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My boyfriend frequently misplaces things and forgets pretty much everything. Do you think he has ADD?

Q.   Is it ADD? My boyfriend of 16 months I think has ADD. These are the things that I am noticing and honestly I don't now how to go on despite the fact that he is a very nice man. 1.he basically can't answer any of my questions. Either he doe...

A.   10 July 2014: My last ex had ADHD or ADD (can't remember which, or it could have been both) After 3 yrs of dating him I simply couldn't cope with it anymore. Most times, I felt like his mother with having to "remember" or just "do" things for him, that say, a ... (read in full...)

I want to go to my boyfriend's mother's wedding but my OCD puts me off the pets in her house, what do I do?

Q.   It is my boyfriend's mother's wedding and I am invited to go. If I go, I would need to stay at her house. She lives in another country. There are no hotels or even transportation around, not to mention it is one of the more expensive countries in ...

A.   14 June 2014: Hey all, Thanks for the replies. In response to some of the posts, I do not have a form of OCD that requires medical consultation. My OCD is mainly about eating in terms of liking where I will eat to be clean. I won't eat street food in T... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!

Q.   i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...

A.   26 June 2007: I posted a comment here a while ago but seems it never got approved. Anyway it said firstly that I think people should stop the name calling and bickering on here. We need a bit more respect for each other - if some people choose to live their lives ... (read in full...)

Am I stupid?

Q.   My question is, am I stupid, or all these events may be taken to mean that she was interested in more than friendship? While I was traveling with a group of Canadians, because of my work, I met someone I very much liked, who I will call Girl A...

A.   16 June 2007: This is probably not the answer that you want to hear but it seems as though she said it all by "...she said I had crossed the boundary "knowing she didn't love me"...." I do not think she is in Love with you. If you truly love someone you will not ... (read in full...)

Went on a break with my girlfriend, now there's another girl involved.

Q.   a few of months ago my ex girlfriends mum past away and she told she needs a break from this relationship so i said it was ok but after 2 months i thought we weren't gonna get back together so i got another girlfriend and ive started to love her but ...

A.   16 June 2007: I think you should be honest with your ex gf and tell her that you are currently involved with someone else. That way she knows where she stands first of all. It is hard for anyone to tell you which one to pick as only you will know in your heart ... (read in full...)

Should I get him a fathers day gift even though hes not the biological father ?

Q.   hey. well im 15, i was 15 in march just gone and i have the bestest boyfriend in the whole wide world. ever. and i love him lots and lots. we have the sweetest most beautiful baby girl, who is just 6 weeks old named taylor and she is adorable. we ...

A.   14 June 2007: hey-well i think you are very brave and mature given you had a child so young. It is really admirable that your boyfriend is supporting you through this. A father is the one that looks after and cares for the child - not the "sperm doner". So your ... (read in full...)

What are the dating rules for belching and farting?

Q.   I need your help. I have started the process of dating after being widowed. I am now in my mid 40's and dating has changed significantly... I recently met a man online and we have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Things are going...

A.   13 June 2007: Lol well I think relationship is partly taking other person feelings into account - tell him how you feel and that it makes you uncomfortable in public. He should respect how you feel and try to not do it to make you feel awkard. Good luck... (read in full...)

I care about him but don't love him... how can I let him down gently?

Q.   I am involved with a man whom I have had a child with. I care about him but do not love him. I am concerned about hurting him if I tell him I would like to be friends but I don't want a future with him. How can I end this without feeling ...

A.   13 June 2007: I think it is unfair to do that to him. He is probably a nice man and deserved to be loved in that way. Someone dear to me right now who is in a relationship with someone that doesn't love her - she does everything possible for this man. Everyone ... (read in full...)

We f*ck, we s*ag, we s*rew each other senseless... but we don't "make love" - is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I think i have a problem. My husband and i were discussing our sex life and he said that we have NEVER "made love". Come to think of it...i have never been able to make love to anyone? Is there something wrong with me? i Love having sex- don't get ...

A.   13 June 2007: There is no guideline on how we should or shouldn't make love. I say do what you feel is right for you - if that is what you like and you in a stable relationship, then there is nothing wrong with it. Perhaps discuss with your husband what he would ... (read in full...)

What are the percentage of people who engage in oral and anal sex?

Q.   hello everyone. i have been noticing a dramtic increase in anal and oral sex among teens. being an adolescent i see alot of my peers engaging in these activities. i know that the percentage is probably higher in adults. being a total virgin (in...

A.   13 June 2007: I have no idea on percentages but I say that you should not be forced into anything you do not want to. Do not abide by peer pressure but do what you feel is right! Give yourself time and when you meet the right person they should respect your ... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!

Q.   i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...

A.   12 June 2007: I know of someone in a similar situation but it’s a slightly different angle.My friend’s father was married but his wife couldn’t have children.His father end up having an affair and the woman got pregnant. Instead they all decided to live together ... (read in full...)

Why do attractive women have problems finding a man?

Q.   So ... I have a good question for everyone. I was going through this question over and over with my good friends, that have the same problem .... Why do actractive women have problems finding a man? I don't think that me or my girlfriends ...

A.   11 June 2007: Well I believe men are intimidated by beautiful women-even more so if you are beautiful as well as intelligent! Some guys are after a girl that may be easy to get into bed and easy to control. Which you are obviously not! I say that you wait until ... (read in full...)

How often is too often? (Sex wise?)

Q.   How often is too often? I recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend, we have sex every night if we are together and things are great..should we be slowing down? I am in Europe for a few months ( havent seen him in over a month, so obviously no ...

A.   11 June 2007: There is no guide that syas how many times you should or shouldnt have sex.If you both feel the urge go for it! And if you are going to be away then sure no problem for making up for all those times when you are not getting any!Good Luck!... (read in full...)

With my boyfriend for 3 years but never orgasmed from intercourse.

Q.   okay so i have been with the boyfriend for like 3 years and i have never orgasmed from intercourse.but ive been faking it all this time - he makes me orgasm from other things of course. i do love having sex with him and it feels great but i never ...

A.   11 June 2007: Well you said you are able to orgasm through other ways so you are still receiving pleasure. Only a very very small percentage of women are able to orgasm from JUST intercourse alone so you are one of many that experience this. Maybe you should try ... (read in full...)

Is this RAPE???

Q.   I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out ...

A.   11 June 2007: He sounds very selfish and self centred-not the kind of guy you probably want to be with long term. Ok so sometimes you say no to sex then after a bit of playful teasing etc you get turned on and change your mind-that's different. But here you ... (read in full...)

I'm bisexual but have a boyfriend, do I stay with him or go with the girl I like?

Q.   hello im 16 and i dont know what to do. im in a relationship with my boyfriend and i just dont feel the same round him any more i know im bisexual and theres this girl i really like but i just dont know weather or not i should break up with my ...

A.   11 June 2007: There are bisexual women who can have a seperate girlfriend and also a seperate boyfriend-being bisexual is really difficult but I suggest speak to your boyfriend and discussing things with him-you never know he may be supportive about it. Good luck... (read in full...)

Who was this girl on his phone and do you think he's been cheating with her?

Q.   I cheated on my bf over a year a go now. It was only a kiss but he forgave me and we have been happy together. Earlier today I was borrowing his fone to text my sister, (this was with his permission), when you go to send the message it has a...

A.   11 June 2007: I think people who cheat and are forgiven-they are always paranoid that their partner will try to have one up on them-maybe alot of this has to do with your own guilt or feeling like you are not worthy to be forgiven and that he will tyr to get you ... (read in full...)

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