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writes:I am 18 and have a baby girl, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years!! I thought he was forever but i was playing truth or dare at a friends birthday party nd i was asked if A nother asked me to cheat on him would i and i said no.. but i think i would. I dont think i love him anymore but i dont want to hurt him what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 You've been in a relationship since you were 11? That's nearly half of your life! It sounds like you are starting to realize that you may have outgrown this relationship and starting to understand that forever is a long time.
The only way to not hurt him is to stay in the relationship and stay faithful), but then you'll be unhappy and resentful. You can't spend your entire life with him out of a sense of obligation, and it doesn't help him to be in a relationship with you if you are unsure of your feelings.
It might be time to pull the plug on this relationship. Think long and hard about your feelings and ask if you would be happier with or without him.
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reader, hmae89 +, writes (12 March 2010):
Are you SURE you would cheat on him? You need to really think about this. Sometimes people lose interest after awhile because it gets boring. Try spicing things up a bit more? If it's true love, you'll know. I know you don't want to hurt him but the longer you stay with him and aren't truly happy and in love, that will just hurt him worse. Maybe you could just tell him you need some time to think and you guys could take a break. Time will tell! :)
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