I fantasise about men but the thought of doing it for real it repulses me...am I gay??
Q. I fantasise about being with men all the time, more than women. I also fantasise about being a woman satisfying men but when it comes to doing it for real the thought repulses me. Is this normal, am i gay?...
A. 7 December 2007: Hey ! being Gay is a choice , you are not born gay or all the sudden become gay ! You can be having these thoughts for many deferent reasons ...have you ever been sexly abused ? Do you have or have had a male role model in your life ? basicaly there ... (read in full...)
Do oral or anal or sex provoke pregnancies?
Q. I'm in a relationship and I was wondering can you get pregnant by putting the boys penis in your mouth? and could you get pregnant if the boy puts his penis in your ass?...
A. 7 December 2007: Yes yes yes yes !!!! you can get pregnant ! I do agree that you are tooo young to be thinking about this but the answer is YES ! If you have annal sex and there is any leakage of semon that may find its way to the vagina or if you are having oral ... (read in full...)
Love triangle problem. Please help.
Q. If a wife split from her husband (and have a nr 2 year old lil girl) and where seperated ,the wife met a guy just before the split and instantly clicked and relised they where each others ideal person in this world ,soul mate's's blah blah ,and ...
A. 7 December 2007: No ! He should not continue the relationship . No he still should not stay in the relationship and Yes talk to the husband and do him a favoir , let him know what he is married to !And for what its worth .... Stay away from this woman !... (read in full...)
I want to stop the swinging now, how can I convince my wife to stop too?...
Q. hi i'm 43 years old male married, my wife and i started swinging 3 years ago with a couple, the sex was good and we enjoyed it, the problem is the couple split 2 months ago but the guy keeps coming, i allowed it cuz my wife enjoys it. i want to...
A. 7 December 2007: Im not a swinger But my ex husband was very into the " three some thing" ( me , him and other women ) I went with his wishes for years ( then he started to see these women behind my back ect . He was a major player to start with , so i only did it i ... (read in full...)
I've got back involved with the man who has always had my heart... But now I'm not sure it was a good idea. What do you think?
Q. I used to date this guy 13 years ago, 6 months ago he sent a message to me out of town through my parents. I hesitated to call because he was one that has always had my heart. Eventually I called and i was going through a rough relationship at that ...
A. 6 December 2007: Im sorry to say this but this guy sounds just like my ex Husband and he is the biggest player in the book ! HE cheated on me for years and I finally divorced him a few years ago . He uses that line about being hurt by ME to get his other women, ... (read in full...)
Recently I have been stressing for no reason. How can I cheer up?
Q. i am 14 years old and i feel really down for no reason my lifes normal yet i feel old and boring.i usally feel on top of the world great and happy. but recently i have been stressing for no reason.how can i perk up a little? am i old? will i ...
A. 6 December 2007: most likely its your " teen hormons " that are making you feel this way ! hormons change , and you have mood swings , and sometimes mild depression at this age .alot can depend on rather you have started having a menstral cycle yet ( your period ) ... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant and still have periods?
Q. Hey guys, i just wanna know if you can be pregnant, but still have periods? Ive had 2 periods but every other symptom!! Thanks xx...
A. 6 December 2007: Yes you can be pregnant and have a period ! so you should take a preg. test asap. sometimes having a period could be a sign of a tubale pregnantcy .... (read in full...)
I'm attractive, athletic and confident but I've never had a gf! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Here's the situation - I'm 20, fairly athletic, my friends who are girls say I'm attractive, I'm fairly confident, and have a good sense of humour, and I can keep a converstaion going by asking questions and getting involved. Yet I have never had a ...
A. 5 December 2007: I think you should ask the girls that are your friends , the know you and your personality ask them to be honest with you and im sure that they would be willing to give you some advice ! And always remember , that there is nothing wrong with you , ... (read in full...)
She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?
Q. Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that ...
A. 5 December 2007: I think her issue is a christian and a moral one ! Witch in my oppinion is great ! sounds like you have a wonderful girl But I also understand what you need too , so my suggestion would be for the two of you to talk to a pastor or prest and get an ... (read in full...)
My ex is stalking me but the guy I dumped him for slept with my best friend!!
Q. Argh! I don't know what to do anymore. I think i'm losing it. I'm just completely depressed. I just dumped my boyfriend for this other guy as bitchy as it sounds. And he's like stalking me! The guy i dumped him for had sex with one of my best f...
A. 5 December 2007: Im unsure which one is stalking you but stay away from him and the one that cheated on you ... Bad news ! Dont let other people and what they say or think , get to you ! they dont walk in your shoes and the last time I looked ,God made No one ... (read in full...)
He can't perform and says it isn't me but it hasn't happened before...what's wrong??
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a little over a month. A couple of weeks ago we tried having sex for the first time, we didnt succeed. He got hard but it went limp again. The next day we tried again, and the same thing happend. Finally ...
A. 5 December 2007: this happened to me me and my boyfriend at that age . we both freaked out over it , he thought something was wrong with him and i thought it was me . it didnt take long and everything got back to norm. just dont try so hard and make it a big deal , ... (read in full...)
Is he going to break up with me??
Q. My boyfriend has been very depressed lately and he has been starting fights with me all of the time over small things......like making mountains out of mole hills. He recently told me that he needed some space and time to think about everythi...
A. 5 December 2007: in this case , i think that there is something else bothering him . if he is going to seek counciling for it ,I would suggest that you give him his space but let him know that you care and will be there for him if he needs you .and just dont freak ... (read in full...)
Cliche love triangle...
Q. hey, my problem is quite cliche really. Basically, I have a boyfriend, I'm seventeen, he's eighteen, we have been together for 6 months. We have a laugh together, and I do enjoy spending time with him but after 6 months of trying to convince...
A. 4 December 2007: First of all you need to break it off with your boyfriend because if you dont love him then neither of you will ever be happy with each other !Why continue something that is not what YOU want ? Second I think you should talk to your girlfriend and ... (read in full...)
This has gone on long enough...
Q. I am having a complete dilema relationship wise. Roughly 2 years ago I met a guy and we had good chemistry. We spent time together, however it was when it suited him [around once a month or so]. In between meetings we would email each other, the ...
A. 4 December 2007: It will take time to get over someone you love BUT believe me you can and will !!! First thing , stop putting yourself through the misarry of talking to him anymore .. If he wanted a relationship with you he would be having one. ( not being mean to ... (read in full...)
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