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My fiance lied to me about his health

Q.   Dear cupid , Ive been engaged for a year now , my fiance and i we're supposed to get married at the end of this year , but last minute he drops a bomb on me saying that he has financle issues he needs to take care of and cannot get married this yea...

A.   5 March 2018: He's defensive; hiding something he didn't want you to know. Maybe there are other secrets waiting to be revealed. If it were me I'd probably call it quits... that's hard because you love him.But if you're still In the game get a professi... (read in full...)

Should I be ticked hubby didn't say I love you after I said it to him?

Q.   Hubby of 5 years and I spent a lovely weekend together. Left the kids with his mom and took a romantic weekend for ourselves. It was fun and passionate until..... I told him "I love you." He didn't say it back because he doesn't want it to be...

A.   3 March 2018: Oh please husband just say it. Stop over thinking .. Get over yourself ... there are larger issues to contemplate than wondering if you can "over Express love" to someone you're suppose to be in love with!! OP I'd be a bit taken back too. ... (read in full...)

My husband said he would have broken up with me if we weren't married

Q.   I had a huge fight with my husband - married 1.5 years but toegthwr 5 years. He just told me that he would be broken up with me if we werent married. I asked him if he really means it and he said yes. Im 6 weeks pregnant so he calls me up just...

A.   25 February 2018: Not having a lot of facts it's hard to Address the issue. But from what I've Gathered the comment might have been made in the heat of the moment ... it could be he did not mean it? Has he apologized? But you can't erase words and they were ve... (read in full...)

I feel worse after breaking up with my married lover

Q.   I finally pulled the plug and broke up with my married lover but now i feel worse. I am having an extremely hard time getting over it. It was an ugly break up and even though he begged to remain friends and promised to be the man i met in the beg...

A.   24 February 2018: You blocked his FB page ... score! ??????were all cheering you in as you move forward. ... (read in full...)

I feel worse after breaking up with my married lover

Q.   I finally pulled the plug and broke up with my married lover but now i feel worse. I am having an extremely hard time getting over it. It was an ugly break up and even though he begged to remain friends and promised to be the man i met in the beg...

A.   23 February 2018: My take... breaking up seems to often precipitate Mixed emotions ...you loved and probably still Love this man? Sounds like you do. Did he love you? Well I can't answer that. It sounds like he did very much. I know you can be in love with two pe... (read in full...)

I got dumped and I know how to survive a breakup and didn't know I could

Q.   Well, as the story goes; people all over the world in different languages, know how it feels to get dumped. Generally it stinks. In my case; there was a lot of fun. No real arguments, and being two very mature people; we are well-schooled, a...

A.   23 February 2018: Great post ... wise words TY... (read in full...)

What's the deal with shy guy?

Q.   This shy guy in my evening class is always nervous around me. One day in class another guy asked this shy guy if he has a girlfriend. The shy guy with a big smile on his face said Yes but then he looked at me and said No I don't have a girlfrie...

A.   23 February 2018: I think he's nervous because he likes you...perhaps He's not dated much? Break the ice with Some common ground conversation .. You're in the same class...open the discussion Why are you taking the course? Get him to talk about himself by leadi... (read in full...)

How soon is too soon to fall in love?

Q.   I met a guy we're both in our 30s. He gave me his number once, i never called him and then a couple weeks later he approached me agian, we exchanged numbers and talked/texted all day. I think he's cool! The next day he asked me out. I said i wanted ...

A.   22 February 2018: First of all he sounds nice ... but in this day and age I would have a professional background check done. Sound extreme... not in this day and age . You can see if he's a player on the internet, Criminal records etc he moving way too fast. Y... (read in full...)

Ex says he wants to be friends. Why?

Q.   Long story short, my ex-boyfriend and I dated for almost a year. We broke up a week ago due to the fact that he got a job offer far away. We both kind of chose not to do long distance and that's that, he leaves in a few months. He texted me today ...

A.   22 February 2018: Sometimes when you ignore a guy that Brings him back.... gives him time to reflect what he lost. Can you be friends? That's a loaded question . Are you attracted to him and vice versa ? Then no the emotions will dictate physical contact . If yo... (read in full...)

He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go

Q.   I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him o...

A.   26 June 2017: He sounds like he's either already an alcoholic or in the lab To be one. This most likely will not get better. He's calling you names and condescending... you And your song deserve better. Your child is not immune To his environment; sec... (read in full...)

Is it right for me to settle for this man?

Q.   I am dating this guy he is a friend who has loved me for years. I love him as a person but am not sexually attracted to him. I have a list of reasons for staying and a list for leaving I want people's opinions: staying: He really likes me a...

A.   12 June 2017: Wow first are your hormones in balance as that has a lot to do with sex drive. Not being atttracted to him from the get go is concerning because the intense sexual attraction. Will usually diminish over time and the commitment Phase settles in. ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you" after an argument?

Q.   What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you _____ (my name)"? We had an argument on the phone last night about his hot and cold behavior with me which has been pretty consistent throughout our entire relationship (pr...

A.   20 April 2017: Take it face value ... he loves you .. trying To re assure... (read in full...)

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