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writes:a few of months ago my ex girlfriends mum past away and she told she needs a break from this relationship so i said it was ok but after 2 months i thought we weren't gonna get back together so i got another girlfriend and ive started to love her but my ex girlfriend just told me she loves me and wants to get back with me and i still have feelings for her but i dont know which girl to choose plz help
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 i think that u should take some time for yourself and try and figure out who means more to you.try and imagine losing them forever - which scenario is worse?!u may need to talk to your 'ex' and let her know how u were in a difficult situation.to be honest u cant be in love with 2 ppl so u just need to dig down deep and only u will know who ur meant to be with
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 June 2007):
 If you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend then I suggest you take some space from your present girlfriend. Be on your own for a couple of weeks to see who you miss the most. By the end of 2 weeks you'll know for sure who you want to be with. Tell them both you need 2 weeks to yourself, you don't need to give reasons if you don't want to until you're sure who you want to be with. Once you decide, then you tell the other.
Eve
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (16 June 2007):
 what a difficult situation to be in!
This is very difficult for you to decide.. so you are starting to fall in love with the new girl, and your 'ex' says she wants you back.
To be honest hun I think that you should carry on with the new girl and not go back. You know you will probably always have a soft spot for the first girl, but that doesn't mean that your relationship will be so easy to re-build. I'm not being funny but how do you know that she won't just keep pushing you away when things get difficult for her?
You have started to move on from this relationship and started to fall in love with the new girl, you shouldn't feel obliged to go back to your ex because of what she has been through. If you go back to your ex it needs to be because you feel the same way about her as she does you.
I'm not really sure if this has helped you make your mind up, but maybe this is one that you need to get lots of different points of views about to try and help you sort through the confusion, but at the end of the day you are the one who is going to have to decide what way you are going to turn....
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reader, heyheyhey +, writes (16 June 2007):
 I think you should be honest with your ex gf and tell her that you are currently involved with someone else. That way she knows where she stands first of all. It is hard for anyone to tell you which one to pick as only you will know in your heart who you want to be with. Most importantly- do not cheat whilst doing this! If that is what you are tempted to do, it is best to end it with the first one before. If you cheat and stay with the current one, she may split with you anyway if she finds out. IF you cheat and go back with the ex-your relationship will be based on a lie and she will always question if you would do the same to her. Good luck
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