. Only you know how you feel. If you have to ask us then maybe it's not? I'm not sure. Like I said only you know how you feel. Don't let other people say anything about your age either. I am with you on that one that you can know and feel love before you are an adult. :)
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (13 March 2010):
Sounds more like infatuation to me but it could be love. Give it some time. Does he return your affection and admiration? Does he feel the same way you do? Who is seeing him as less than he is? Get back to me if you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): http://psychology.suite101.com/article.cfm/love_love_me_doLove happens in stages.
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