Why do I feel old at age 21? I feel like I should have kids already!
Q. I just turned 21 and all of a sudden I feel I am geting too old. I want to start having kids, I have been watching amazing deliveries on tv. Most of my cousins already have kids and they are arund my age. I only have 2 years of college left and I ...
A. 1 August 2008: I totally know how you feel about getting old, I'll be 21 in a few months and you feel like "whoa, my teenage-ism is gone, and pretty soon I'll be one of those older 20-somethings who hangs around with the young 20-somethings".
There's nothing ... (read in full...)
How long will it take for her to enjoy sex after losing her V card?
Q. Ok me and my girlfriend recently had sex.. And she said it really hurt.. How long will it take for her to enjoy sex?...
A. 21 July 2008: Give her a few days between the next session of intercourse for the torn hymen to heal a bit (it will be irritated and sore for about one to three days) and ALWAYS get her permission before you have sex! Try pleasuring her with oral or fingering ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says there are rumours my new guy has HIV. Is he lying? If not, what are the risks for me?
Q. I just met this boy, his name is Derrick. Even though, I don't know him as well as I'd like to. He has really seem to grow on me and I think that someday our relationship could go a step further. Well at least, I'd like to hope so. A previous boy...
A. 4 July 2008: You can get HIV from protected sex and from oral sex. It's a difficult virus to avoid because it thrives in bodily fluids such as blood, mucus and yes semen. But condoms won't prevent you catching it %100.
If you decide to take EITHER rela... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I have cancer
Q. Im really scared that I have cancer when I go to the toilet for a number 2 there is blood there it is bright red and it can be quite alot. Also there is mucus there too quite a bit of it and when I need to pass wind there is always mucus that comes ...
A. 4 July 2008: 1. Eat lots of green vegetables as they will help relax your bowels so you can figure out whether this is constipation or something more serious. Perhaps try a fibre drink and cut out meat, carbs and fatty foods from your diet for a while. 2. I... (read in full...)
Should I give him up as a lost cause?
Q. Hi, I'll try and keep this short.. I'd really appreciate some other peoples opinions on this, especially guys. My last relationship ended in Jan this year - we were together 2 years and engaged, it was a messy break up and I got hurt pretty bad. My ...
A. 4 July 2008: There could be a reason why he hasn't had a serious relationship since his fiance left him seven years ago - because he's still not 'over it'. His work sounds like a real obstacle in letting you get to know him better and it doesn't sound like he's ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?
Q. Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...
A. 2 July 2008: Okay dear, you might say to yourself 'my man isn't a paedophile, he loves me just the way I am even if I am this young'.
But seriously. HE IS OLD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR FATHER.
There is NOTHING you can LEGALLY do with him at your age. If you have... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 2 July 2008: No no no no no this is not good or normal!
Your step father is your STEP FATHER, not someone to share masturbation with. Masturbation is a private act, and if it is to be shared with ANYBODY, it should be a partner and not a family member! ... (read in full...)
A whirlwind romance and six years marriage, and I'm now regretting it. Any advice?
Q. I have been married for nearly 6 years, a whirlwind romance which I am now regretting. I am a Foster Mother who stays at home as that is what is requested by the agengy I work for. My husband hurls abuse that I am a lazy cow, even though I do all ...
A. 2 July 2008: Consult a lawyer right away! Even if the house is in his name, you should be able to organise a seperation where you won't lose your foster kids (since you said you are currently earning more than he is). Remember lawyers know their way around ... (read in full...)
His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?
Q. hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...
A. 1 March 2008: You're probably not going to like this advice, but maybe you should try playing a video game with him? Ask him more about what he's playing, what the purpose is, how to play, etc. My boyfriend plays video games a lot, and he swears there is nothing ... (read in full...)
This spot on my penis has me worried!
Q. Ok, heres the deal.i just noticed a dark spot inside the skin on my penis. I dont know what it is but I think it may be blood or something. I dont jack off to much 1 or 2 times a day isnt bad. But I need to know if it could be some type of disease ...
A. 29 February 2008: My boyfriend once got a massive blue-brown bruise on his penis from masturbating twice in one day, but it didn't hurt at all and disappeared within a week. So it could be just a bruise, blood blister or series of bruises, then again it could be ... (read in full...)
This relationship is Killing Me Softly. Do I get out?
Q. Hey, I've been seeing this girl for 3 and a half years now and I think i'm losing interest in her. I've had the same feeling before, when she told me she thought she liked someone else. I've been thinking about someone else recently and was ...
A. 28 February 2008: You need to ask her whether she is interested THAT WAY in anybody else, and you also need to tell her that you've become interested THAT WAY in someone other than her. Let your conversation from this point flow. You both need to be honest with each ... (read in full...)
How can I get motivated and get my life back?
Q. I'm sixteen years old and for the past six months been smoking cigarettes and weed regularly.I haven't been getting much exercise and have gained a lot of weight, lost motivation to finish getting my high school diploma and been depressed. I also ...
A. 28 February 2008: The first thing I would suggest is that you see a doctor. Get a full check up, get your blood tested (don't worry about the weed in your bloodstream, they're doctors so they can't call the cops, but they will still warn you about it) and write down ... (read in full...)
I'm having seconds thoughts. How can I convince him to put off the wedding?
Q. Me and my other half have been togather three years we have our wedding planned for four months time. Recently i have been having second thoughts. We got together when i was in a very bad time and it's just recently i have been getting back to ...
A. 28 February 2008: Are you really 13-15 years old? If so, I would not reccommend marriage right now! You're still so young. How old is your fiance? If you feel the wedding is being rushed, say so! You have every right to delay the wedding, to call it off, whatever you ... (read in full...)
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