Any tips for approaching my crush?
Q. I recently had a dream that I was getting married, well kinda. Well for some reason I was at my middle school ( currently in the 10th) and there was this semi long hall way to get to te front doors. Well I was walking towards the front doors and ...
A. 30 May 2014: Well, I just searched for what marriage in a dream meant and I found this on DreamMoods "To see a marriage in your dream, signifies commitment, harmony or transitional period. You are undergoing an important developmental phase in your life." But ... (read in full...)
She never replied to a really long message I sent and now I don't know how to act around her
Q. i met this girl a workshop at college months ago and i thought she was really pretty but i chickened out and we didn't speak afterwardsIsaw her vaguely around college but she was always with friendsand far away so nothing happened. however a coup...
A. 15 May 2014: Were you possibly giving her vibes that you wanted to start a relationship with her? Possibly, that could have put her off. Be careful of the language you use when speaking to her. Also, have you considered that she may not have even seen the ... (read in full...)
My crush barely knows I exist
Q. Hi, I'm sure everybody is absolutely sick of this question, but I would really thank you for answering. I'm a new girl at school and I'm extremely shy and introverted though I have found wonderful friends (somehow). A month or so back there was this...
A. 7 November 2012: I understand how you feel right now! Firstly, do any of your new friends know him maybe? If so, perhaps they could talk to him for you? Or, if you're on any social networks, maybe he is too, friend him on there and start chatting if you feel brave ... (read in full...)
Three really cute boys in my class. Good, yes? No! Because they are Bullying me. What can I do to stop them bullying me?
Q. Ok so there are these three boys in my class and they are really cute and I have a big crush on one of them. And those three boys are always bullying me. I have to sit near two of them in class and they are so annoying. The one I have a crush on...
A. 11 October 2012: You need to stand up for yourself! Don't let boys like that walk all over you, just because they know people like them, they think it's okay to act better than everyone else. Believe me, unless they grow up anytime soon and start actually talking ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to tell my students that I am pregnant?
Q. I'm a 29 year-old woman and I recently found out that I am expecting. I'm a teacher, so is my husband, and we work at the same high school. We've been married for 15 months. I'm fairly skinny and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I haven't starting ...
A. 7 October 2012: hello! I'm in year 10, which I think is 9th grade in America? Anyway, I don't really know about if you're supposed to tell the headteacher or something about it first, I have no knowledge on the work side of things but I have experience from a ... (read in full...)
Help! Any tips on making a presentation to my class on Thursday, and how to be confident and calm my nerves?
Q. So i have to do a pitch in front of my class on thursday and i'm really shy and nervous. Any advice or tips on how to calm my nerves and build my confidence up for it. ...
A. 2 October 2012: I'm shy and find that I am always racked with nerves whenever I have a presentation to do or a script or monologue in drama. Main thing is to make sure you are prepared! You'll feel way more confident if you know what you're supposed to be saying or ... (read in full...)
What would you do in my place? He was my FWB but then he cheated on me. But then we had words and everything went downhill from then.
Q. There is something that happened some 5 months ago between a guy and me. We were very good and close friends, so close we ended up being FWB. It was very wrong I know and it turned out bad, as such, since I fell in love with him. While we were ...
A. 2 October 2012: Pure and simple, just leave it! I agree with everything Cerberus said. You've just got to learn to move on from this, new people come and go all the time, please don't get hung up on some guy that obviously didn't appreciate you. You're better than ... (read in full...)
Really heavy menstrual bleeding. Is this normal for my age?
Q. I'm fourteen, and I've had my period since I was 11. It's been on and off which I know is normal, but it's recently settled down, and this month I've had a really long, heavy period. It started on the 11th and hasn't stopped since. It started off ...
A. 27 September 2012: I'm 14 and have had my period since I was 10 and also sometimes experience longer than usual periods, and very very heavy ones. I don't want to frighten you or anything but you should definitely go and get checked out by a doctor! Who knows, maybe ... (read in full...)
My friends always exclude me and it's tearing me apart.
Q. My friends have started to exclude me from outings and alienating me or acting as if I'm not even there. I haven't done anything to hurt anyone, I don't even bitch about people, I'm usually just a by stander as my other friends bitch. I don't ...
A. 10 September 2012: I know exactly how you feel, I've been left out of my group of friends countless amounts of times. I know how horrible and down putting it feels. Sometimes I put it down to my friends just being their ignorant and careless selves but other times I ... (read in full...)
I laugh whenever my boyfriend gets mad at me, why?
Q. For some odd reason, I tend to laugh whenever my boyfriend gets mad at me. I don't do it intentionally, it just happens and it's uncontrollable. While I'm laughing he gets even more mad, and I really have to try hard to stop laughing by smirking but ...
A. 9 September 2012: I do exactly the same thing when anyone is mad at me, I think it's just due to nervousness or awkwardness. It's not like I'm mocking the person or situation, I'm just prone to laughing or smirking! Best thing is to tell your boyfriend when you're ... (read in full...)
We were flirting once upon a time but haven't spoken since. Will this be awkward when I see him again?
Q. I'm going for a meal with my friend and her friends as her friend is leaving for uni. However myself and one of the guys that is going had a phase of flirting, texting and that sort of stuff but haven't spoke since and I think it's going to be ...
A. 8 September 2012: I've experienced exactly the same thing! Definitely lay off the flirting, because he could've just forgotten about it all whereas you have not. I don't think guys see it as such a big deal as us girls do, he might've even started flirting with a few ... (read in full...)
I don't know what she's expecting, if anything
Q. Before college ended for the summer I met someone and we were dating for about a week and it was really good, but we've been unable to meet because of distance. Anyway, we've texted a bit, but she seems to have lost interest in me, she says because ...
A. 8 September 2012: Well considering you've only been texting and not like actually talking to each other or meeting up or anything she's bound to have lost some kind of interest. The reason she's lost interest is probably because of the lack of interaction between the ... (read in full...)
I have really bad acne scars and I'm losing all self confidence over them.
Q. I have really bad skin and it's really getting me down. I have acne scars and a few spots, but more scars and it has started to really get to me. I also have dry skin so wearing make-up to cover it doesn't help, it just makes my skin look really...
A. 2 September 2012: I don't really know for some acne remedies because thankfully it hasn't got me yet but I have had hell with dry skin. I know what you mean with the makeup thing, whenever I apply foundation it just starts to cake within the areas of dry skin and ... (read in full...)
It hurts so much that we were once friends but now we aren't
Q. I had a bad friendship break up 4 years ago, that still bothers me to this day. 4 Years ago, i was best friends with this girl named Kayla for about a year and 1/2. She was the first person I opened up too, Gave her my heart, and let her know ...
A. 2 September 2012: Hey, I think you got to remember that you've just started high school and there's plenty of new friends and memories to be made!(I'm from the UK so I have no idea about sophomores thingies/grades/etc etc) You should be meeting new people right? ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my friend how I feel but I'm afraid of rejection!
Q. I'm so confused and frustrated. I am in love with my best friend, okay, maybe not in love, well yeah... I love him. He has told me before that he doesn't like me like that, but it was ages ago and people tell me he might think differently now. Bef...
A. 31 August 2012: I'll offer my word, just what I think : First off I think it's very sweet you two have such a close friendship, perhaps a friendship tight enough to last through such a phase, sorry if you feel offended by the fact I've regarded you loving him as ... (read in full...)
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